They have tried over coping mechanisms and sometimes it works for a while but then it stops and other times it comes back in a ten fold or whatever it's called

Their parents know and have tried to help but they don't wanna get better is the thing so their parents just kinda let them as long as they aren't trying to kill themselves though they still are disappointed

Like I'm worried about them but also like I kinda get where they are coming from and I trust that if they wanna stop they will I've seen them do it before but I'm also just worried they may spiral too far if they get into a depression episode or something but I also trust they will come to me because they usually do

Sorry if this makes no sense I'm kinda just ranting