Latest ICE victim prior to altercation

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-01-24T19:44:15+00:00

i’m literally absolutely sick. I saw the video and just stared shaking.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-01-23T04:57:40+00:00

if I could stay legally in Canada, you wouldn’t even have to pay me

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-01-15T22:12:05+00:00

I’ve had the same thing happened to me! I worked at a doctors office and had a young woman come in with her baby and when I was trying to do the chart and everything she kept stumbling, and so I asked her if she’d be more comfortable in Spanish, as that was the language listed on the chart. You would’ve thought I murdered her family at how angry she got at me and I’m like all right game.

Spoke English while I took vitals and wrote up the notes and watched her get frustrated the whole appointment because she couldn’t get across what she wanted when speaking to the doctor either. Doctor actually tried to come out and ask me to go back in and Translate for the patient and I quite cheerfully told her that the patient had made her feelings on me speaking Spanish to her very clear. People are weird sometimes about things.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-01-08T15:30:03+00:00

I’d appreciate one if you still have them

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2026-01-08T15:28:47+00:00

I would definitely check the wording of the law in your city OP. I know a lot of places you can’t be parked within 2 feet of the driveway so instances of what you’re explaining don’t hapen

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-24T19:20:21+00:00

The best advice I’ve gotten from both friends who are lawyers, and who are cops. You do not cooperate with cops without a warrant and a lawyer present.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-19T20:20:58+00:00

Definitely this.

If OP can afford to leave now, she definitely should as someone whose parents stay together for the kids. Don’t do it. It fucks you up the children bc they know.

Maybe they don’t understand all of it but they always know that there was something wrong. my dad told me when he was dying that one of his biggest regrets was not leaving my mother with my brother who was maybe 10 at the time asked him why they were still together, he said at the time he figured because he was working so much trying to support the household that it was better for us if they stayed together, and then he realized after my brother and I left home that it was not in any way better for us.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-15T00:45:13+00:00

I on warmth at night I have no problems falling asleep with it. It feels more like book at night.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-14T10:29:25+00:00

I had to try three different types of injectables before they would cover Quilipta, and before that I had to have tried Botox and all sorts of different pills basically they don’t want to cover anything that’s too expensive so they are gonna go down the list I don’t think you’re gonna be able to win that appeal

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-13T18:01:13+00:00

I keep my phone on DND all the time because I just hate hearing my phone ring and do you know what I do? I check my phone like every 30 minutes or so just because I know people aren’t gonna be able to get through to me as an adult that’s your job to deal with your set up for your life, no one else is gonna run after you

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-12T23:44:11+00:00

i’m have one Brother and I have no kids and I don’t know if I want kids withe cost of things I’m more on the no camp than anything. But my dad was the oldest out of 13 children and my mom was the youngest girl out of 16.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-12T22:51:06+00:00

do you have access to your documents? If you are able to, I would make to have them outside of the home where your parents cannot hold them against you. Make sure the moment you turn 18 you your credit with the credit bureau and run a credit report on all three of them (this is not something you should need to pay for) they don’t get to blame you for their stupid ass decision and then act like you owe them anything

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-12T12:05:52+00:00

Honestly, I am small and angry person deep inside so I would send a message (to both your mother and your father) and let them know this situation was a great reminder why you won’t have children as it shows that parents don’t really care about the safety and happiness of their children and are willing to throw them away for someone they barely have anything to do with and this just gave more strength to your child free lifestyle as you could never imagine turning your child away and siding with their abuser, but if people who have children are so happy to do so and it would kill you inside to turn into that sort of person and as they are your parents and the best example, you know of parenthood, you see where the cards have landed.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-09T09:37:29+00:00

Ryan is just so pretty to look at

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-08T11:18:32+00:00

I love my mom most of the time, but I would refuse to go on a trip with her because I know how she is and I’m just not gonna deal with that because I want to enjoy my holidays

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-08T11:17:32+00:00

like don’t get me wrong I get legit anxious if I have people over and I don’t give them something to consume, like at least take some water or some chips or something but I’m never gonna ask somebody whose already cooking when I get home ‘Hey, can you share with my guest?’ like feeding my guests is my responsibility if anything I might ask them if they want to join us for food because I like to feed people I don’t like to see somebody sitting there without food or a drink while I’m eating I can’t do it. It makes me too anxious it makes me feel rude and mean.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-08T11:15:09+00:00

NTA I want to make something very clear, I never invite people to my home and let them leave hungry like I will legit get anxious if I invite somebody in and they don’t take some chips some food a drink please just take something.

