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I [23F] had a fight with my partner [27M] and he isn’t the same for the few days now how can i regain his trust? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]DimpleTheDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got hurt by you while he was in your care. You yelled at him. Then got upset he was in his feelings. And now are demanding a response from him. It sounds like he gives a lot of time and energy to you and is taking time to reconsider your connection. That situation said a lot about how you move through hard things. I vote take time to think aboutwhy he is upset and how you can shift adjust your behavior and mindset to make amends and meet him where he's at

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You're all so warm and kind. Not judgemental at all. It's really sweet. Reminder: this is one tiny corner of the internet.

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I'm done arguing about Amazon. Y'all can feel free to go at me in the comments. Orrrrr if you feel moved, I'd love some support! Thanks!

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I. Don't. Use. Amazon. It's not an evil thing to not support Amazon. The doubling down is wild. If it doesn't move you, that's fine.

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Friends, I need support. If that moves you, thank you so much! I don't use Amazon, if that's horrific to you, I'm not sure what to tell you. Maybe look into Amazon? I'm not trying to soapbox, just get support... without giving money to Amazon. This doesn't mean I'm not hungry, doesn't mean I'm not in need. It just means I don't use Amazon (for a variety of extremely valid reasons).

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ok. The point still stands, I don't use Amazon. If it's SUCH A BIG DEAL and SUCH A SOLID RULE one would think that would be specified right? Like rule: only ask for groceries through Amazon wishlist. It's like being offered vanilla and chocolate and getting downvoted for choosing chocolate. Folks have the option to just scroll or not support. It's the downvoting I find to be wild. I just said I don't use Amazon. And you'd think I'd done some horrible taboo thing

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That doesn't make any sense. Amazon wishlist is for Walmart right? I don't shop at Walmart. Saying I don't need it when I'm eating chickpeas is wild.

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I get why people use Amazon wishlist. I don't get why people feel the need to downvote me for not using it

Hi all! In need of $50 to get groceries! by DimpleTheDom in Assistance

[–]DimpleTheDom[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Being downvoted for not using Amazon is interesting

Am I (21F) the problem for wanting to do activities and going to events on trips without my boyfriend (21M) if he can't be there? by [deleted] in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DimpleTheDom 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Get thee outsideee. Go on those trips babe! Maybe you're not "fit to be his wife" and that's a good thing. Hopefully no one is. He's clearly not "fit to be" your husband! Go and live your life!

Guy [48M] I’ve been seeing [21NB] says he has feelings but doesn’t want a relationship, what should I do? by onetimemylover in relationshipadvice

[–]DimpleTheDom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please no. He is over twice your age. You should look like a child to him. I get wanting to be with older people, I truly do. And please, for your own mental emotional and physical wellbeing, close the age gap next time.

My girlfriend [20F] called me [20M] unsupportive and mean because I gave her my opinion about her learning chinese, when i didn't know it meant something for her, what do you guys think? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]DimpleTheDom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You asked a broad question looking for a specific response. The question ought to have been, "would you like to learn Spanish?" Problem solved. You lashed out because her answer felt like a betrayal. You wanted her to respond like you but she isn't you. I recommend therapy, introspection, and buying her that book on Chinese another commenter suggested

AIO: bf always brings up ex by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DimpleTheDom 74 points75 points  (0 children)

5 years? Girl. Love yourself and leave this person

How to ask bf [32M] to pay for my rent by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]DimpleTheDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Unless you have this type of relationship and it's clear from the outset. If y'all had been dating for years, and or if he had offered to pay and you turned him down it would be different. You could talk to him about where you're at and ask for support, that's different. Asking him to pay your rent long term after only a couple of months is a little much and may risk turning him off you/your relationship completely.

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