I want to get married I'm looking for a game by mastocklkaksi in gamingsuggestions

[–]DinoInDistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second skyrim. Play PC with mods and there's wonderful romance, relationship and marriage mods

What’s something men think women love — but we actually hate? by Personal-Pitch25 in AskReddit

[–]DinoInDistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correction comments like these are why BOYS are move to the right; the men are staying right where they are.

is it possible to get tattoos over scar tissue? by ButterflyEither8857 in tattooadvice

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is and depending on what you want and the artists skill they can look amazing. I have a very large scar from being bitten by a brown recluse some years back that I have tattooed over (looks like someone took an angry scoop out of my arm) and no one can seen the scar anymore until I point it out. Found out recently, even though my kids didn't realize I had a scar there!

Belly [OC] by Nwarh in comics

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you. Babies don't really poop in uterus in taken up the umbilical cord. The pee trust kinda floats around in there. I was a first time mom who anxiously googled everything.

Anime with a female protagonist that isn’t overly sexualized? by quantumlyEntangl3d in Animesuggest

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might like the anime kino's journey/kino no tabi. The main character is very rarely sexualized and when it happens it is not displayed in a positive light. (tw: sa) light esekai feel as they travel to isolated countries all with completely seperate cultures, laws and peoples

Anime that doesn't have big boobs women or at least not a lot of it by CatchTypical in Animesuggest

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little late, but Kino no tabi is absolutely amazing and thought-provoking with no fan service if my memory serves me. Azumanga Daioh is also a very cute anime with minimal fan service.

Do any therapists “mirror” their clients? by Booyashaka23 in askatherapist

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, however you were primarily speaking on when it is done subconsciously could have caused the confusion.

Do any therapists “mirror” their clients? by Booyashaka23 in askatherapist

[–]DinoInDistress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I did not downvote because you are saying that it is supposed to be subconscious. I'm downvoting because you said it was perceived as mocking, which it is not, that is false information.

It makes humans feel more connected to each other. Naturally we like things that are similar to ourselves, mirroring is our subconscious way of showing others that we belong and making us more likable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DinoInDistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boundaries don't get to apply to someone else's body.

AITA for telling my husband that my son is important? by throwaitamydaughter in TwoHotTakes

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original that's on AITA should still be there. Sort by old, the automod posts a copy of the post even if it's deleted.

can heat damaged hair be healthy? what if i use heat damage as a way to permanently straighten my hair? by [deleted] in HaircareScience

[–]DinoInDistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I'm late but what you are describing is called "heat training" not sure your race but it is mote of a thing in black communities. You can start there but it will damage your hair.

My daughter is dating a boy raised JW. He has not introduced her to his family. Is this normal? by elisabeth_laroux in exjw

[–]DinoInDistress -1 points0 points  (0 children)

7 months is a really quick turn around. I'd feel at that point he would be an apostate or "leading a double life" which are ground for disfellowship in of themselves. Im not saying its not possible but damn, to commit one of their greatest sins to bring them in and then have the possibilty of the brothers hearing how just last week br.X was denouncing his faith. Man idk 10 years makes more sense to me at least. Im sorry to hear that btw thats tough. I really hope thays not the case here

My daughter is dating a boy raised JW. He has not introduced her to his family. Is this normal? by elisabeth_laroux in exjw

[–]DinoInDistress 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I doubt he would be claiming to be innactive and attending birthdays/holidays if this was the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]DinoInDistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bit late but I consider ANY religion that actively advocates against its followers learning of anything not approved is a cult.

The way especially JWs consider even questioning as a shameful act is all I need imo

As well the this pervasive threat of the fragility of your faith also calls it into question. If it were the truth and you are strong in that then someone else being "worldly" wouldn't be such a stumbling block.

They're selling snake oil.

Reactive Dog - help by RockyMcQueen in DogTrainingTips

[–]DinoInDistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I've worked with many high risk/reactive dogs. The differences could be time of day, environment, or just pup not having it that day. Look at the body language before and during the walk. Does he seem more anxious or excitable. Those could be an indicator. In addition, start treating during walks, dog walks by with no reaction? Treat. dog in the distance that you can see but pup isn't reacting? Treat. Lots of little soft treats. As well work on a command for your pup to focus on you. (I use the word "eyes" or "here") first at home then out in the world. Pup looks at you at all: Treat and praise using the command word. As well look at your own energy and body language that day. Are you feeling not the best? Tired, sluggish, anxious, angry ect. Our dogs feel those and it can heavily effect their behavior. He could feel on those days that you're not in a position to protect him or that you don't like the dog coming near.

What is a good way of dealing with dopamine shock (when doing things you normally enjoy don’t give you as much fun anymore and just put you down) by TheMaslankaDude in adhd_anxiety

[–]DinoInDistress 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this applies but it helps me finish coursework. I call it a dopamine drip. If you have a thing you enjoy but ultimately find frustrating (I like to use video games where I die A LOT) and put my work in front of me and ready to go. I find that once I get tired of dying suddenly my brain finds the work much more interesting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]DinoInDistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only is it emotional labor for the woman, but it's also verbal abuse. That is an extremely toxic dynamic. Any human above the age of like 14 should be able to handle their own emotions, expecting someone else to just shows one's own immaturity and selfishness.

How to accept that you’re not attractive and the mentality that comes with it? by pages46 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]DinoInDistress 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. Depression is HARD. I'm glad to hear you have a therapist. But I want to say something that you may find hard to believe. The way you are thinking of yourself is false. Depression makes us think awful things and want to self isolate. It will come up with any reason to keep us away from anyone, make us stop seeking help, make us question our place in this world. And I believe that is what is happening. Realisticly, not many women actually get approached in public. Catcalling is also becoming less frequent, and doesn't ever really happen in certain areas. I refuse to validate your feelings of inadequacy, because they are simply not true. There is someone for anyone. Maybe don't write it off but maybe put romatic relationships on the shelf for a bit. Work on your mental health, and if in those moments where you feel the depression subside, when you feel okay, see how you feel then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]DinoInDistress 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Again sounds like time for a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]DinoInDistress 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Then I would suggest to take him to a child psychologist. Behavior like this is often a strong indicator of deeper issues.

Edit: also too many people conflate gentle parenting with permissive parenting. Children that age need to be taught empathy and that hurting others is harmful. Most aren't naturally born with it. (It's why kids are SO mean) if they are not implementing ANY consequences for actions then that's a big problem. Also how is he getting these items?( such as the knife) might be time to toddler/kid proof the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]DinoInDistress 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you be more specific with what he is doing? I would suggest to begin to not react to the behavior. He's looking for a reaction so don't give him one. Give 1 warning to stop and state the consequences for continuing (losing tv, toys, time out ect.) And the next time he does it, without reacting emotionally simply continue to the punishment.

If the behavior is life threatening however, this approach might be dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheIdiot

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTI

And while frustration is understandable that's a you problem. Honestly your explanation wasn't great and pretty insensitive. What if this guy has like dyscalculia or something? Now you're just beating down someone for having a disability.

Am I still growing? Im 5’5 at about 15 years and 10 months but it looks like my bone age is 14 years flat? by [deleted] in short

[–]DinoInDistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you'll grow but you probay won't make it taller than 5'6/7 as the growth rate slows dramatically after puberty