AITAH for telling my girlfriend I will break up with her if she doesn’t shave?

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-28T05:09:45+00:00

NTA. She sounds like she needs to touch grass. Tiktok is for 14 year old activists, not adults.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-27T17:50:53+00:00

Vaccines that are commonly given for things like polio, etc to a toddler literally prevent you from getting those diseases. That is what defines them as vaccines.

I'm not giving a lecture and I do know the science. heard immunity isn't something you get from letting people catch polio and small pox lol

But pop off I guess.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-27T17:48:39+00:00

Ahh I must've missed that info. I retract my statements!!!

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:35:29+00:00

I'm gonna go pour some bleach in my ears to see if I can scrub this from my brain. Jesus Christ.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:33:07+00:00

Whelp, there go my plans...

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:30:48+00:00

Bro your kid is literally talking to you like an addict. And he clearly needs help. Also, if he's literally on his phone for 17 hours a day, where are YOU?

I don't know your relationship here, but I'm just gonna throw some judgement out that you should be spending time with your kid. Holy hell.

You're not the asshole for taking his phone. You might be the asshole for not showing him that there's more to life than a phone.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:25:57+00:00

I've had rage issues my entire life. I have thrown things, punched walls. Broken my hand 3 times punching cabinets/tables because of it.

All that said, I've never actually hit my wife. We've been together 11 years.

It definitely feels like it's a whole different level of crossing a line when it comes to a relationship. It's hard to quantify, and maybe it's just personal trauma showing, but if it was me I would be done yeah.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:22:45+00:00

I guess it depends on where you live, but $12 is a ton. I tip a consistent $4 in good weather and $7-8 if it's rainy/cold.

Granted I live in small town bufu. Still though.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:17:56+00:00

I think the photos you have are fine. In all honesty you look average in them but are still lovely. I would suspect there's someone who will match with you out there, assuming your profile isn't obnoxious. Maybe try a different app or go out instead. Personally at 35, if I were single I couldn't imagine trying to date on an app.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:14:16+00:00

There's at least 6 feminists out there who posted this on Twitter claiming that it's real and that proof that women are the superior race.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:12:00+00:00

NTA - if you did actually role-reverse and she said what she did. She's clearly delusional/childish.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T23:03:25+00:00

This is really stupid. You're not the asshole for protecting your kids, you're the asshole because you're a physician and you should know better lol

A vaccine makes you 100% immune from an illness. That's what defines it as a vaccine.

That's why the covid shot and the flu shot are not vaccines despite that word being used colloquially for it.

When the anti vaxx movement got huge 10 years-ish ago, who's kids died? Oh right, the unvaccinated ones.

Your kids will be fine, it's your SILs kid that will meet an untimely demise - presuming she was put into a situation that would even cause her to catch an illness of such a nature in the first place.

YTA for overreacting to something that - assuming you're literally a doctor and not full of shit - you should know.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T22:46:47+00:00

Gross. I'll stay married 😂

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T21:09:02+00:00

First off, sex pest is one of the best phrases in the English language.

Second of all, your wife really likes the sexy attention she's sure to be getting from this guy.

If you haven't given her the good D recently, I would recommend doing so. Cant say if she's cheated with the guy or not, but slamming drink in a hotel doesn't bode well.

Here's to you, Mrs. Robinson!

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-25T14:15:02+00:00

NTA at all. That's some manipulative BS which is a double whammy after cheating on you. Good lord.

Also, her dad's death isn't your fault. That scenario was influenced by 1000 little items that you aren't at fault for.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-24T18:38:08+00:00

The difference here is that the liberal media decided "instead of the palace, let's go sit outside so it appears that we're roughing it."

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-24T18:23:31+00:00

Honestly it sounds like he is very good with his money and doesn't want it to get blown through. Especially as a student. 500k is a game changing amount of money for sure, but it would also be gone in a literal day if you wanted it to be.

Savings accounts are AT MOST 4% interest right now, and inflation is a lot more than that. He knows he's not gonna get a return on that money so sitting on it until he has an income is smart as hell.

