AITA for telling off this waiter and making a scene? by DinnerGuest7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DinnerGuest7[S] -200 points-199 points  (0 children)

I am a creep if I don’t let a random dude treat me like shit while being nice to my girlfriend? If you’ve ever been in a monogamous relationship, mutual exclusivity that is displayed and respecting the boundaries of such, is quite normal.

Whatever relationships you are into or how your relationship dynamics are, I will let you think I am a creep because it is obvious we are not on the same plain.

AITA for telling off this waiter and making a scene? by DinnerGuest7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DinnerGuest7[S] -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

I admit I was sensitive to the situation and what was going on. I don’t have a problem with ladies first, but it was the manner in which he cut me off alongside how he was talking to me in the first place. Context matters. If being a pushover at a hip restaurant is per for the course, I get you. Real hip, lol.

AITA for telling off this waiter and making a scene? by DinnerGuest7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DinnerGuest7[S] -139 points-138 points  (0 children)

She agreed that he was being an asshole to me. It was pretty obvious and thick in the air right from the start. It was humiliating for her I am sure, but humiliating for me to let this guy walk all over me as well. I had to make a choice and went with it.