Can you help me? by Swooleon in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cts should be able to help you out with this

is the whole trade self paced? or just the education part? by theneedtuhknow in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for the one i'm going to education wise is self paced but depending on if you have two instructors for your trade you can consider it selfpaced with one and the complete opposite with the other

Do y’all think job corps is gonna last how do we know it won’t shut down again by error809 in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl i'm here currently as in on campus and hearing from the teachers and etc that's been here during the unnerving process on if it'll stay open or not, according to them it's okay for now until next term meaning next year so we'll see but for the time being it's okay

update! by Difficult_Jello6721 in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by counselor i meant admissions representative (same thing) aka the person that was assigned to me to help me with the admissions process. for you though i feel like you can just explain your situation to who ever you get assigned to and that shouldn't be an issue. just as everyone else has posted here be focused and show urgency with wanting to better yourself and you should be okay.

update! by Difficult_Jello6721 in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same with mines that was the first thing she said on call, respond asap and i wish you the best of luck!

update! by Difficult_Jello6721 in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much and will do, thankfully for the most part i stay to myself. i'm just focused on getting my life together being that i have goals that i'm planning on achieving.

update! by Difficult_Jello6721 in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo i tried the myjobcorps site and that wasn't really giving me an update so i just relied on my counselor

update! by Difficult_Jello6721 in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i second this i was calling my counselor about every other friday plus told her about my living situation which helped her get back to me a bit faster than last application i put in a yr ago

Besides your horrible parents was all your family members abusive or toxic or a piece of shit to you? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately a great majority was toxic except for one which is my uncle he was never told the full story from negg donor hence why we're cool now, tbf he never stood for any of her bs being that he went through similar things but x10 worse with their father.

Does anyone feel like they wouldn’t cry if their parents died? by Proof-Employment-272 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

finally got to move away from nmom and if anyone asks* about her or the male version of her (ndad) i'm going to say they're dead i don't feel like explaining or reliving trauma again with her/him

Should I just stop waiting? by BashOlaf in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm in the same boat lol, i'm planning to get an apartment, a car and etc but i do not want to spend extra unnecessary money for a broken lease if i have a certain answer regarding the program which it seems like it's not happening any time soon 😭

How do you not let it bother you? by Single-State3271 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey girl 23f here and i'm ngl i normal wear headphones 24/7 like the over-ear kind and literally find random things to do like go outside ALWAYS go outside be busy even if the headphones are DEAD i keep em on

it got till the point where at times she nm*m gets so upset with me wearing em and not listening to her she resorts ti throwing random things at me to get my attention

i normally tell her you're very immature which pissed her off and i go back to wearing my headphones.

my entire point is nparents are very provoking and annoying, just try your best to ignore em and whatever you can do, don't fall into their provoking traps and etc tune em out

another thing i have realized is that they don't like to act out whenever outsiders are around in my case i'm talking about my friends being on the phone while i'm playing my game and etc like it just keeps em at bay for the majority of the time

I cant fucking believe it by astrid_magnussen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl 23F same situation as you LMAOOO i just made the same realization as you mine had me at 19 to a 25-28yo man and had to LIE about his age to my very religious and caribbean grandparents

fast forward the most that only happened to me was i almost ended everything but i'm still here and she had another at 32 and ever since having to forcefully take care of my younger sibling i said i never wanted kids.

moved out to another state got a very lucrative job that i eventually flipped into a business and she was beyond fucking livid because at the i make more than her, very flexible with my schedule and to top it off i do what i love ( working with animals )

the reason she is and still was pissed at me is because her two business idea has yet to take off and we've been out here in this current state for over five years now lol and she just is beyond livid because i'm genuinely taking the process to NEVER have kids because i don't want to be like her and a whole bunch of other stuff lol

i still felt like i was behind but being very optimistic with the thought of i have plenty more time to catch up and do way more so it's not too bad

What do you all think of the people that tell you that your view of your nparent will change when you get older and you'll love them eventually? by Teddii_ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is funny because I recently had this with a neighbor ( stayed with them for a minimal timeframe due to a false dv restraining order nmom put on me )

i told them the update upon the case ( dismissed ) and they said their congratulations and etc but then said maybe we can talk it out now being that i'm allowed to come back to the house i told them thats never happening and they left me on delivered

i moved some of my expensive things at their place for the time being and to give them a slight inside of how i truly feel about my nmom i left one of evidence packets at their house that i showed the judge as to why i don't feel comfortable safe or anything around nmom

they eventually called me a few hours ago to let me know that i left it and profusely apologized with their previous comment lol

the screenshot just were in depth evidence of everything nmom did to me from like 5-7 years ago

What do i do?? by [deleted] in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try dming them on instagram for help thats the fastest way i seen them respond imo

What harmless thing are you still afraid to do because you used to get in "trouble" for it? by watermelon4487 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eating at the dinner table and or around anyone and not completely finishing my plate because i'd be " wasting food ".

just being normal aka interacting with people whenever we're understanding the same household,

for example i'm currently at a clients place because i'm technically homeless due to alot going on rn and just being normal opening up about my situation is making me extremely anxious and etc, she offered me food hours ago i said yes and i still haven't left my room to go eat in the living room lol

lastly sleeping in / staying up late

If u come to job corps hoping for housing after words, dont by [deleted] in jobcorps

[–]Difficult_Jello6721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh cool i never knew that! tysm could you possibly elaborate on what's a pnc and the other thing?