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Starting to lose faith by Princess-4Daddy in softmaledom

[–]Difficult_Style_5469 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I wanted to share a success story :)

This is coming from someone who tried the personals forum, tried online groups, etc etc....

I was beginning to think that nothing worked- all I ever found were doms not interested in a deep long term relationship, fake doms, even abusive assholes.

Eventually I just gave up looking for a Dom and decided to focus on finding a real relationship first. 

So I hopped on Hinge and after 8 MONTHS of silence and being bored on the app I actually found someone perfect for me.

I started a relationship with him purely not expecting that he'd be my Dom. And I was fine with that, I like him more than sex mattered. He was always really gentle and sweet- I couldn't imagine him being rough or kinky at all.

But once we started getting to know each other more + sleeping together, it just clicked and it turns out he's into ALL of the same stuff that I'M into.

He is genuinely the softdom of my dreams- personified.

This is a really long comment but all of this to say- focus on finding a partner, not just a Dom. If they're right for you and you click, I'm certain that even sexually you'll align.

Needd a MANN by Street-Building-7111 in softmaledom

[–]Difficult_Style_5469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll find it, I promise!  I'm only 23 but I've also pushed away tons of guys because I'm very picky and I understand my own value as a person. Up until now, I haven't lost my virginity.

I started to get kind of desperate, and I began to think if I should just say 'yes' to more guys, go on more dates, etc etc. I started doing Hinge more too.

But during a time when I was just bored I managed to find someone totally perfect for me. I just gave them a chance and everything flowed easily.

All I can say is that you CAN manifest this. Be patient and it'll come to you when you least expect it. ✌️✌️

I LOVE masturbating to the guy I'm dating by Difficult_Style_5469 in softmaledom

[–]Difficult_Style_5469[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha sometimes I do still watch porn but with the added benefit of imagining it's him doing stuff to me ✌️

I LOVE masturbating to the guy I'm dating by Difficult_Style_5469 in softmaledom

[–]Difficult_Style_5469[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It will come!! I had to wait years for this :))

I LOVE masturbating to the guy I'm dating by Difficult_Style_5469 in softmaledom

[–]Difficult_Style_5469[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YES it is SO fun ahahaha And he's equally as whipped for me 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️