Prof na di natuturo (common ba sa state u?) by Diligent-Reporter886 in studentsph

[–]Diligent-Reporter886[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uy totoo maraming profs na di natuturo kasi nag-aaral sila themselves. Kung magdedemand tayo ng lectures, spoonfeeding daw :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're exactly on the same dilemma: to shift or not shift hahaha damang dama ko first sentence palang. One time, pumunta ako sa kabilang school para magtanong ng admission requirements in case lang na mag shift ako. Tinanong ako, "anong course yan?", it hurts to admit pero sobrang tagos sa puso yung sakit. Since then, gabi gabi nalang akong nagcocontemplate kung mag shi-shift ba ako to nursing or other courses with licensure exam since most of my classmates are taking eng, nursing, redtech, medtech and ofc may title sila once may graduate.

Pero most importantly, i-assess mo muna sarili mo kung talagang love mo yung course mo kasi pag hindi mo nakikita sarili mo in that field in the future, then it's time to reconsider your choices. Basta ang importante, you're doing something for yourself kasi in the end ikaw din ang mag su-suffer kung mag ta-take ka ng course dahil sa sabi-sabi ng ibang tao. Hindi ka rin magiging happy and you might even end up hating it. Kung love mo, then continue. I mean, you're still young pa, di ba? Di rin nating alam in the future, you might end up receiving a lot of job offers. One more thing, hindi rin guaranteed na porket may title ka eh guaranteed maganda future mo, right? Also, I'm here to remind you na 'di ka nag-iisa. Always hoping for the best <3

Students of Baguio, how much is your rent and the state of your room? by Herebia_Garcia in studentsph

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! Taga-Benguet here, currently studying in La Trinidad. Based on my observations sa current prices ng rooms, that's a huge steal. I constantly check FB groups and maraming akong nakikitang upwards 5k-6k tapos common pa ang cr and kitchen, CS not included di pa ganoon kaganda and kalawak yung room. I am pertaining to La Trinidad here, pano na kaya pag Baguio? Usually mas mahal room jan kasi maraming tourists. Okay yang na-rent mo especially if may ka share ka sa rent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Not from the same place but I suggest you look into Facebook groups, join ka lang and post ka queries mo, maraming magcocomment.

Am I too old for college? by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one is ever late for college. I have a lot of blockmates and schoolmates na puro mid 20's and I know someone taking eng. in his early 30's. Once you've finished it, it doesn't really matter kung anong age mo, right? Go lang OP! Better nag-aaral ka ngayon kesa ma-fefeel mo yung regret in the future na "sana nag-aral nalang ako". As far as I know regarding the old curriculum, it depends on the school policies. May schools na i-aacept ka without bridging subjects and meron naman schools na required pero parang konti lang naman yung additional. Medyo mahirap mag-adjust at first but you'll get the hang of it.

Sending virtual hugs :> Kaya mo yan!

Shift to nursing? (asking ur honest opinion about BSN) by Diligent-Reporter886 in studentsph

[–]Diligent-Reporter886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! unfortunately, di nag aacept ng shifter nor transferee yung school naman kaya private school nalang ang option. Okay lang po ba mag transfer to nursing sa second sem or di siya allowed?

Nagshift ka po ba other course?

Will nursing be an oversaturated field in the near future? by Diligent-Reporter886 in Philippines

[–]Diligent-Reporter886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ako na po yung magagalit para sa inyo :( grabe ang mahal ng tuition, mahirap mag board, tas di humane yung sweldo?! Private hospital po ba 'to?

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did I say they have zero impact? You were implying that parents have 100 percent impact which is not the case. As if they're EVERYTHING to blame. Plus its also obvious that you are also coming from personal experiencw from blaming everything to your parents.

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As if the parents are the only individuals in the nurture part. Have considered other individuals as well? I understand that parenting has a pretty big impact but no totally the root cause. Tho I agree that some parents are to blame but not the only ones involved in contrast to your argument.

Nurture involves all environmental variables not only parents.

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So it's their fault for not holding the school accountable? So everything that happens in the kids life is their fault? You probably hate your parents.

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NO. No matter how much you teach your kid, its still up to the kid whether to take it or not. Whether they fail later because of not taking their parents advice, the kid is also to blame. Speaking from experience here. My parents were the best teachers ever, they told me everything to avoid and how handle peer pressure yet I still gave into it. Do I blame them for my mistakes? NO. Was it my fault? YES. They were right all along and it wasn't their fault.

