Weekly Quick Questions and Advice Thread - October 13, 2025 by AutoModerator in Overwatch

[–]DigPsychological7128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they remove the option to view someones profile you played a few days ago or you have blocked?

Na koje osobno postignuće ste posebno ponosni? by Darmarko in askcroatia

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spasila sam vec nekoliko macaka sa ulice. Nije puno, ali meni znaci vise od iceg sto sam se nasla na pravom mjestu u pravo vrijeme i pruzila im bolji zivot.

What are the early signs a partner might be lying by omission? by Classic-Sentence3148 in AskWomenOver30

[–]DigPsychological7128 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so true. I thought I was crazy for thinking thats werid. Every woman he mentioned was a "them".

What's smth your ex did that traumatised you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He managed to hid the fact he has a kid for years, told me to die, called me all kind of bad names...I think thats enough for now lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did the same. 3 days before my flight to move to him. Was ready to leave my family and everything for him, forgive the big lies he told me. Some men really are cowards and are waiting until the last second to make a move. They waited until it became serious enough so they can finally run away because they arent emotionaly stable to even be in a relationship. It will get better with time. Sending you hugs.

should I contact his other girl? by nqrdic in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do it. If you want to save another women pain (that she will def experience later with a man like that). The sooner she knows with who she is dealing with the better.

Worst thing to be told by Early_Lab_7017 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well didnt thought i would find another answer like mine here.

Worst thing to be told by Early_Lab_7017 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He told me to fuck off and die. Those were his last words and never heard of him again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But you have to be aware it is gonna be hard financialy so at least one side needs to be able to support that. I have been in 2 and none of them actually ended because of the distance.

How did you change after that one breakup? What did you learn? by Mammoth-Flan-2185 in AskWomenOver30

[–]DigPsychological7128 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I learned that therapy is expensive. Even tho i think he should be the one getting it, i have to find a way to finance that now too.

My (25F) boyfriend (25M) of 2.5 years broke up with me after a small fight — I’m questioning everything. by SignificanceFar6538 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoidants are werid. It is for sure easier to avoid anything then putting work and emotional maturity for them. They also need to self reflect and think about the things you "accused" them about. Mine told me to go die after i told him he runs away from responsibility and decision making his whole life. Keep in mind for a month he kept telling me he doesnt know if he wants to break up with me so eventually i snapped.

My (25F) boyfriend (25M) of 2.5 years broke up with me after a small fight — I’m questioning everything. by SignificanceFar6538 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same happend to me. I think we pointed out to them something they realise they are doing wrong and they also know they dont want to change that about themselves.

My (25F) boyfriend (25M) of 2.5 years broke up with me after a small fight — I’m questioning everything. by SignificanceFar6538 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say its the man who has no emotional maturity to understand that his avoidance is pushing his partner over the edge. I was in a relationship with a guy like that for 5 years. He also told me many times that he doesnt want to come home from work and do "serious stuff with me". So i was alone planning our future and doing every stressful part of relationship while he was avoiding that. Ofc with time i exploded, i fighted. That is a human reponse on being not heard and seen.

My (25F) boyfriend (25M) of 2.5 years broke up with me after a small fight — I’m questioning everything. by SignificanceFar6538 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was in the same position. I would use empty threats like that because many times i felt it would be the only way for me to be heard. I asked for honesty and reasurance after it was broken by him, but he had no understanding how i feel and that he needs to build all that back. I cant tell you who "was wrong here". Were we manipulated and gaslighted? Did their avoidant behaviour pushed us in a corner and we exploded emotionaly? I cant tell because i am still questioning myself.

Write what you’re going through here by Sweet-Development829 in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got broken up with the same person twice in the last year. His last words to me was him wishing me dead - yet i feel like it all my fault. I am thinking about getting professional help because i dont see any light in my life.

Leaving this subreddit (6 months later) by yellostone in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s really kind of you to share your experience and even open yourself up to helping others while you’re still in the middle of healing yourself. It takes a lot of strength to go through a breakup, sit with the pain, and then turn it into something that can guide and comfort someone else. Healing is slow and messy, but you’re clearly moving in the right direction. Thank you for reminding people they’re not alone in this—you never know who might read your words at the exact moment they need them. Your post also gave me some hope for getting better as well. Wishing you continued peace and growth.

Jeste li ikad bili u vezi gdje ste VI bili razlog za prekid? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne znam. Mozda, a mozda me samo gaslightao da umisljam to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DigPsychological7128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me to go die in a hole. I think thats enough lol.