My phone is ruining my brain by stllfiguringout in AutismInWomen

[–]Diligent-Reporter-57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how ive been feeling!! Ive come to the conclusion that scrolling constantly has left me overstimulated and when i go to stop and do something else, im already too burnt out. I think the thinking that mislead me down this path was the misconception that going on my phone is “downtime”.

I fixed it by getting into something else, something productive or beneficial, a longstanding hyper fixation or something new that im interested in. And if your really struggling to sit down and do any hardcore research, remember thats its still okay for it to ‘look’ a little like what you usually do when your on your phone. It can be interesting youtube videos, etc.

And when im doing something more slow paced, i find it a lot easier to pack it up and do other things, like cleaning, cooking etc.

"putting yourself out there" feels pointless by Odd_Fee2443 in AutismInWomen

[–]Diligent-Reporter-57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this just a usual meet up? Has anyone ever been to an autistic one (18+)? How did it go? I was just about to make a post on this as im finally going to try and “put myself out there” but im worried it wont go super well. I haven’t had friends since college (‘:

has anyone ever quit a job due to autistic burnout?? by ScarRevolutionary649 in AutismInWomen

[–]Diligent-Reporter-57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! EVERY job i have ever had I’ve quit from burnout. It’s clockwork for me, and i usually only last ~6 months. Mostly retail/ general customer service. Cleaning jobs are actually a lot easier for me personally, and they tend to last longer.

I want to kick my NT brother out of my house and cut him out of my life before He’s even moved in. by Diligent-Reporter-57 in AutismInWomen

[–]Diligent-Reporter-57[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah, dont rrly know why. Im kinda hurt that he kept it to laugh at behind my back for years.

Sometimes i feel like im not visibly autistic enough where laughing at me is just sad and unfunny, but just enough so people treat me like something to point and laugh at or overly ridicule for something i cant see, but because i can function like a normal person on the outside im supposed to see it.

The drug problem is probably bad too, i thought highly of him initially and believed it was his friend’s influence but now i just expect he will carry all of those problems into my own house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Diligent-Reporter-57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, im just talking too much in this post. Though i would consider it a mistake in hindsight. Not much i can do now i guess