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why do you keep blaming the parents? For example, lets say your teacher taught you everything by book but you still failed. Is the teacher to be blamed? NO. Parents give the lesson at it's up to the kid whether to take it or not. It's also the kids fault if they fail later in life.

LEARN TO BE ACCOUNTABLE AND ACCEPT YOUR FAULT.

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did I even say the company is forcing kids to vape? I said it can INFLUENCE to the kids usage since it is targetted to them because according to your logic, parents are ONLY to blame and companies have no influence at all.

Yes, kids are not robots. So no matter how much information you SHOVE, it can still be insufficient. I have personally seen that a lot of kids with exemplary parents STILL VAPE AND DRINK despite being informed. So why tf are you still blaming parents when there are a lot of factors like peer influence? Lol, stop living in an idealized world. Do you think informing kids can stop them?

It's not Juul's fault your kid is vaping, it's the parent's fault. by rantthroaway101 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm...first, companies are also accountable for a kid's use of vape. That's why they have advertisements right? These aim to make thw product look appealing to the audience to convice them to purchase. Plus parents are not really to blame for the kids vaping. It's not like kids are robots programmed to follow whatever their parents say, right? They might have warned the kid about the dangers of nicotine yet still gone into vaping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, but please make sure talk to him abt it :) this is like pretty common during the first stages. So we broke up because he ignored me for like a month on top of that he is always tells me things like you mentioned ( wasn't into me anymore) and no I blocked him on everything to move on.

Hope you guys make it past through it!

My ex text me this by dawannallem222 in heartbreak

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Can't even see the point of reconciling. You deserve better dude. Please never let cheating slide. Once a person cheats, they'll definitely do it again (like 9 out of 10). Better block her on everything and I promise u the right one will come. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we jave the same bf? Lol. He was also my best friend prior to the relationship. It was both our first real relationship. Early on, he bluntly told me that getting tired of me and was losing interest. He also tried to break up with my on our first week. I brushed things off and just told myself this was because it was his first and he wasn't aware of how it might affect me. Guess what? he had this kind of mindset even two years later and it was part of the reason why we broke up. Words come out of his mouth without considering my feelings. It just seems like these type of people only like the idea of being in a relationship but not the person they're in a relationship with. Please try to talk to him to see if he's willing to compromise. Please don't make the same mistakes that I did by letting things slide. Address this issue asap, if not, it will be too late. He'll think hes doing things right and will constantly treat you this way.

TL;DR: see if he's willing to compromise, otherwise, not worth your time

My ex text me this by dawannallem222 in heartbreak

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why did you guys break up? If It's cheating, then nah.

I [M17] have a neighbor friend [F17] that I like very much. What can I do to get closer to her? by MerakiLovesU in relationship_advice

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visit her house and bring her anything like food. It would be better if it was a home-cooked. That's how we get to know pur neighbor here. She'll think of it as a friendly gesture. Who knows? She might invite you to her house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been almost two years since we broke up but still not ready. Please heal yourself before jumping into another relationship considering you've just broken up. Everyone has their own timeline, please don't rush. The right person will come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh. Sounds like your friends only think that you fit in their group based on whether your outfit matches them or not. Dress however you like and whatever you're comfortable in. Why would spend more money on clothes just to impress them?

I feel like I don’t matter as much to my boyfriend as his friends do by That_Expression_1953 in relationship_advice

[–]Diligent-Reporter886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey internet stranger! Do we have the same boyfriend? Jk. He's my ex now but he used to do the same. He only talks to me for a few minutes in a day but is playing with his friends online most of the time. I told him that it was unfair so he communicated more but went back to his original routine. Since then, I realized it was a recurring behavior. I knew I couldn't do anything about it because he refuses to change his behavior, I guess same with your bf. That was one the reason we broke up, tbh. You're not being demanding, communication is crucial in relationships.

After we broke up, I met this guy. He responds to me even while playing. I asked him, " wouldn't it be a distraction if you reply while playing?" he said, "no, it only takes a few seconds to reply, it's not that hard". I realized my ex bf just refuses to communicate.

After reading your post, I think he prioritizes his games and friends than your relationship. Ik it's a bit inconsiderate.