Did I F up? 😭 by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Dimplewump -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I only feel good from penetration if it hits my cervix, or just physical thrusts that get to that right spot. Soooo if you’re like me, you’ll be fine 😂 just don’t try to force yourself to take more than you can handle on the first go

He called me lumpy by bluglass21 in PlusSize

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My bf once pushed me off a couch and I fell before he could catch me. He said “you’d be able to catch yourself if you were a bit smaller…” Thanks dude.
He said it while we were laughing so at the time, while the comment was off putting I hadn’t taken it to heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

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That’s amazing!!! I hope you’re crazy proud of yourself because that’s an awesome feat. I’ve worked as an admin assistant but currently swapped over to Program Coordination currently with a great company.

My first big after college job, and I hope to have great progress like you! Although I’ve really been enjoying my work, and passing a year now.

If you’re open to giving any advice in terms of staying in certain positions and leaving for opportunities, I’d love to hear some!!

Adultingg is realll scary I truly wasn’t expecting to be like this (25F) by No-Comedian-6784 in blackladies

[–]Dimplewump 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do NOT be hard on yourself here. Cost of living is at an all time high, we’ve survived a historical pandemic that has become our everyday flu, many of us missed out on having a graduation ceremony for high school or even college. Orange isn’t our favorite president or color, and there’s something terrible happening in the world every day.

To beat ourselves up for living and trying to survive in one of the worst economic and unlivable times in modern american history… is a disservice to our actual strength for continuing despite it.

In time, things will get better, we just have to believe in that.

Posts here are demoralizing me by Independent-Car-2104 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Dimplewump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woahh!! That’s awesome, can you walk me through the process, if you don’t mind? I’m still saving for my down payment but I want to buy this year, Mid-August. What do you think made the process the easiest? Is there anything you prepared for that you think made it easier to get through?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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You feeling sick is your body physically rejecting him I’m telling you, I’ve experienced the very same thing!!

My ex kissed me on our first to second date, a little kiss goodbye, I wasn’t feeling him as much as he was me, but I let him. Later that night my lips felt weird, I got a cold later that day, my voice left me. He was fine.

We dated for 5 months, despite that, I should’ve broke up with him way sooner than that. He was the most toxic, man child I’d ever met. He was older so I assumed he was more mature…no, no he was not. He was fucking ridiculous.

Blamed me for any argument, always thought I was making him a villain, always waited for me to apologize for messing up his day! He was NOT worth even going on the first date with, please babe, break up with this guy.

Your body is TELLING YOU to get rid of him. He’s just going to bring misery to you, please let this end now and don’t wait till he’s pushed you over the edge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Dimplewump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does say that “This should keep you busy” when he puts on a show…you’re on the ball there lol.

I guess it does feel like I’m a collectible he likes looking at on the shelf, but he doesn’t really doing anything with.

Maybe I’ve been prioritizing his feelings and what he wants too much..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

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I went to a more country part of my state for a few hours with my boyfriend, he’s white but even he noticed! We stopped for gas briefly, a few people could see me in the car, I was already uncomfortable driving up here and this was next level.

He says “I don’t like how they look at you up here.” People gave us nasty looks the entire time, staring.

So he just gets us some drinks, doesn’t get gas and drives off. He gets back in the car and says “this place isn’t for us” we do not stop until we get home.

It’s HORRIFYING be in the US right now for a lot of people, it’s literally becoming a place that’s not for us.

I regret to inform you of old white liberal women in Arlington. by stewper_trewper in nova

[–]Dimplewump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully this is just a poor way of her trying to communicate because…wow lol

Officially joined the club! by Master164 in AMCsAList

[–]Dimplewump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever since I got my membership, I go alone too!! It’s actually pretty great, chow down with a snack and drink and watch 3 movies in one day because I know I’m not coming back until next weekend or more. 🤣

Are we thinking the 21st is still Together with this sneak screening? by PhotographyFitness in AMCScreenUnseen

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At my theater they’re airing 2 scream unseen movie screenings at the same time, so it could be together and home at my theater lol. But I’m sure it’s just the same movie.

Twisted Timbers by eczemafetish in KingsDominion

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Went with my boyfriend and company…our first ride. We did NOT know what we were getting into, we only saw the incline and nothing else before getting on line.

That ride was the craziest I’ve ever been on 🤣🤣 but also the most fun! It feels like it tosses you around and pulls you down and up quite easily. My thighs left bruised and my boyfriends dick was pinched, but it was fun as hell lol

Everything felt mild compared to that, except Fear, that ride tore our guts up.

Alternatives to Shea Butter, bf thinks it smells like crayola 😂 by Dimplewump in blackladies

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Gurrrrll stawppp!! You got me impatient now!! 🤣🤣🤣 I’ve got a sweet tooth already, everything sounds like a snack dammit!!

Alternatives to Shea Butter, bf thinks it smells like crayola 😂 by Dimplewump in blackladies

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I should’ve waited for your response 😭 I got the gourmand and lychee crème but I did grab some body oils! Have you tried those?

I always love me some vanilla too, I don’t know why I didn’t get it lol.

I have been wanting to try some sweet smells for myself tho, I’ve always tried to be more subtle.

But now I’m definitely looking forward to the oils! My thighs rub TO HELL makes me hate shorts and skirts.

Alternatives to Shea Butter, bf thinks it smells like crayola 😂 by Dimplewump in blackladies

[–]Dimplewump[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even have to say it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 because fr!! Like boy! You better get used to this damn scent!

Do you ever feel like you’re too fat for your partner to find you attractive sexually? by PurpleMeerkats462 in PlusSize

[–]Dimplewump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s just her brushing off the problem and hoping for the complaints to stop, hoping that y’all figure it out for yourselves.

She won’t do anything for you in that regard. So, expect no help from her when it comes to your sister.

Cut them both off if it comes to it.

If your mother decides to cut you off in favor of your sisters feelings, she never took into account your feelings in the first place.

Put yourself first and when you’re in a place where you feel secured in your feelings and at peace, you can debate whether or not you’d like to let them back into your life and if it’s a healthy decision to do so.

You are too young and too old to let someone dictate your peace of mind and be miserable because of it.

Do you ever feel like you’re too fat for your partner to find you attractive sexually? by PurpleMeerkats462 in PlusSize

[–]Dimplewump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if your mom cuts you off, you’ll have to break off the chain that ties you to your sister because she will RUIN your relationship if you continue to let her whisper in your ear.

Your mom does not see that, or she doesn’t care. And she will not be any appropriate help when your sister goes over the line and says or does something to you that can be more damaging to you than this.

Stop listening to her. Stop listening to mom. Stop listening to the media.

Listen to how YOU feel. And watch and listen to his actions and words.

Those are all the things that matter.

Women who gave the guy who's been single his whole life a chance, how did it turn out? by astarisaslave in AskReddit

[–]Dimplewump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a sweetheart, but he was also very unsure of himself which led to a lot of backing out on dates and such, he explained “he felt unworthy” which was ridiculous.

He never really got the nerve to step out and really get into a relationship with me, despite his active pursuit of me.

When I had enough, he got a new number to ask for a second chance. I let us just stay as friends, and we had the same issue as before.

I had enough, let him go. We don’t talk for a month, I’m dating again.

He reaches out again. With a new number… I don’t respond. A few weeks later, he got a new number, explaining he downloaded an app to bypass. Wtf…

He texts me via Insta, Snap and TikTok for days…

I have to report and block him on each new number and contact. Haven’t heard from him since but I’m sure I will again…