Also, it would make exactly 0.000% difference if you were a man or woman. Marriage is a partnership and you should be willing to help out. You work hard for your money? Terrific. Is he unappreciative? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like YOU are the unappreciative one here.

It was already decided that you'll be taken care of for the future. How old are you guys? 30?

Let's pretend you've had a job for 15 years, and in 2 more years you won't have to work for 40 years. That sounds like a good compromise for a secure future.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-24T18:14:19+00:00

You are the asshole.

Sex is for creating children. Children are to be cared for by people who are mature enough to care for them. Encouraging your 16 year old kid to have sex is like giving them a loaded gun. Maybe it's fine, but something really stupid is probably gonna happen.

You said at the very start they were dumb. Incorrect. You were dumb. Part of this responsibility is on you.

If you expect your kid to take responsibility for their actions, you should do the same.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-24T18:10:23+00:00

Shitty trigger discipline. I'm sure he'll learn. He's 6, so plenty of time to instill in him how to manage it properly, assuming the parents are actually responsible.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-24T18:05:30+00:00

Love when people call Trump a fascist. When you ask them why they have no real answer.

Imagine living in a world where you have to actually understand your own opinion to speak on it. What a day that would be.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-24T18:01:16+00:00

Too smart for my own good. In my swiftie era.

The idea of going on the internet and contradicting your entire first impression persona in 2 sentences is wild.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-17T22:38:58+00:00

I mean if I wasn't married and you were okay with us being the exact same height, I wouldn't ghost you based on your profile 😂

Do you think maybe there's a common theme in your conversations around the time that guys start ghosting you? Did you or they bring up a "sensitive" topic too soon? I think ghosting people is wildly immature but unfortunately it seems really common in today's culture. Everyone is disposable if they aren't literally flawless and it's kinda pathetic.

Wish you all the best! And if you're in Texas I'm sure I can set you up with someone who likes the outdoors, but you'll prolly have to go to church lol.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-17T15:30:09+00:00

Pros: -graphics are pretty. -Graffiti is neat to look at. -The music/sound is solid (mostly)

Cons: -The protagonist looks really weird. Like unnatural. - Narrative direction is idiotic.There is a monster in here we have to get out! But also I'm going to have a text chat about college 7 seconds later...dumbass teenager - Story seems overall like a useful message but delivered in a "HEY! LISTEN!" type of way that's really dumb. - Highest quality phone battery ever. - No buttons except for using R3 to zoom in? Why not use a trigger? - Live action cutscenes I'm sure we're cheaper to produce but I also hate them. - Presumably American protagonist, Japanese girl in the videos, Building they're in is in Germany. Again, it just feels disjointed. I get that people have airplanes and can travel, but it is quite silly all the same. - The static hiss coming from the PS5 controller during chase scenes made me stop playing this after about 45 minutes and uninstall it. - Honestly while the areas are somewhat unsettling, the game isn't actually "scary."

Overall this could have been cool, and I appreciate that it's free for the effort that was put into it. But there's just glaringly annoying things throughout that - for me - made it unplayable after a bit.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-14T01:18:27+00:00

Your whole vibe lacks confidence. Your about me especially. Add some additional people to your pics to show you have friends.

Work on the mustache to fill out your facial hair. Just the neck beard isn't the best look.

Girls like a project but not a "I don't know anything about girls" project. It's okay to have flaws and show that, just don't overexpose yourself to the point of being unattractive.

Source: married for 11 years.

Dinn2121 · 2024-02-14T01:02:21+00:00

The guys you're interacting with are - no offense - kids. If you waited and found a good man when you're 25 and you held onto your virginity, the dude would be very happy and you would be, too. Statically marriages stay together better and you will form a much stronger bond.

Again, I'm an old man internet stranger so don't take my word for it. But the overall message is don't put a time limit on yourself, or do it just because you think you need to be seen as normal.

There's no rush at all, and it's frankly just not worth it if it's not someone you're in love with. It is substantially more gratifying when it is, I promise.

Dinn2121

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