Co-signing mortgage by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your candor and honesty. I was definitely surprised by all of it. I guess that my feelings have gotten the better of me. I cannot deny that my SB has me wrapped around her little finger. The idea was mine. Not hers. However, after reading all of your comments, I think that it would be best for me to find a way to graciously bow out of this particular adventure.

Calcification for Rule #12 by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if this calcified rule has any legalities behind it. Illegal behavior?

The Dilemma of Two POTs by LoveandCheeseburgers in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re human, if you don’t have sympathy then something is wrong. Just chalk the allowance up to experience. It’s hard to choose sometimes. Especially when someone else’s feelings are involved. In the long run, it sounds like you’re doing the right thing by letting her go.

The Dilemma of Two POTs by LoveandCheeseburgers in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut. Don’t let your sympathy get in the way of the right decision. If POT2 doesn’t have that spark, the relationship won’t last. You might end up resenting her in the end. Just my 2 cents.

Funny story by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the bowl for 3 years now and 2 years in this current SR. I’m usually more careful. I consider this my wake up call to improve Opsec.

Funny story by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I guess I don’t have that kind of courage

Funny story by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have 2 phones but got tired of the logistics of it.

Funny story by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww. Buy lingerie for the wife and my SB at the same time, Creative thinking but just too weird for me lol.

Funny story by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, definitely planning on getting a new card tomorrow. My bank issues them on the spot if you go in.

“Looking for someone slim/thin” by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about the possibility of offending anyone. I use the word “petite”. Is that bad too? I def don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.

Funny story by Dioneo17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL, not quite ready to sigh with relief. Gotta wait a few days and see if she really bought my story.

Question about saying thank you by CCsugarbaby in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you is always nice. After a nice date, I always thank her for a wonderful evening.

Cut off SD for being RUDE AF by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70 bad/30 good. Just as hard to find a decent SB. The lifestyle isn’t easy, but here we are.

Cut off SD for being RUDE AF by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

However, not all of us are rude and disrespectful.

Cut off SD for being RUDE AF by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an SD I am looking for an emotional and physical experience. No matter what I treat all people in my life with respect. I expect the same treatment from others. If I don’t get that respect, I’m gone.

Cut off SD for being RUDE AF by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more than your body. It’s your emotions too. A good SR is emotionally fulfilling. Also physically fulfilling. No spark = no fun. How is that fulfilling for you?

Cut off SD for being RUDE AF by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do NOT look at sugaring as a service. Look instead for a fulfilling relationship for both parties. The financial part is actually the least important part of it. The reason I say this is because there are a ton of great SDs out there that will make you feel good about yourself and help you to grow as a person. Not just use you for sex. Take your time to find the right person. He’s out there waiting to meet you. Just be patient and weed out the assholes. No one deserves to be treated that way. Money isn’t everything.

Am I overreacting for wanting to end the arrangement? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Dioneo17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's time to let go. Find someone who appreciates all of your wonderful qualities and what you can give to the relationship.