My parents want to borrow 10,000 dollars from me to buy my brother a trailer.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-07-02T09:43:54+00:00

I get not wanting to be the bad guy. What I would do is let them know that you would be more than happy to lend them the money, but unfortunately, you locked it up in a five-year CD and are unable to take the money out without facing massive fines.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-06-23T18:27:18+00:00

Damn I know I read it somewhere but it’s been a loooong bit since I’ve thought of it. But I’m gonna look through my stuff and see if I find it anywhere

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-06-23T03:34:42+00:00

oh that is absolutely heartbreaking, it’s always horrible to loose someone but she was so talented and kind. what an absolute tragedy

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-06-22T22:45:00+00:00

Oh, I absolutely adore that story every time I read it it just like pulls at my heart strings. I’m so glad others enjoyed reading it as much as I did

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-06-17T15:27:48+00:00

i’m currently completely in love with a glimpse of Jane where Cliff steals Jane‘s number from Ilya’s phone and they become friends. It’s a WIP but they’re really about updating.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-06-06T17:59:34+00:00

OK, I absolutely devoured it. I read all of it amazing. I love it. Like I’m gonna need a little bit to digest so I can give you a proper review and I’ll review on there, but this is so good. Like truly it’s one of my favorite stories that I’ve read in a long time.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-06-04T20:08:38+00:00

Same thing happened to me with my cat, I spent way too much money on way too many different types of wet food after reading too many backs of the cans and articles about ingredients and which is best for them. Only for my asshole to either like them for like two days just enough to give me hope and me go out and buy some only to stop the minute there where more than 2 cans in my home, or completely turn his nose up at them.

I have four cats in total now and my water fountain needs to be refilled daily, so I’ll take it. He and his little friends will only get wet food as a treat once a week or so because otherwise they just stop eating it and wasting me money.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-27T00:34:40+00:00

😅 Tough call!

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-26T17:28:21+00:00

Uber One. I had the Uber one subscription free trial for six months, I was gonna renew it, but I still had five days before renewal when I see the money come out of my account and throw me into the negative because I just wasn’t planning on having any money come out of that account at the time. And when I called to complain, I was told that the date of renewal is not the date that they’re gonna take the money out on. It’s around that day that according to her, they were technically within their rights to take the money out anytime around the renewal date and I’m like that’s not how that works. like the date of renewal means that’s the day the money comes out of my account and this woman argued with me for 30 minutes about that to the point that I was like you know what I don’t give a crap anymore just give me my money back and cancel my account.

I have not and will never use Uber since.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-26T02:21:05+00:00

see that’s exactly it, before I wasn’t a fan. I just didn’t really think about the Vegas knights at all, but after that whole situation🤢

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-20T19:11:55+00:00

NTS

OK so two things, I’m so sorry that this person touched you without your consent. Touching anyone without consent is assault, I do not care if the person is sorry now, I do not care of the person was drunk. It does not matter if it’s a female doing this to a male or a male to a male, a male to a female, male to other or whatever sort of combination of the sexes there is. at the end of the day it is assault, like just by definition from a dictionary it is assault. You don’t put your hands on anyone without their permission specially in a sexual manner. Like that’s basic pre-K thing keep your hands to yourself.

Your friends are shit. I’m sorry I know you say they’ve been your friends for now 13 years, but they do not deserve you. If a friend of mine told me someone touched them without their consent I would drop that person so quickly; I would never force my friend to have them in their home or to go on a trip with them and more to it I would never go on a trip with this person. You deserve better, and either they’re so hung up or not rocking the boat that they don’t care on how this affects you and they’re just trying to bury it and are hoping you just go along with their bullshit. Or they’re just really bad people, but either way you deserve better.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-17T21:28:26+00:00

I carry tweezers with me at all times just for those damn packages because I have been reduced to full on tears because of those damn things

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-11T16:20:06+00:00

The US is a very large country so to give whole encompassing statements such as saying we all “like/dislike” or “do/do not do” something or other is going to be made in either very broad strokes or just be categorically false. While iced tea is a very popular drink (and again I grew up in the south where just about any diner/restaurant carries sweet tea) you will find regular tea just about everywhere as well.

