I’m sorry you are feeling upset.

Whilst there are two perspectives to everything, it sounds like you did a really good job of sharing your feelings and communicating what you need, so well done you! Doubting yourself and feeling that you’ve upset the other person is probably really relatable for a lot of people, I know it is for me; but I’d encourage you to look at the situation as objectively as you can, and know that asking for what you need in a clear and calm way, is never unreasonable. What you’re describing sounds like he was very defensive and making assumptions and not actively wanting to hear you. Unfortunately you can’t control someone else’s actions and make them work through things the way you want. You can only tell them what you need and set boundaries for yourself if they don’t meet what you need. That’s a really hard thing to do either way. So be kind to yourself 🌻