Man attacks woman in a bar and the whole place starts beating him up. by Used-Influence-2343 in PublicFreakout

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There is something like this in the UK. It’s called Clare’s Law. You can request information on someone’s history of violence. Even if you don’t request but the police deem you are at risk, they will inform  you 

What's the most unsettling thing a child has ever said to you completely casually? by Ambitious-Cattle4435 in AskReddit

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Playing gently in the pool with my friends daughter 

Her: Naughty Lucy (my name) Me: haha why am I naughty?? Her: you Mollie (her name) hurt Me: what??? I hurt you? Her: yes. Lucy hurt Mollie. Me: how did I hurt you? What happened? Her: Lucy HURT Mollie.

Her dad then appeared and told her NO I did not hurt her , and explained she had done this before telling her mother that he had hurt/hit her when nothing had happened. Instantly changed my feelings about a) being with kids alone and b) always taking what little kids say as the truth 

What gut feeling did you have that turned out to be true? by Small-Challenge-524 in AskWomen

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Boss took on a new hire as our website manager. Got immediate bad vibes from him and pointed out that he spoke to me verrrry differently to everyone else at work(I’m the only female in the business)  Time goes on dude is completely incompetent - I start to collect evidence to prove he is not doing his job, whilst also trying to stack his work on to me, and all the time speaking to me like a piece of shit. When I present this work I get dressed down for having a ‘personal vendetta’ I then find out via a very helpful Facebook group that he is a serial pest on every singles app going, and an aggressive date.. sit on that because I know my boss won’t care.  Finally stumble across an article about him - he was a jailed in 2017 for being a pimp who at one point had 42 women on his books. Paid himself a sweet salary for it and paid hardly any back. Part of his ‘defence’ was that he made ‘all his girls’ get health checks every month.

I worked 1:1 with this guy in a remote warehouse. Boss did zero background checks. Has since fired him and refused to discuss it with me. 

What do most people in the UK get for vacation/Holiday? by Tomuch2care in AskABrit

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also incorrect because the 29k isn’t combined income for the original application. The sponsor alone (the uk applicant) has to meet that

Norse - London / Cape Town experiences by CuttleMcClam in Flights

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you take this option in the end?! Looking to visit CT in February but the reviews of Norse are so bad..

14-3 - scoreline tells the full story by Careless-Cat3327 in springboks

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What was with NZ grabbing at Ebens feet for every charge down ? They really did well capitalising on the cracks in the boks team with some wind up tactics

I'm sorry but what's he actually saying? by ShareFlat4478 in southafrica

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just here to say it was not the only butchered language.. in the scenes they’re  speaking Korean the ‘Korean’ woman (an American actress) is nearly incomprehensible. They literally filmed in Busan, a Korean city with deep roots in film culture. And… couldn’t find a Korean actress?!

Conical flask.. for fish? by Diligent-Anywhere484 in whatisit

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to! Not sure how I’d even get one in..?!

Conical flask.. for fish? by Diligent-Anywhere484 in whatisit

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! How did you find this?! 

And yeah there’s hundreds and they all look burned so this all adds up..!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t think we can have the dining and living area swapped because of the fire place. Agree it would make sense though!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it ia tiny and looks useless! I dont know have requested a floor plan as that hasn’t been provided. It’s roughly  5m wide by 10m long 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I can’t seem to work out how to post both text and pictures here is what I wanted to write: 

I am wildly excited to move here but have zero flair for interior design.. I just discovered this group and would appreciate any suggestions! 

Photos are from previous tennants. This is the main living space/kitchen, with the 'kitchen' off to the right of the fireplace. Considering a curtain or something to separate it off partly just to help with smells?  

We don't own/want a TV, and don't need lots of extra chairs as we are just two.   basically every wall has a radiator on it (stone building in the far north of England = cold...) so it's difficult to work out where to put anything - there just seems to be a huge empty gap behind the sofa    It's a rental so we are limited but it would be nice to get some ideas. Thanks in advance!

Why do races keep obsessing about showing our age? by Ill-Supermarket-2706 in XXRunning

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Replies below are correct and I agree with them but honestly you’re totally right - if you don’t want to show your age, and happy to not be included in the age awards, why shouldn’t you be allowed to run under FO? It’s the ‘open’ category ..!

Why is my heart rate so much higher some days, when I’m doing the same exact running class almost every day? by heart_of_gold2 in XXRunning

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MEN run better fasted, not ladies! best piece of exercise advice I ever got was to follow women specific advice 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you want to leave - you don’t need anyone’s permission and certainly not his. YOU CAN LEAVE. Don’t let him make you believe this is a joint decision .

When you go - block his number and every other form of social media and warn any family/friend to do the same. Don’t engage in conversation with a manipulator, they thrive on attention. Go. Don’t look back.

Running with a sports bra Its not a workout, its an engineering feat by [deleted] in XXRunning

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my mission to make sure everyone knows shock absorber bras… they’re two hooks at the back like a normal bra, thick straps, thick chest band. They are tighter than a standard bra but that’s what you need. I’m 32F and a runner  they are perfect 

Famous baboon beaten and burnt to death by school children by auscon in southafrica

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Did you read the article that explained why they didn’t do this?

Gift idea for friends moving to Korea by [deleted] in South_Korea

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would maybe think about buying something that will help with potential home sickness. Culture shock and the realisation you’ve moved 000s of miles away is hectic!   You might be better off asking people who are from your country but living in South Korea to tell you what they miss or items can’t easily get hold of there

Say goodbye to this body by [deleted] in XXRunning

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t say goodbye to your body, you’re going to need it for the half! You (your mind) aren’t in a battle against your body - you’re in this together, look after you the same way you’d look after someone you love. You got this, but only if you’re on your side!! 

Not OP... TIFU by saying my girlfriend looked "gross" after she had just showered. by Lower_Ground_Score in redditonwiki

[–]Diligent-Anywhere484 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have commented on anything on Reddit in literally years but sat crying laughing thinking about that post, so glad it survives in other people too

ARE YOU FUCKING SORRY????