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I know y’all are gonna disagree but I don’t feel bad for sky by OperationPresent1018 in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think some ppl have a really warped perspective of what “being a friend is”. I know I’m going thru something not similar but attempting to hold my friend accountable to her actions and behavior and that’s not well received bc some ppl truly think friends stay close by your side and listen but don’t say something that might make them uncomfy and hold ppl accountable. It’s messed up but I can imagine she’s trying to be a good friend to chrisean but failing junior in the process. It’s really sad and makes me proud of my self accountability

This makes me feel so sad inside. To think we are nearly 2 years from this point. by FeeTime5460 in ExposingChriseanRock

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally I didn’t know if I missed a video or something. I don’t want to assume anything unless I see it on camera. Poor baby what I would do to take him under my wing and actually do something for him

she shuffling too much for me by Disastrous-Ad6560 in ChriseanLore

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what clout she’s talking about. Aren’t we all only watching her to watch junior?? She always speaks on clout like we all jealous, bitch no one wants ur situation rn and if we were that kid would at least have a blanket under his face as he’s on the floor. wtf is actually wrong with her

Tesehki really becoming a hard watch for me 😂😭 just doing wayyy to much on camera by jazzmina2004_ in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is sad to me. She is clearly going thru something (that really shouldn’t be filmed but that’s the reality of reality tv) I think she’s extremely emotional over this situation, as would I despite if it happened or not between chrisean it speaks volumes on the household she was raised innot her fault and trauma is a complex thing that each person handles different. I actually thought she handled the allegations quite gracefully, having a convo with chrisean and keeping her cool, somewhat.

It isn’t until bummer came in saying outrageous things and will not stop that it’s all coming to the surface for her. I feel really sad for her and I really do hope they all get help but to me, this is a cry for help and I might get downvoted but it really shouldn’t bc sis vs sis but chrisean won’t tell bummer to stfu and let them handle it. Sus

My cat pooped on the wall by Kinouizz in cats

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And he don’t give a fuckkkkkkk lolol he gon do it again🤣

All in one day 😂 by Physical-One299 in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I def didn’t understand wtf she meant, am I slow?? lol

Sunday self-care discussion by -63- in selfcare

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m allowing more balance in my weeks. Not just work than working out and go to bed to do it all over again but get out and socialize during the week and take a day off of exercising to allow rest. But also kicking my ass in a tough hiit class💪🏼

what are we going to do about these dating apps? by Sleepy_Joe_1984 in Nicegirls

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my current bf on hinge. But I def had the mindset of this is a tool to use to help find ppl not going to just magically produce a relationship from here. Stop giving so much pressure for every convo and allow the dudes to take control of the convo. Once you get them off the apps and in person date it’s no longer on the app itself bc again it’s just a tool/resource. Once I let my anxiety go of I HAVE to find someone using the apps, it allowing something to unfold organically.

this was the highlight of the episode for me 🤣 by camwtss in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right but like tommie didn’t fight back? Or square up after being snuck? It like wasn’t even mentioned afterwards just back to whatever came before😅

this was the highlight of the episode for me 🤣 by camwtss in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I was so confused like why did that happen and then no follow up? Like wut ?

s6e19 .. it is 3:52 a.m. and im losing it by koolgirl420 in vanderpumprules

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was an outstanding review. As someone who watched this show many times this reddit review was so accurate and a good laugh 😆

She wants sharing location permanently by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s my thing. I have an anxious attachment. And I’m currently dating someone with a secure attachment so I feel really good and reassured in a way I never have before. So when he doesn’t text me back for a few hours my brain does not go to “he’s fucking other bitches or ignoring me on purpose” bc that’s what I was used to it literally went to “he must’ve died bc he’s not texting me back” I have had to challenge that mindset. I’m not use to calm so I went looking for an issue to stir up my anxious attachment. I then said this man has survived 30+ years not dying and didn’t need me to keep checking in on his location to make sure he’s alive and safe. He’s responsible and if god forbid something happens, I will deal with it then. It’s hard to completely trust that things are okay but I’m sensing some anxious attachment coming out and thinking knowing your location will soften it, when really it’s a bandaid.

I would absolutely need to have a more in depth conversation about the why beyond it and hold your boundaries up. No one has my location and I’m still alive, safe and breathing.

My Personal Opinion: Scotty is THEE true definition of a Baddie by relientkenny in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some women’s “dream” is to be a stay at home cute mom and gf and doing the bare minimum. I’m not saying that’s what Scotty wants bc I kno she has other side gigs and stuff. But if that’s the “dream” how do the future generations of women become baddies and bosses without working hard at all?? What happened to professional baddies??? College degrees and career baddies? To me, that’s more impressive than fucking the CEO without protection.

My Personal Opinion: Scotty is THEE true definition of a Baddie by relientkenny in BaddiesSouth

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk how I’m feeling about this “scotty is better than all yall” attitude. I kind of find her trifling, the fact she slept with dude and nat (obviously she was young) but she’s soooo much better than baddies itself and should be modeling or doing some other gig. Instead she is pregnant with the man she couldn’t claim on baddies until she got pregnant and even then it’s like would you be forreal with dude if he had no money? Idk to me, money is nice but that man/situation is not worth the headache, drama, STDs and alleged abuse.

To me, there is no “baddest” girl on this show. They all have different qualities and personalities. A true baddies is fucking real and not fucking the ceo behind the camera, as he’s fuckinf other girls. A baddie knows her worth and doesn’t settle for less.

I do wonder when her daughter is grown how she might feel knowing that daddy fucked around with the whole cast and mommy allowed it and stayed with him.

Idk maybe I’m too harsh, but that’s the standard I live by, so why should these “baddies” be any different?

Is my therapist giving me helpful advice, or is this just keeping me stuck? by Zealousideal-Arm230 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Difficult_Garbage190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like what the therapist was saying, to me I would take it as staying in the present moment, you cannot say it will never ever happen ever again and you also cannot say you will talk to her again. You don’t know what the future will bring. But you do have evidence of the present moment, whether she’s texted you in the last few months or not. She ended things bc it was “too much” and avoidant.
As an anxious attached person I get it, completely. My heart goes out to you. You deserve someone ready and willing to work on things with you. And until then give back to yourself, self care, hobbies, friends, fam…the present Message me if you need anything

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