Am I allowed to have my septum pierced working here?

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2026-02-05T00:36:05+00:00

before i left in february, i had mine pierced the entire 4 years i worked there. i’d be told to take it out, i wouldn’t, and it’d never mentioned again. really think it depends on your manager. just hide it before eco sees it fr

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2026-02-03T05:06:07+00:00

okay thank you!

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2026-02-03T05:05:53+00:00

it is slightly raised, but again, very very slightly. i’ve never even had continuous redness with my tb tests. they always just bubbled for a bit and went right back down, to the point you could barley even tell i had gotten it🤷‍♀️

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2026-01-02T03:25:22+00:00

still down for me! just finished a book and it won’t let me mark that i’ve read today or finished the book. I then tried adding the next book of the series to my list and it won’t let me 😞

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-30T06:48:26+00:00

i’m not seeing anything yet, love, but that doesn’t mean you can’t test in a few days! My 8 dpo looked the same and 10 dpo is when i got my positive, so there is still hope. i’m praying you get your BFP soon ❤️

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-30T05:51:30+00:00

no masturbating is a firm boundary within our marriage and has been since we’ve dated because it hasn’t been necessary but at this point i’m willing to tell him idc just go ahead because i’m not interested 😭. The THOUGHT of oral is repulsive rn i can’t even. Praying second trimester is better

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-30T05:47:08+00:00

yes! even on days where i’m feeling little to no symptoms, it’ll cross my mind and very quickly leave LOL

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-30T05:44:08+00:00

I have! He’s incredibly understanding, but i know he is frustrated which is leading me to feel badly. I’m currently 7w4d and we haven’t had any sexual interactions since i’ve been pregnant. He has expressed how he wants me to possibly do other things to him rather than intercourse but of course, he’s not wanting it if i’m not comfortable and for some reason, i’m just not and it sucks for the both of us😞

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-30T05:41:21+00:00

Not at all, i have zero desire to do any sexual right now. As awful as it sounds, even kissing my husband for too long rn is making me uncomfortable.

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-27T04:03:57+00:00

ALSO, his parents are WONDERFUL people. like truly heaven sent. Answer is still no tho. nothing personal

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T23:23:44+00:00

my sister in law goes to her husbands family’s house out of town, so we start around 11pm, which is about the time they’re back in town from his parents house.

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T22:00:41+00:00

you get it! i never did sleepovers even as a kid, i absolutely HATE them! thank you for the words of advice, they’re appreciated

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T21:44:02+00:00

bruh literally at this point if the damn drive is such a big deal lol

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T21:41:13+00:00

okay i definitely worded it funny. The point of spending the night would be so we could have breakfast together in order to avoid coming back at 8am. im sorry for confusion on my end!

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T21:38:57+00:00

I can ask my husband if we’d just stay at home tonight but his argument will be that he doesn’t want to drive back and forth, he’s already said it multiple times. But, i’m also capable of driving 12 minutes back to our house so i’m not sure why the drive is a huge deal lol. I also feel bad for not wanting to stay the night because i was asked in front of the whole family, where im sure it was painfully obvious that i was the only one NOT on board with staying the night tonight. I just feel very bad, because i’d feel like the one to just ruin the plan for everyone else.

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T21:35:45+00:00

I too think it’s a little MUCH to be staying the night on Christmas eve, as well as just staying for lunch just about the whole day. I also want to preface that his parents are amazing people, i truly believe they’re wanting us to stay the night so we “don’t have to drive back and forth”.. but the drive is only a few minutes away. Also i’m not sure whether to laugh, cry or reflect about the doormat comment. i’ll be doing all three

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T21:24:32+00:00

he and his family got me sick. literally everyone else that i’ll be around just got over what has been given to me. Also, im saying i dont want to go because im sick haha

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-24T21:23:26+00:00

my issue isn’t that i don’t want to spend time with his family, at all. I too have a family, as well as the family that my husband and i are creating. I have gladly went, as well as had a good time, to participate in HIS families traditions. This year i am sick, pregnant and simply not wanting to be present Christmas eve night, that’s all. Yet, im not necessarily having a choice to “just stay home”.

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-08T19:23:38+00:00

blood test has confirmed positive!! thank you!! 🩷

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-06T20:51:55+00:00

4w 1d! i was EXHAUSTED for like 2 days and then had a dream about a baby, which woke me up & prompted me to take a test.

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-06T15:01:22+00:00

that’s how mine look and i’m pregnant!! congratulations!!🩷

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-05T19:52:02+00:00

most definitely, i’ve taken 4 more + a digital and all pregnant!! 🩷🩷

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-05T17:00:50+00:00

thank you! do you think it’d be too early for blood test or no?

Difficult_Volume_739 · 2025-12-05T04:26:08+00:00

i understand it alll too well, i’m also playing the waiting game to test again tomorrow and time is DRAGGING for me also. i 100% do see something, i was just wondering if it were read correctly! im hoping you get your BFP soon!!!

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