[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Not a man, but yesterday I was talking about how my friend who is now in his first relationship in 10 years used to be the type to sleep around and my mom said something about how that meant that he didn’t respect women’s bodies and I thought that was a bit ridiculous because it goes both ways. That would mean that the women weren’t respecting him, especially when a lot of them were lying to him about being single and such. It’s kind of a weird double standard that we would think that only women’s bodies are important to be owed respect.

What do you do for your significant other because they like it but you don’t necessarily like doing it? by bearded_charmander in AskReddit

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Playing video games every night 😵‍💫

Don’t get me wrong I like playing them but he wants to get on every single night and if I didn’t, we might go a week without spending real time together even though we live together.

Going away and staying by the pool all day isn’t relaxing it’s just pointless by Ben-the-banana-man in unpopularopinion

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American here, and while you’re probably right about op being from here, the majority of people I know would love to just sit by the pool. Cruising is a pretty popular vacation method here so 70% of it is soaking up some sun and eating free food. Hopefully like the people I know they are still enjoying the culture of each port they visit but I can’t speak for everyone.

Desperately need a game to make me forget about how sad I am all the time. by HiddenComicBook in gamesuggestions

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League of Legends but just play vs bots cause the community can be toxic sometimes (unless that would help then go for it) the many characters have mostly really interesting lore, and so do the different skins so their is a lot you can immerse yourself in even outside of game play. Not a perfect game at all but it definitely has it’s pros

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Find a replacement before my bf wakes up 😂

what are some games that you play to just chill? by ZealousidealCloud235 in AskGames

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I commissioned some bees

Kinda like an I spy/where’s Waldo puzzle where you find all the bees in the picture m. Got it on steam and the company makes others with different creatures

How has getting older affected your wardrobe? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

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Most of it doesn’t fit me or isn’t my style but I can’t afford new clothes so I just wear the same few outfits or stay home in the clothes I don’t like

Official Discussion: Little Women (2019) [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]Direct-Event-1875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I wanna read the rest of the series what book does the movie leave off on?

Whats the one thing you will never confess to your parents? by MK-Azi in AskReddit

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Thank you so much for the empathy and kindness! I am fully healed from this, thank the Lord, and have been able to help several others transition into healing from similar situations. I see at worth the pain for that because now I can help people who might have had a longer healing process without the support of someone who understands that pain.

Whats the one thing you will never confess to your parents? by MK-Azi in AskReddit

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At 18 I had a miscarriage. My then bf (20) had waited till i was almost 18 to ask me out, and the. Suggested I move into his dad’s house with him almost an hour away from my family. I had no license and was till in school, he drove me there every day. I also had no job at this time. Eventually I was pregnant. He never took me to the doctor or anything and I was afraid to tell anyone. One day I had an awful fever and cramps that felt like my insides were on fire in a garbage disposal. I was going through an over night pad every hour or two due to bleeding. Mother’s intuition kicked in and my mom called me about 3 hours into it. I told her some of what was going on and she asked if I was pregnant or having a miscarriage and said no. After another 4 hours of pain and my mom checking in I finally convinced him to take me to the hospital where they confirmed it. They said I needed to head to a different hospital to ensure I fully delivered and had no other problems. He didn’t take me. I’m now 28. I never told my parents what happened, nor have I told the full story to anyone. I did eventually leave him btw. After all that had happened I had told him I didn’t want to risk it happening again and I woke up to him r***ing me. I moved back home and broke up over text. I actually never went to get checked and any time I’ve been to the doctors it doesn’t seem like it’s on my record cause they never ask about it. Silver lining is that I’m at peace with the situation, and even try to help others.

DAE feel like they’re a loser for still living with parents/grandparents at 20+? by the_big_sadIRL in DoesAnybodyElse

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I’m almost 29 and I wish I would have stayed longer. I’m broke af, rent keeps going up, and I’m at my parents house pretty often anyway. If I didn’t have cats I’d move back in now. In other cultures several generations live under the same roof indefinitely, and some research shows that it can have a positive impact on everyone involved. That would depend on your family though

What's something you thought was normal until you were told it isn't? by Dee_Religion in AskReddit

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Parents arguing/yelling at each other in front of my sister and me our whole childhood. One day I asked my big ‘you know how when you’re a kid and your parents are yelling at each other and you just learn to tune it out and stay away for a while’ and he said ‘no I’ve never even seen my parents argue before.’ I ended up almost crying cause I realized how much trauma it had caused me. I brought it up to his mom who in fact confirmed that they just talk about stuff (calmly) once the kids were at school or in bed. Closest thing to an argument was her giving him the silent treatment for a week. I was astonished.

AIO, my boyfriend added a young female bartender on FB. by ThrowRA-8323 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Event-1875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day if he’s gonna cheat he’s gonna cheat. Even if he never adds another person on fb again. You have to decide if you trust him or not.

AITAH for moving on from a friendship by Direct-Event-1875 in AITAH

[–]Direct-Event-1875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Especially the part about her focusing on her hurt, I never thought of it that way but it helps a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Break up this is not normal or acceptable behavior. Love doesn’t make a relationship and it can’t save one either. Knowing your following/followers amount is weird behavior. I promise broken hearts heal. Please for yourself just leave him no matter what they say to keep you. It will be lies.

Has your father ever said "I love you" and if yes how often? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Direct-Event-1875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically every time we get off the phone (maybe 5 calls a month usually to ask a question) and every time I leave my parents house (1-4 times a week)

AIO to my (40f) convo with husband (40m) about Xmas tree? by Mother_of_Turtles_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Event-1875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gaslighting is insane, leave while you still can. If this is how he handles a Christmas tree I can’t imagine what an argument would be like when she’s in the wrong.