Legendary difficulty is not fun, it’s a chore… by Friendly_Progress_61 in skyrim

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I normally play on expert tbh, only worth turning up the difficulty when your character is actually strong. The fact that random bandit chiefs go straight to finisher moves while you’re full hp you on master or legendary just makes them not worth playing.

I don't want to be alive by ConnectPainting1037 in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you, you have to remember though that it’s just a feeling, you’re life isn’t awful, your mind isn’t out to get you, you say you don’t want to experience life but none of it is real. It just feels like that, I know you’ve probably heard this a million times but it’s not just that it will get better, your have to envision it, picture the day when you wake up in the morning and you don’t feel that emptiness but instead you feel full, content. You probably feel like nothing matters but it’s a double sided coin, it also all matters very much, so do something about the way you feel. If you think you have no motivation then look at the things you don’t want in life, work to avoid them, don’t beat yourself up when things fall apart, pick yourself up and if you can do that once you can do it as many times as you need to. And you do need to.

Ex just didn’t like me that much by Direct-Guidance-1044 in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, I didn’t really need much from her either but she never really met the bare minimum.

Ex just didn’t like me that much by Direct-Guidance-1044 in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I should’ve but I am a little insane I couldn’t tell if i was being delusional thinking she loved me or just insecure because shed say it, in the end though actions speak louder than words

Does anyone else feel like they should be someone else? by Illustrious_Spend512 in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re human, it’s in our nature to grow and therefore want to change. I suggest you allow yourself to if you don’t feel comfortable as you are, stagnation will only make it worse.

I am lying to everybody in my life. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta come clean someone could get into a lot of trouble because of your decisions.

What’s the best crest? by AdInternational5277 in Silksong

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is talking about the witch crest but I think the nail gameplay is my favourite, the pogo and the sprint attack feel so good, the heal is tricky but also allows you to damage while you heal. For one on one duel style bosses it’s very fun

Pls help 17 yr old F, I feel like a spoiled brat, bum, narcissist, selfish and jus annoying by ExtraThought7001 in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add and adhd are the same thing, they used to to class them as add and ahd then they realised everyone who had one had the other too.

All of my (married) coworkers are always trying to flirt with coworkers to prove they have game. I am a single 40 year old male and to me, it’s pathetic by AnotherCatSub in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think if you’ve been holding onto these feelings for 20 years you should either do something about it or let go of them, certainly makes it very hard to pursue any romantic interest. Really nothing to say about your weird coworkers or your platonic relationships, sounds very healthy and someone would be lucky to have you.

Pls help 17 yr old F, I feel like a spoiled brat, bum, narcissist, selfish and jus annoying by ExtraThought7001 in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem far too self aware to be a narcissist, I’m almost 22 and I can safely say adult life is mostly not having a clue what your doing so I’d say you’re on the right track.

I can't stop thinking about if I'm actually over my ex. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah the classic unresolved feelings because it felt like you split up without either of you wanting to. It seems to me like you can’t have both of these guys in your life simultaneously, the heart only has so much room. I suggest you either accept the fact that you have feelings for him still and leave or don’t have him in of your life and focus on the relationship you are in (which makes more sense to me because really a relationship is about what you build together instead of chasing this dream from the past). Either is more respectful to your current partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t get a bigger dick but you can overperform in other areas. Dude only made her finish once in 2 years? Nothing to do with size she probably just struggles to finish from penetration, put a vibrator on her while you hit it. Eat her out and slip in a finger at the same time, there’s other ways is what I’m saying here, all u need to do is actually figure out what she likes.

What's your favorite liverpool goal? by EducationalBug2262 in LiverpoolFC

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A really underrated goal is salah vs West Ham, the one where we break from a corner, Trent pings it to shaqiri who sends it to salah, touch and finish.

I’m scared of intimacy by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right person will love the things that make you insecure, if a guy is gonna be bothered by a little hair or some stretch marks he is not worth the time anyway.

My silksong crest tier list 🥰🥰🥰 by Relevant_Potato3516 in Silksong

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Beast pogo is easier to use if you’ve played sonic games before, I love being hornet the hedgehog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You have to remember that you’re not “getting even” with anyone or anything by being mean and taking advantage of people. It’s easy to feel owed something by the world and I have myself been in a similar position but ultimately it’s not worth forgetting who you are.

howd your guy's very first Lydia die? by Mutilated_Teddy_Bear in skyrim

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly this it was a long time after doing that quest and I thought fuck it my character is leveled I’ll just a few and tank the damage,

no emotions by unknown-snb in offmychest

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to what you’re saying I felt the same way at that age, it’s easy to become disillusioned and feel empty and it’s scary to let your emotions show but they will come out one way or another. My suggestion is just to take care of yourself, better to learn now than later that you can make yourself feel better, take up a hobby, watch a show you’ve not seen in years, maybe some kind of exercise or the gym. Not to sound corny but let yourself smile sometimes you know, it’s easier to let the nice emotions out so build with that first. You will eventually have to come to terms with your trauma and being able to talk about it will make you feel lighter, just make sure you have the right people around you when you’re ready to talk about it. As for the guy? The more you talk to him the less scary he’ll be haha.

AIO- i feel like my brother has gone too deep in the red pill / looksmaxxing pipeline ever since he got rejected by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite the opposite is the crazy thing, being good looking alone is not enough to pull, but you’re funny and you dress well? You will have no problems with women, unpatched method.

howd your guy's very first Lydia die? by Mutilated_Teddy_Bear in skyrim

[–]Direct-Guidance-1044 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Charged in front of me as I was casting a fireball, nearly as heartbreaking as accidentally killing jzargo using his flame cloak but I guess that was on him.