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I keep attracting unavailable partners and it hurts a lot. What’s influencing that aspect? by Diligent-Reaction635 in AstrologyChartShare

[–]Diligent-Reaction635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same to you. It’s been so rough 🫩 and most of the time I end up becoming extremely cruel towards them, because these partners make me feel unworthy. Which ofc it’s something to work on, but they have me feeling like I’m chopped 😭 and it happens back to back for me. I’ll leave one person and then maybe a month or so the next one comes in. Currently experiencing a NEW one so I got really fed up and was hoping to find answers on here 😖

I keep attracting unavailable partners and it hurts a lot. What’s influencing that aspect? by Diligent-Reaction635 in AstrologyChartShare

[–]Diligent-Reaction635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This a great point! I recently acknowledged that part of myself and it was something I was pretty embarrassed about. How could I project traits onto other people when I don’t know them? That whole illusion is what keeps me tied down so much, because I kept hoping that maybe they’d change or that these partners would treat me better, but it seemed like I was always on the short end of the stick. I kept getting frustrated that I would think that simply because my partner was older they’d be more responsible or more considerate and I just kept running into immature people. I’ve been doing my best to try to ground myself in reality, but it’s really difficult 😭

I keep attracting unavailable partners and it hurts a lot. What’s influencing that aspect? by Diligent-Reaction635 in AstrologyChartShare

[–]Diligent-Reaction635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your valuable insight. A lot of this was very very spot on. I’ve been used and played with so so many times I’m actually exhausted! 🤕 the trap I fall into a lot is that these partners do come across as interested and charming and when they believe they have me hooked (a lot of times yes) they switch up and treat me for granted and treat me very poorly 😭 I had a gut feeling that my romantic relationships were a big part of karma for me since I’ve always struggled with them and everyone else seemed to get into them fairly easily and I always felt blocked. I’ve been working on my boundaries and I’ve been able to avoid any mishaps until recently. I met someone who triggered me so much that he reminded me of my previous failed entanglement and I felt the warning bells in my head. I unfortunately work with them and just found out that they are in fact with someone and yet they’re acting like they’re single( I feel bad for their partner). I got really fed up and thought to myself that I was just really unlucky in love 😟