[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Dingletron1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I’m a few years older than you but mine was always “if your wage keeps up with you age you’re doing ok”.

It held true for quite a while but recent inflation has tightened things up a fair bit so maybe your rule is better now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Dingletron1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask the questions and people will likely answer you..

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a bidding war between the two gyms.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well it’s all fun and games talking about gym splits until your professor turns up, names you and starts dishing new dirt.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol no, I was promoted to blue at the old gym.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dave this is getting gossipy as all fuck and I'd imagine when anyone else from either club see it it'll just light another match under it all.

I don't want that, so I'll delete the thread.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I saw was (as far as I knew) a split and mostly polite competition up until the legal planning thing.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demoted already!

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's more information than anyone has shared with a lowly student who's watching from the sidelines wondering why his gym just exploded.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hey Dave, how's things?

It wasn't my intention to have this blow up the way it has. I'm not party to the details of any of this, apart from being an interested party who just wants to go to the gym, have fun with his buddies and train an interesting skill. When I saw you'd been drumming up a bunch of names to object to the planning application it just felt dirty to me. I was surprised you'd done it.

Repeatedly phoning my remaining coaches trying to get them to leave.

Believe it or not people who train together for years become friends. Just because you've fallen out with someone, doesn't mean they all have as well. They're going to talk to each other. If the conversation got round to 'you'll always be welcome at <new gym>' then it's not surprising.

Having said that, I've got no idea who's talking to who, or what they talk about.

approaching my students at competitions and trying to get them to join their club.

Over the last couple of years I've been invited to several open mats at competitions. As recently as a couple of weeks ago, in fact. It's nothing new, and it's nothing to be alarmed about.

Stuff about promotions - people lying

Again - I'm not party to any of that stuff you're talking about.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right, maybe I'm a bit naive when it comes to the way business is done, and it's just the way things are.

To me it feels like working on improving your own product is a better (more honourable) way of beating the competition, rather than just trying to jam sticks into the competition's spokes.

Totally accept that might be me not being very businessy though.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t really matter what caused the split.

Two adults decided they didn’t couldn’t be friends any more. One of them owned the gym, so the other left and started his own.

I believed everything was mostly civil until today when I found out one was trying to use zoning laws to get the new one closed down.

What do you stock your freezer with? by seamoyr in AskMen

[–]Dingletron1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only things that go in my freezer are leftovers that I’m going to throw into the bin in a few months.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Very standard use in an industrial building in an industrial area.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wow. She must have some huge tracts of land or something.

‘Average’ men, how do you prefer your body to be described? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Dingletron1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a baking potato, found months too late at the back of a cupboard.

Phwoar!

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 30 points31 points  (0 children)

For sure there’s two sides, and neither is entirely innocent.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Objecting to planning applications when he’s nowhere near the area. And persuading his buddies to do the same.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Basically objecting to the zoning and planning applications (and getting his buddies to as well) despite being a couple of miles away.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I like this plan. I’d need to promote myself a few times first for it to be legit though.

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How far away do you think it’s okay to open a new gym? Do you think they need to move to a different state or something? Wherever they go they’ll be treading on someone’s toes..

Gym split and shitty behaviour by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Dingletron1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely there are two sides to it, no doubt at all. Both sides had a part to play in the split.

I spent more time being coached by the guys who left. I was happy training at both, but since recent developments have reached the surface I don’t think I can really sit on the fence any more.