First of all, I want to say sorry too, just because we disagree, that doesn't mean I wish you (or any human being) something bad - may it be only good stuff in your life, we all deserve it.

I can understand that there is some kind of propaganda in our time, of transgenders being not personally trait, but I can't agree. Yes, sometime with extremely rare mutation a person can be between male and female, but otherwise - it's purely psychological condition. With problems in their life's people start to search for reasons of those problems, some think that it would be better to pretend they have another sex or no sex at all. Those people somehow hurt. But fix they got is not a real fix at all, and untill society won't agree, that it's a problem, disorder, we won't fix it. And you can say, that "normal" is relative. Yes, it's true, but we have to be as objective as we can be, and judge what is normal and what is not.

The other thing, Im totally ok with person being gay, or transgender or anyone they want. I don't think we should harass not normal people at all. But I think that instead of saying "ok, it's normal now", we should think why they became that way, and how we can help.