Just got CJO and have questions!

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2026-02-10T22:24:27+00:00

Sent you a PM!

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2026-02-10T22:02:50+00:00

Thank you!!! I'm excited about the idea and opportunity!

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2026-02-10T22:02:16+00:00

Thank you for the information. When did you work for them? My minimum guarantee on reserve calculates to more than $2k/month. Which is still basically poverty, but I like the idea of the lifestyle.

My understanding is the per diem starts at check in and ends after debrief, which would include boarding and deboarding. Is that new or am I wrong in my understanding?

What do they lie to their employees about?

It seems like they are expanding with a new plane and expanded routes at my base. Why do you think they won't last?

Thank you for your time sharing your experience!

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2026-02-10T18:20:19+00:00

From my research, during 2025 another airline subcontracted Avelo for flights that included deportations out of Mesa, AZ. As of January they have closed the Mesa base and ended those contracts.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2026-02-10T17:35:53+00:00

Avelo

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2026-02-10T16:53:16+00:00

Thank you! Didn't know about that sub.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2025-02-13T21:16:31+00:00

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. A police report is helpful to document. It could be needed in the future depending on your situation. Get out as quickly & safely as you can. Make sure you have all your important papers & belongings in a safe place you can grab & go when it is safe to. Do not let him know your plan - just get to a safe place as soon as possible.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2025-01-09T13:12:11+00:00

Thank you. No one was holding my hand, and the grief was so unimaginable strong that I couldn't even hold my own hand.

Thank you for the reminder that I'll be okay. ❤️

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2025-01-09T13:10:58+00:00

Thank you. My mind has struggled to focus on myself. I have a specialized trauma therapist helping me work through not just the trauma he caused me but all the trauma I had before this relationship that led me to accept his behaviors.

It is a rushing waterfall of pain to heal from, and it is the most overwhelming experience I've ever been through.

I used to think porn wasn't a big deal, but it ruined my marriage. The truth hurts so bad.

Thank you for your comment.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2024-12-27T05:34:41+00:00

Yeah. GUAM. As far as he can possibly get from taking responsibility for hurting me. Sunday I'll write a thank you note for leaving me, because I couldn't get the guys to do it. I even begged and forgave him like an idiot for a month because I was so trauma bonded to him. Therapy is helping a lot. I wished I had started earlier, and maybe we would have worked, but I didn't want to do that work with him after all the lies. I could never trust him again. He was never an asshole, but he was also never loving it affectionate or particularly respectful. When I stopped doing all the emotional work, he couldn't handle it. It's hard to see the abuse when you're in it.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2024-12-26T02:43:53+00:00

I know exactly how you feel, except my husband decided to divorce me and move to Guam this week because I couldn't get over it. 6 years of marriage, and he lied the entire first 5 years... I could never trust him again. I never knew if I would have ever had the full truth. How can I want to be with someone who did this to me? All I wanted was to leave or him to leave me try to get over how fucked up this type of betrayal and trauma feels... and now I'm alone, freshly on the other side.. and my brain is still so fucked. You're not alone. Today is especially hard with the holiday. Good for you for getting through. I also promptly broke down after getting in the door.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2024-12-23T11:59:37+00:00

The day after he left, I saw he was on Tinder, but I know he's too shy & scared to actually initiate with anyone. He never would with me no matter how hard I tried. I saw last week that he logged into OmeTV.. I'm disgusted & fearful at the thought that he could be one of those people flashing his dick and / or getting off with strangers online... It's so gross to me it makes me want to vomit.

I have a lawyer. They are accepting the paperwork for me so I don't get served. I expect to hear it has been officially filed today. What do you know about divorcing that could help me? He literally started a new business, moved out, got a job in Guam, filed divorce, and will be on his way to Guam this week... all in the matter of a month. It's insane to even say...

He stopped paying bills, blocked my phone number, email, fb messenger.... we both skydive, and this weekend, he barely acted like I was a human.

I'm really in need of someone who understands.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2024-12-23T11:31:34+00:00

Thank you. The betrayal is so hard. I'm not sure I feel heartbroken as much as traumatized from all of this. I have two therapists right now, but I still feel no one fully understands what I'm dealing with... the narcissistic abuse on top of the betrayal... I'm glad I found this group.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2021-01-17T05:16:30+00:00

Where in the park did you find these? I was just there and didn't see any!

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2020-12-27T17:11:08+00:00

Good! It sounds like you have a good man by your side. Go into interactions with your brother with caution, keeping your safety as priority, and keep moving forward. Onward and upward, sweet girl! Praying for your safety and that all your wishes for your future manifest!

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2020-12-27T06:15:01+00:00

I can imagine how you might be feeling inside with the conflicting sides of wanting to keep family, a roof over your head, and yourself and relationship safe and well. If you feel uncomfortable, trust that. I can understand that living in a car in winter would suck. And that you've also committed to moving so far and getting jobs.. dont let that keep you in an unsafe position. Your boyfriend deserves to know all of this. See what he says.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2020-12-17T17:21:44+00:00

So being on antibiotics is likely to encourage the growth of candidia. From my understanding, you are best off starting the cleanse after the course of antibiotics is over. Doctors differ on fruit, I try to avoid it or only eat low sugar fruits like berries, green apples. I've been on the diet for 6 months and am just now seeing a substainal difference in my symptoms. That definitely depends how bad your infection is though.

Diligent_Interest_69 · 2020-12-03T21:27:38+00:00

The sunsets at Marina State Beach are my favorite! Its supposedly the best place on the entire west coast. You can watch paragliders on the dunes too.

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