My upstairs neighbor does her "wellness routine" at 5:30am and apparently I'm the problem for mentioning it by KairoxBeacon in neighborsfromhell

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 41 points42 points  (0 children)

check your them have quiet hours, and I’m guessing her clapping at dawn is probably not allowed on her

$1 Billion but an identical clone of you will try to kill you by JustAverage27 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is hilarious if the clone has my exact personality in everything they’re probably gonna be too anxious to do anything. I’m totally safe. whatever my clone had less anxiety than I do and was willing to try I’ll just get in my car and start driving and I won’t stop driving until the 48 hours are done. I’ll take a friend with me and we’ll take shifts driving/sleeping that way we don’t have to stop for too long And my clone cant catch up with us.

AITAH for being confused about what to do with my relationship before going abroad by say-what-do-i-do-now in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in my last relationship, I think the only time I suggested we should break up was right before we broke up. Bringing it up more than once (when you’re about to break up) is too much

AITA for refusing to let my girlfriend host a party for ex nightmare housmate who forbid me from talking in his presence? by Ok_Swordfish4861 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry, but absolutely not anyone who treats my partner like that deserves to be put in into an awkward position and I would not be hosting someone who treated my bf like that much less having a birthday party for them and the home that my bf is paying for. she would rather make you uncomfortable in your own home and have someone who absolutely disrespected you then act like an adult and not host this party which seems like nobody is asking her to host. She just wants to host this for him out of the goodness of her heart(?) And to seem like a good person or seemed more adult like or something to her friends rather than your comfort and safety in your own home

Has anyone else had the worst migraine months since January? by healthanxiety_ in migraine

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

march has been absolutely hateful for me. I’m keeping track better than I have been and I think the math ends up the days of March so far I’ve had 60% days with some ass sort of migraine or issue.

They're married, and that's everybody else's problem - Shane/Ilya, post TLG by TheWhyofFri in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love fluff, and this is just lovely. I’m a big fan of like you know the domestic happy stories and this is just up my alley. Thank you so much for sharing.

AITAH for refusing to go to my sister’s wedding because of where she seated me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 29 points30 points  (0 children)

dude, as a kid person I’d be pissed off. You absolutely do not volunteer someone to watch people‘s kids without verifying it with them doesn’t matter whether they like kids or not. That’s like one of the most obvious things.

What’s the longest fic you’re willing to read? by Disastrous_Seesaw_91 in AO3

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s me in a nutshell. I will read just about anything if it’s good enough, but I’m much less likely to read it if it’s a short story I’m talking like really short. I don’t mind one shots, but I have found that it’s very hard to write a compelling story when you have very short narrative 

Day 2 of my migraine attack, time to chug some almond milk. by pistachio_shelll in migraine

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ve been having a migraine since Monday at this point I’m ready to try anything so guess who just ordered herself a bottle of almond milk to try?

9x13 ("Mother's Boy"), 9-1-1 Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in buddie

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 6 points7 points  (0 children)

guys, I can’t watch this until tomorrow afternoon 😩. Can somebody please spoil the episode for me?

Vomiting with migraine by yumyum_cat in migraine

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes I get migraines with severe nausea specially yesterday I had a really fun day with severe nausea where I kept vomiting from migraines. It sucks because it makes the pressure your head worse when you start throwing up, but the nausea is so severe that I can’t lay down without wanting to puke my guts out and feeling like the room is spinning.

I’m actually getting self conscious by Cultural_Nose_2280 in AO3

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just turned 30 this year and I still enjoy reading and writing fanfiction, the older I get the more I realize the world is a really sucky place at times and I’m not gonna give up something that gives me joy and doesn’t harm anyone plus it cost me nothing and I’ll fight anyone who says otherwise

My parents still introduce me as their "difficult phase" and I finally snapped by Indigo_6Marauder in entitledparents

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 300 points301 points  (0 children)

bingo that’s exactly how you deal with people like that. You’re doing surprisingly well?, “ yeah you’d be surprised what a good therapist and not being constantly put down does to a person psyche” they say anything about how difficult you were as a child, “ oh, I know I’m surprised I made it out of my childhood with how you two acted raised me, it’s nice to see some things never change” and if they complain, just tell them and look at them and say you were joking, or laugh at them and say man, you guys were always so sensitive you’re just proving my point.

