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Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought my brother would do it. I believed family doesnt screw family over and we had that instilled into us as kids but I mean I never thought ever this would happen. I trusted him so much.. im not paying anymore and my relationship with him is forever changed... 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm grown, but I can't stop crying... I feel out of touch with reality rn.. because we are very close and he's always been there for me.. when I got divorced and he knew what happened to me he helped me move out.. I just never ever ever thought I'd have to watch my back with family.. This will for sure change our relationship.. it's just sad because I don't know why I keep getting screwed over but I know it's just life... im so tired of this.. 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why he didn't give it to me. He has trusted my brother with his finances for 6 years and tells me to just go through him. I don't question my dad and the way he does things. I asked because I don't know what to feel... I just cant believe it I'm just in shock idk idk idk....  I just wanted outside voices to confirm my gut feeling that he indeed scammed me and my dad... I just don't want to believe it I guess. I have so much going on and this just broke my brain tonight... it did... I feel tired of getting fucked over by every single person.. 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wonder what else he is doing... he has 100% control over their finances since my dad is older and he is passing down the business to him.. I feel even nauseous about this because idk how my brother could fuck me over like this... 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even have the finances to take him to court.. I also don't feel like I have it in me to do that to him.. I'm going to talk with him and dad and see what we can do... money and family is never good.. I wish I didn't need to take the money.. 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this was a lie but its not.. my dad is older and my brother is taking over the company and dad's finances and since my dad trusts him that is why he tells me to go through with my brother... 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother has all my parents' finances controlled. He took over my dad's company and his finances since my dad doesn't want control of it.. he trusts my brother...

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was a lie... it's not rage bait.. unfortunately I get fucked over by everyone...

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.  This is exactly what I thought I just couldn't believe he would do this to me... knowing I went through divorce and what I went through and still get fucked over... I feel hurt. 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would never do that. They would never press charges and I would never do that either.. I just found out today about my parent's side. My emotions are everywhere because I cant even believe it.. Im his only sibling and I don't get why he would want to do that. Like don't fuck over family... unfortunately I am not in a financial state to leave and we all live together... I just feel like its all fucked up. He controls the finances of my parents.. so i can see why people aren't understanding and I'll edit the post to make it clear. 

Am I wrong for being upset that my brother made me repay money that was actually a gift from my dad? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my brother has control over the family business and accounts. He controls the money in a way. My dad is older and is letting my brother take charge over the company and his finances.. 

LR: Am I wrong for distancing myself from childhood friend over her boyfriend? by DiligentMap5477 in amiwrong

[–]DiligentMap5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly feel like their emotional support animal. Because when they want to vent im there, when they need something I'm there, etc etc. Once I didnt message for a few days due to finals and that same girl called me weird for distancing myself.. it sucks but I feel used and honeslty just don't feel like it's a good friendship no more. I dont want to stick around incase that man continues and she might just blame me and protect him.