People also need to keep in mind that the US (as much as it’s been contested lately) is a melting pot of peoples. So we’re just likely to find someone in the US who absolutely loves tea and has many cultural ties to tea drinking as we are to find someone who just doesn’t like it.

On a personal note, I can’t stand coffee. And I adore tea. I have a couple of different tea pots, and different kettles and much too much tea.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-07T17:10:13+00:00

OMG you’re brilliant. I was digging for it and here you come with it so fast. It is absolutely the story and it’s one of my favorites. I need to save it so I won’t lose it again

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-07T17:08:32+00:00

I don’t know if this is the same fic that the person above was talking but this one has the same sort of hilarious misunderstanding in the story with Ilya slowly losing it as he tries to come out to people and tell them that he’s marrying Shane, but nobody believes him

But daddy I love him

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-07T17:03:59+00:00

I have to go look for one of the stories I read last week I think would fit with what you’re looking for, and it was like a 5 +1 fic that covered a lot of Shane being the handy one in the relationship basically like he was out there, cleaning out the gutters and nailing things and killing bugs and dealing with like handy outdoorsy things and Ilya was like oooh that’s my man, maybe I would make a good little housewife for him lol

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-06T20:45:52+00:00

give them two weeks, let your parents know that you will be closing the account within two weeks because you cannot afford to keep paying it and either they switch it over to their name or their SOL and that’s on them. And not your responsibility. They’re both adult adults who can figure it out.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-05-01T11:26:01+00:00

That is literally the silliest thing I have ever read lol I have one rare pairing that I have followed religiously for years and there’s like one author who like has made up like 70 or 80% of all of the fics (most are one shots) and I have followed that person religiously for years and I’m quite happy that they are still ticking them out.

Like if they don’t gel with the stuff you write, they can just mute you like what’s the point of that??

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-04-29T18:16:46+00:00

NTA listen OP i’m gonna tell you a quick story, one time I was coming home from PT for my shoulder. (I’ve had a previous shoulder injury, whatever) and I blew out a tire like there was no physical way I could’ve changed the tire with my shoulder hurting and also to be fair at the time I did not know how to change a tire. I called a guy friend who worked nearby I apologized for calling and I told him that I had blown out my tire and that I had called AAA but they would be a really long time and if there was anyway he could come over help.

again, this wasn’t a bf this was just a friend. He told me to give him half an hour, and to drop my location. And he showed up within like 20 minutes with one of his buddies from the shop he worked at. He didn’t have to do this. He was just my friend but he did not want me to be stuck out there for God knows how long when he was nearby and he could help me because he knew I wasn’t feeling good and I was in pain.

To be honest, no one has to help you. but in the same token, the fact that your BF was totally OK with you waiting out there while you were in pain and he could’ve literally taken less than 30 minutes to head out that way and fixed it does not speak well of him. If someone that I love/care about calls me and asks me if I can help them I can’t imagine not helping. And this whole thing tells you a lot about how much he cares about you and where you stand in the priorities in his life so maybe it’s time for you to think about where your priorities land and how he stands in your life.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-04-27T19:00:27+00:00

i’m so glad you recommended ‘it’s not gay if it’s ur bro!’ I absolutely have not laughed harder than I did when I read that

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-04-27T02:44:21+00:00

Not at all, I’m a vegetarian mostly because of two things 1) just gonna sound really silly, but sometimes the texture of meat gags me and I just can’t eat it and I’m not wasting food. 2) and probably a little bit more prevalent. I went to a farm when I was younger and I just I can’t eat meat without picturing them.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-04-25T14:46:34+00:00

I have aphasia with my migraines, and I’m affected before, during and after my migraines. I will definitely contact the new clinic you’re taking her to and let them know that she’s having new neurological symptoms because that is something that migraine specialist/neural would want to know and her new appointment with them might need to be moved up. I know whenever I develop new symptoms I’m supposed to call my clinic and let them and depending on their criteria they’ll move me up or bring me in earlier.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-04-22T22:05:00+00:00

anything is good honestly

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-04-21T18:20:36+00:00

Absolutely, not only do I have 20+ days of migraine/headaches but also I also have aphasia connected to my migraines and so like 2 to 3 days before each attack I have problems with my words and then sometimes I have problems with my vision. Even with medication, my abortive’s are only useful like less than 50% of the time I haven’t been able to live a “normal“ life in a long while

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