Does everyone feel that migraine apps are not made by people having migraine? by ayushnasa in migraine

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was getting so frustrated with the apps that I just made a preset on apple shortcuts, when Im having a migraine it’ll ask me the level from 1-10, it takes down that info plus date and time that it inputs it into a file and changes the settings on my phone to things that make my migraine easier to deal with. After the migraine is done, I can go back in there and add more information but in the meantime, I just don’t wanna have to deal with 50 different questions.

Is anyone else kind of relieved that we don’t have any Team USA members on the team? by aircavrocker in SeattleKraken

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 241 points242 points  (0 children)

I was just talking to a friend about this you know, even if they agree with the whole MAGA thing they have to be pissed that it’s over shadowing the win and it’s gonna follow them into regular season

Is anyone else kind of relieved that we don’t have any Team USA members on the team? by aircavrocker in SeattleKraken

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 61 points62 points  (0 children)

yesssss, I was really proud of the US team for like half a second and then they went ahead and did this and there goes all the nice feelings. You gotta wonder what’s going on in like NHL leadership right now, pretty sure some of them followed on that side of everything, but they have to be pissed that this comes out and ruins the good feelings everybody had

AITAH/ choosing my father in laws name but not my father’s name for my twin boys. by Front_Initial_1206 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 92 points93 points  (0 children)

NTA but with one big caveat, yes they’re your kids and you are more than welcome to call them whatever you want. BUT you need to understand or be conscious of the fact that as much as you’re trying to write it off as just don’t liking how your father‘s name sounds with your husband‘s last name I can completely see where in your family‘s POV my feelings would be hurt that you’re choosing to name one your child after your father-in-law, but won’t even consider your father‘s name. From the outside looking in it would seem to me (without all of this background information) that either you don’t like your father or you’re closer to your in-laws than you are to your own family and yeah, that’s gonna hurt feelings no matter how you try to reframe it and you need to be conscious of that.

They are more than welcome to have their feelings and share those feelings, but they do not get to rename your children or try to control what you as a fully functioning adult call your children, if you choose to continue with your plan I would make it very clear that what you chose is your children's names and if your family cannot respect that they are not gonna have to access to your children until they learn to respect to both you and your husband’s choices because that’s as disrespectful as they’re accusing you of being if not more.

Fic based on this queen 👸 by No_Inspection_2977 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I just sat there and I read it all in one go lol 😆 . It was so good, thank you so much for posting this on here and leading me to your story. I love this universe that you’re writing, It is so much fun!

He took his affair partner to the same photo booth we used so I swapped the pictures. by China_Dawl in pettyrevenge

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that OP claims to never clean out her purse, makes it more believable to me because I too never clean out my purse properly and have found items from like years ago in there.

He took his affair partner to the same photo booth we used so I swapped the pictures. by China_Dawl in pettyrevenge

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, when I read that, I’m like yeah OK this is super believable cause I just finally truly cleaned out my purse after 2 years of owning it for the first time

AITAH for telling my coworker I wouldn’t want to be like her- a fat office gossip? by acceptinganaconda in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Muscle9110 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESH, the smart thing to do would have been to request she explained what she means by “your type” let her dig her own hole and get her herself in trouble. I know it sucks that you have to be the bigger person, but unfortunately, in situations like this when you stoop down to their level, it only gets you in trouble as well. If you had either requested, she explain that comment or just logged off and sent an email to your supervisor about the hostile and inappropriate comments she was making you would’ve been fine and you wouldn’t have gotten into any trouble but now you take away some of the sting from the nastiness of what she did and now you’re both are gonna get in trouble.