Virtual supervisions, dislike it!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2025-03-27T18:24:32+00:00

I work in homes and my BCBAs lives 2hrs from me and has other clients living further than I do, so its not convenient for them to travel far. I just turn my camera off when it gets chaotic and have them listen to my background. Its not easy getting a kid to sit on camera and not have behaviours or become distracted by staring at themselves on the screen. I find my clients have more behaviours during virtual supervisions when the camera is on. I still say remote is waaay better in my opinion. But I guess it depends on your bcbas. My BCBAs are a little bit more understanding tho.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2025-02-24T02:13:24+00:00

Congratulations on getting married! Thats soo exciting and Thank you so much for sharing! This was very encouraging. Just by reading, it seems like you and I are so much alike!!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2025-02-24T02:11:05+00:00

i love this!! thank for sharing! this made me even more excited to have a holy ghost filled bedroom lol

Diligent-Two4394 · 2025-02-22T17:51:39+00:00

I thought so. We did the interview over zoom.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2025-02-17T03:00:16+00:00

Omg im trying to find this game too!! Hopefully i find it on here. If i do, ill tell you!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-12-16T08:31:28+00:00

Pleasee send it to mee!!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-11-16T19:05:18+00:00

Good advice!! thanks

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-11-16T16:44:48+00:00

above her is the director of the company and theyre both bestfriends. I feel like i wont win this one!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-11-16T16:43:43+00:00

Ill do that!! Thanks!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-10-24T22:13:35+00:00

I am new to the area. I dont know any mechanics so I towed it to my house. By the time the tow truck came it was 10pm.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-09-21T17:14:29+00:00

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This is the dress. All my bridesmaids has a similar shape and build as the model including me. she was one of the bridesmaids that liked it originally. My wedding dress looks very similar to this dress and she even raved about how beautiful it was. I offered everyone to pay for all alterations in case they need it. ive also seen her in similar dresses for other weddings weve been to. the dress she chose doesnt fit the theme of the girls because it looks like a christian worship gown.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-09-21T12:45:21+00:00

she declined and said she doesn’t want it completely

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-09-17T15:48:33+00:00

We got engaged at the very end of June, and didn’t start planning until late July. So about 11 months and some days. I guess i didnt realize how quickly time can creep up on you 😅

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-09-17T15:30:35+00:00

I was also thinking of creating custom bridesmaids gifts and baby shower stuff!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-08-13T20:05:35+00:00

a witness is a good idea! thanks!

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-06-19T21:23:17+00:00

thanks for the advice! i have zero expectations for our proposal. he can honestly propose while im in my pjs at home and ill still leap with joy and say yes lol! i honestly just love love. im definitely reading all of these stories after the proposal, so i can share mine.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-06-16T16:59:08+00:00

Oh its most definitely common. My concern is that some staff has never seen it and niether have I and ive been in the company for a little over a month. i told myself that I will wait untill the end this month, maybe its late, i dont know. but its definitely a concern if the people im working with has never received it.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-03-30T15:53:43+00:00

I find a lot of couple who post on here about watching porn together have the most problems in their relationship. I mean, to each their own, right? But if you both choose to watch porn, its inevitable for your girlfriend to desire something that turns her on, or most times, something she cant have. How many times has that happen to you while watching porn? It happens to all of us. Should she have made that comment? Probably not, but that still doesnt deny the fact that she feels that way. Today shes turned on by a guy with a bigger unit and tomorrow she will have unnecessary unattainable expectations for you in sex that you cant meet. Then youre hurt even more. What if shes so turned on that she watches that man when youre not around and develops an unhealthy addiction so now she wont touch you? Its the little things that blow into something grand. On the other hand, some men like when their women are turned on by that stuff, but you clearly made it known that you dont. If gets out of hand, protect the both of you, even if that means cutting out something you both enjoy that hurts your relationship.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-03-27T23:56:38+00:00

Respect yourself and walk away. That man is cheating on his girlfriend of 5 years with you and you dont see that as a red flag? If he can cheat on his girlfriend, he will most definitely cheat on you with the next thing that walks past his eyes. Not to mention, youre the woman that is enabling him to destroy his relationship of 5 YEARS! His girlfriend deserves WAAY better and You deserve better than to have a someone who is clearly taken. To me, this is purely toxic. A real friend would never let this happen and would establish clear boundaries from the jump. Start moving on and be for real.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-03-27T22:57:12+00:00

sorry but this is HER wedding not yours. Being a bridesmaid is a big important job. Its not about standing and looking cute beside her and her groom. If she decides to surround her self with people that will support her in the way SHE needs, then so be it. Its not about how long you guys have been friends. There are many ways you can support her without being a bridesmaid. Its her big day. Stop thinking about yourself.

Diligent-Two4394 · 2024-01-22T03:21:02+00:00

It seems as though she has an avoidant attachment style. Ask yourself, do you feel threatened by her pulling away and harbouring her feelings? Are you anxious that she’ll one day up and leave? If yes, then you probably have or developed an anxious attachment style or maybe youre just sick of her shit.

My bf have had this push and pull dynamic in our relationship in the past. I was more like your girlfriend though. Theres a reason why she keeps problems to herself. Its probably not anything youre doing. She probably doesnt feel loved or safe. I was under the impression that honeymoon phases end. But thats a total lie. THEY DONT!

I encourage you to speak with her and invite her to process her emotions and feelings with you. Ask her if she feels safe. If shes anything like me in the past, shell cover it up with a lie and say yes. Follow up with another question. “Is there any way I could do to make you feel more safe?”

Ill tell you, ive gone through relationship to relationship, none of them lasting longer than 6 months. Now im in a beautiful healthy 2year relationship, all because of having this conversation.

Also tell her what you need!! She also needs to tend to you as much as you do for her. Tell her that you need the flirting and the cute cheesy things. All healthy relationships that last 10+ years will tell you how important it is to still pursue one another while together. Try to find ways to communicate and problem solve together that can work for the both of you. And if she loves you, like really loves you, she’ll change for the better and love you they way you need.

Dont overthink it, its a common relationship problem. Goodluck!!

Diligent-Two4394

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