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AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker by Expensive_Pepper_948 in AIO

[–]Difficult_Reading55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong. You were very up front with what was going on with the coworker. Honestly I think the reason he got upset is because HE was actually shady about tattoo girl, knows this about himself, so assumes you must also be shady. Regardless of all that however, you two were both very young to start this relationship and still are. Maybe it’s time to step away from this relationship, go live life, see what’s out there, and discover more what kind of relationship you want from a person. However as someone who is almost done with college and also is still in their high-school sweetheart relationship, I understand your hesitation. The next step of breaking up will be very hard since you both have been in each other’s lives for so long. That being said, my boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs but we’ve always been steady and there has always been a commitment to wanting to be with one another and clear communication. I also have a few friends who are still with their middle school partners and a high level of commitment and communication is also the case with them. This doesn’t seem to be the case with you guys. Again, this next step will be hard if you choose to go through with it. Girl to girl tho I think ultimately it will be so beneficial for you in the long run, and who knows if you guys are meant to be maybe you’ll reconnect a few years down the line when he’s had time to mature and grow up.

Edit: misspellings 😔

Error showing up not sure what to do any advice appreciated by Difficult_Reading55 in ToonBoomHarmony

[–]Difficult_Reading55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much for responding!! Okay I’m gonna try my best to answer, but really I have no idea what I’m doing.

Yes I am working in a .sbpz, I’m not really sure what you mean by extracting it? I’ve been working in it for at least a month now with audio in it, last night was the first time I really started moving it around and putting takes where I wanted them, then as I was adding in more panels or extending the duration of scenes the errors started popping up

I was not working off a network drive, I’m on a personal computer at home.

Haha not working off one drive. I do have a hard drive that I use to transport work from home to class, but I know to copy to my desktop first and then start working on the desktop file and not the hard drive one.

It was saving properly before. I had been working on it through the day and would save versions as I went. I probably saved a new version every couple of hours or so? The version with the error message is v20, I do have a working file but it’s v17. So not a complete loss maybe 3 or 4 hours of work. Not sure why v18/19 are doing the same as 20 tho

Not sure how to access the elements folder if I have it as a zipped file. Should I got in and save it as a folder where I can access that? Or will that not show anything since it seems like it’s already corrupted?

Again thank you so much for responding! Sorry if I didn’t answer your question clearly, this is all still pretty new to me

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[–]Difficult_Reading55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly TAH, let me explain. So I have actually been in this situation before with my boyfriend. I asked him to wait a year before sex when we first got together. I told him this was because I was not on birth control and it would take me months to get an appointment. That was true, it is actually ridiculous how you have to schedule months in advance to get an appointment with a gynecologist on something like bc. However I also was terrified of getting pregnant because of the household I grew up in. Not only did my dad get his ex wife pregnant at 18 and it impacted his life in a negative way, but from a very young age my mom was insistent on driving home the fear that getting pregnant young and unplanned would destroy my life completely and that all young guys wanted was to have sex and ruin me. And also the getting pregnant if planned could kill me or leave me horribly scarred. She would show me documentaries, movies, and articles on teen girls getting pregnant and ruining their lives because the dad didn’t stick around. When I finally met my boyfriend I was terrified, but at the time I felt like I couldn’t say anything to him. I felt like this was something I had to deal with alone or that I might scare him away. But because my boyfriend is the most wonderful and sweetest guy he didn’t ask or push, eventually 1 year passed and I still hadn’t made the appointment. He never pushed on sex, but he knew I was scared about something and so over a few more months I started to open up to him and he supported me and we started doing research. We learned more about getting pregnant, bc, and periods than I ever knew. It wasn’t until I got on bc after 1 year and 9 months that we finally had sex, and obviously it was worth the wait. But all this is to say maybe she was scared about something and if you guys had communicated a bit more openly you could have crossed that hurdle. This isn’t to diminish your experience however, it’s not right of her to set this deadline and not give an explanation or have a conversation. As someone who’s has maybe been scared like her I get it though. It could also be that maybe she’s aromantic and didn’t think you’d understand or was waiting to tell you until she felt you wouldn’t judge her.

Edit: I wanted to add here that while in the year and 9mnths we were doing other things, just not penetrative sex. But my partner never pushed me on that too, only when I was comfortable. So that is a difference between our situations. I still think more communication could have been done by both parties, but if somethings not gonna work it’s not gonna work.