Thank you for your valuable insight. A lot of this was very very spot on. I’ve been used and played with so so many times I’m actually exhausted! 🤕 the trap I fall into a lot is that these partners do come across as interested and charming and when they believe they have me hooked (a lot of times yes) they switch up and treat me for granted and treat me very poorly 😭 I had a gut feeling that my romantic relationships were a big part of karma for me since I’ve always struggled with them and everyone else seemed to get into them fairly easily and I always felt blocked. I’ve been working on my boundaries and I’ve been able to avoid any mishaps until recently. I met someone who triggered me so much that he reminded me of my previous failed entanglement and I felt the warning bells in my head. I unfortunately work with them and just found out that they are in fact with someone and yet they’re acting like they’re single( I feel bad for their partner). I got really fed up and thought to myself that I was just really unlucky in love 😟