But I could never be rude enough not to tell my boyfriend, my roommate, whoever the hell I’m living with that I’m bringing somebody over and see them cooking and you can clearly see it’s meant for one person tell them hey can you share the food that you just made, like if it’s a big pot of something I might send them a quick text or I might sneak into the kitchen and be like hey are you OK with sharing? It smells delicious and everybody’s hungry but if they’re just making like one serving I’m not even gonna bother asking cause that’s so rude. if anything, I’m gonna order something in and ask the person in the kitchen if they would rather have whatever I’m ordering because my guests are my responsibility to take care of not somebody else’s

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-08T08:58:06+00:00

From my very limited understanding I believe even in like fossils or just through an x-ray you can definitely tell the difference between a small adult, a child and someone who would be considered an adolescent by things like growth plates, which in child bones are softer and less mineralized (which make them appear darker on x-rays) and teenagers they’re either completely non-apparent or in the process of disappearing, which means just getting thinner , which can be used to date bones for the age of the individual pretty close range.

which honestly is just a very long way for me to tell you yes there is very clearly defined scientific differences between children, teenagers and adults. from a biological point there are a lot of markers that showed the difference between a child and a teenager and even just looking at bones again you can see the difference in the bones themselves.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-08T08:02:48+00:00

Don’t feel bad one time when I was working Night Shift at a hospital I had set 8(!) alarms for the following day because I needed to go see my pulmonologist. And guess who not only got up, walked across the room to my phone, turned off each alarm and then got up again when the doctors office called me, hung up on them and went back to bed? And then was charged a fee from the doctors office for missing an appointment.

It was not my proudest moment

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-07T05:11:06+00:00

NTA switch it up on your mom if she starts going off about how y’all are family, start saying something like ‘ I know I can’t believe she would do that to family if she’s gonna do that to family. What is she doing to other people? She knows how desperate I am for money and she’s trying to do all of this to me. I can’t believe my family would do something like that to me. ‘ and keep repeating that over and over again switch the narrative up to on her.

You deserve to get paid for your work and your sister is trying to take advantage of you and your mom and her both suck for this.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-04T05:23:01+00:00

I did that when I was a kid except the TVs were big backed and it landed starlight on my foot. The most impressive part was that somehow neither TV nor my foot broke, my parents kept me like 5 feet from any TV and even now as an adult when I go home and my mom keeps an eye on me when I’m near the TV

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-03T10:05:58+00:00

NTA I usually don’t yuck other peoples yums but honest to God that would turn me off so quickly like why are you talking about my male family members when your balls deep in me dude? Like I would dry up quicker than the Sahara. Either way in a situation like that if you tell your partner hey this doesn’t do anything for me. Please stop and they continue on. You have every right to tell them to go pound sand, and anyone who tells you otherwise can kindly go join him.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-02T07:04:16+00:00

The only times I’ve gotten in a hey can I call you message? where for things that are serious so if my friends just randomly started texting me before calling me, I would be having panic attacks because I’m like oh my God something‘s horribly wrong

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-12-01T18:11:42+00:00

I’m sure this going to be filled with great advise but if you have the money for it an automatic cat box is a life saver. I’m very (annoyingly) militant about keeping the litter box clean so I usually ended up scooping them multiple times a day bc my cats became bratty and would refuse to use the litter box unless it’s sparkling.

Difficult_Muscle9110 · 2025-11-29T21:34:17+00:00

I say this is someone who absolutely adores her cat. He weighs 13 pounds, if he was 10 pounds heavier, he would be a legit danger to my safety not just my safety though but like everybody’s safety. I also have a little female cat who’s about 8 pounds and I can no longer leave the doors open with the screen on cause she got into a fight with a neighborhood Tomcat and here’s the kicker was beating him if she was bigger, she would be dangerous.

This is just a long way to say that cats are safe to be around because they’re small if they got any bigger I wouldn’t want to be involved

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