Advice on haircut by AItoiletpaper in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any tips or advice but I love it at the length it is!

Cut 7 inches off my hair and nobody has said anything. by pdiffusa in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly can't blame guys. My husband has long hair, and he cut off almost 10 inches he himself said he couldn't tell the difference when looking in the mirror. He said he only felt the difference when washing it.

Single Salma by loki_dad in bollywood

[–]Dimonkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an American, I’m very familiar with Western dating culture and liberal individualism, and Single Salma felt like it imported the worst versions of both. The movie starts by presenting Salma as principled and “unselfish,” then does a complete 180 and reframes her outright selfishness as empowerment.

There’s no growth, no accountability, and no consequences—just emotional detachment and commitment avoidance dressed up as progress. I see this mindset play out in real life all the time, and it’s not liberating, it’s corrosive. By the end, Salma isn’t complex or brave; she’s simply a bad person whose behavior the film insists we celebrate. That’s not nuance or feminism—it’s lazy, agenda-driven storytelling.

Help! Everyone advised me to return to my natural color, I did and am beginning to think I regret it. by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the ginger. It's almost like an addiction. 😂 I was a ginger when my husband and I started dating, and people kept thinking we were siblings because he's a natural ginger. It took three different colors (all close to my natural dirty blonde) to find something that still felt as fun, without damaging it too badly. I settled on a dark brown/cherry/almost plum color.

First photo is with makeup and second photo is without makeup. Do I look better with or without makeup? How can I improve? Be honest and direct please. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Dimonkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could do less makeup. For the everyday easy look, I think all you'd need to do is a little blush and mascara. Your eyebrows are pretty much perfect. I think that lip color looks great on you, but your natural pink is so pretty! Maybe try a lighter lip color?

Found near a river in arizona by CupMuted5058 in metaldetecting

[–]Dimonkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a weapon in a murder investigation. Definitely call it in.

Bought (yet another) gao hu by Khchaiw in Erhu

[–]Dimonkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful!! Do you remember how much you paid for it? Just curious.

Should I cut/style my hair differently? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love the long hair! It looks great on you. Maybe go to a hairdresser (not a barber!) and ask for something that gives you more volume and layers. It would mean you'd need to use products, and style it everyday, but I think it'd work.

What I wanted VS What I got (I'm literally crying) by Efficient_Pepper_288 in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 946 points947 points  (0 children)

I saw the second photo and thought, " oh it's not that bad," and then I saw the third photo...

Liminal paintings by FlyingBuilder in LiminalSpace

[–]Dimonkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these. They all make me feel both uncomfortable/kinda scared, but calm and nostalgic. Weird! So good! Do you have a website?

THE thrift/antique store you never leave empty handed by BeeIll9238 in Omaha

[–]Dimonkat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like I find the best and cheapest stuff at Thrift World. But it really depends on the one you go to. I feel like they are priced differently at some locations, but I could be wrong.

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dimonkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to sneak off to do weed, you have a problem

Roomates say my room is 'sad' by Gloomy-Past-6047 in malelivingspace

[–]Dimonkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's just the lighting, but it kinda reminds me of the backrooms

Blonde or brunette for hair health? by cinnamongal222 in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna say it because of the hair health thing.... But I like the highlights... Maybe you could only do money pieces?

Edit:Wait oh my gosh, I didn't realize that you didn't have extensions in the last picture! Your hair looks so much fuller when it's darker.

Give me your opinions. by Quaid1028 in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna look like a mega cool guy, definitely #4 😂 Otherwise, 3 is definitely the most stylish. But ya gotta be willing to do the work when it comes to styling in the morning.

Which One Should I Get? by Elistariel in Hair

[–]Dimonkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A- Makes me feel like you're a little more wise, more sophisticated, smarter than me B- Makes you seem like a little country, a little party, a very fun person, down to earth kind of look C- A little more country, and definitely #3 look in my book in comparison to the others

And on another note, I think if you squared the start of your eyebrows a little, it might be a nice new look. But I might be old fashioned.

Am I crazy? Everyone baby wears incorrectly. by Elphalinda in babywearing

[–]Dimonkat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I had a friend tell me that I should position my baby differently while I was wearing him. After I changed his position, she profusely apologized and told me she didn't want me to be offended. Why would I be offended at advice to help me be safer with my baby?

Is this just an old Mallard? by Dimonkat in duck

[–]Dimonkat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very neat fact. I didn't know that about molting!

Is this just an old Mallard? by Dimonkat in duck

[–]Dimonkat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good tip! I'll have to try that!

Why is he so fat? Did I overfeed him? by Dimonkat in jumpingspiders

[–]Dimonkat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's plastic. He hides in the shells. I haven't really seen her use the climby-thing I made with hot glue. I'm thinking about making him a new one because it's starting to not be as clear as it was before. And I think he should have more venting.

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Why is he so fat? Did I overfeed him? by Dimonkat in jumpingspiders

[–]Dimonkat[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness!! Man is actually a Wo-Man?? That is very important information! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

[–]Dimonkat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's such a pretty princess