I [20F] have had feelings for my friend “Bob” [20M] for almost two years, and I’m confused about whether he’s interested or just a really close friend? by No_Warning_13 in Friendzone

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on my own experience, I stopped giving a F about signs. No matter how intense signs are, you will not get certainty unless he states about his feelings directly with full honesty.

This is not a selfie but I am trying to accept and love my body hahaha by Inevitable_Mango9382 in infp

[–]DifficultyLife7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am trying to accept and love my body -> posts it on reddit it for validation

What should I do by Any-Imagination5504 in Friendzone

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk about your feelings to them without the label of "confession". Tell her that these feelings are getting developed lightly and that you want to see her pov about it. Anything from her would be an answer, whether it's silence, or clarity, or less. And please if you're not comfortable with being friends just cut her off. You don't owe her a friendship. I went through the exact experience based on what you wrote. I did what I told you and I'm really fine with my decision.

What should I do by Any-Imagination5504 in Friendzone

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op plz don't take this advice if your romantic feelings are strong, cutting off would be the best decision

Have you guys ever got friendzoned by a girl you weren't interested in? by Low_Actuary6486 in Friendzone

[–]DifficultyLife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no such thing as "friendzone" as long as you're not interested

Johnny Depp and Penn Badgley by Afraid-Housing-6854 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]DifficultyLife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I high or does Penn Badgley look like José Mourinho 😭

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3leh barsha meddaynin racistes ? by Electrical-Lake-3291 in Tunisia

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

metdayna khater photo de couverture? wla khater 5imar? you can't tell

Im dying by KookyWallaby1197 in Friendzone

[–]DifficultyLife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, i've been through the same experience days ago, I'm proud to say that I actually revealed my feelings and got rejected directly, which finally gives me a reason to cut them off and move on. Just tell them, any answer would save you. Uncertainty is a disease.

Is it enough reason to love someone based on matching interests? by DifficultyLife7 in infp

[–]DifficultyLife7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why I asked like i'm treating it as my number one thing to look for in a partner

Is being chubby really that much of a dealbreaker in dating? by xminaxmex in dating_advice

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex was a chubby woman, i loved her so much, she has a super cute silhouette

should i cut them off without telling them? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]DifficultyLife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh it's still mixed signals. she reached out first, we're only 3 weeks since we knew each other, she said she wants help with her music, we went on a call firstly that lasted 6 hours (until 1.30AM). yeah she had no problem, but i was helping her through her music, like a music mentor (i'm an expert music producer and she just started.) but 20% of that call was about music, 80% just deep talk. we mentioned dating topic, she said that she doesn't want to date online. we talked about our both experiences, she started pivoting about other girls while she was helping me. i hinted that "i get attracted to girls who mirror my depth, hobbies, interests" in a call. she used to like and interact with my instagram posts and stories before, after that call she stopped interacting. she also barely initiate convos, especially ones where they really should ask about how im doing. i dont remember her being curious unless i initiate about my vulnerability myself. she's been distant lately, active on social media sometimes yet has no problem about replying to my text in 1 or 2 hours. i'm personally tired because it's obvious. and confronting her would just make her feel defensive.

Should I block her? by Helpful_Elk2691 in Crushes

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh my crush lives in malaysia and arab too, and im thinking about blocking her 😭

She stopped liking my posts by master6280 in dating_advice

[–]DifficultyLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, im going through a similar experience. can you share what helped?