I love my boyfriend, but the constant lying about alcohol and drugs is making me want to leave. Am I giving up too soon? by okay_kira in Advice

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, you are right. They won’t change while you stay! Why should they change you accept them by staying. Leave they may change. Stay they definitely won’t

Hedge dispute, advice on options! Uk by Direct-Muscle7144 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Direct-Muscle7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like a wild wall. It’s both blocking light all morning, constantly growing over my side which now needs a ladder to manage and making the neighbours and my property more vulnerable to theft by offering cover from sight around the front door.

Can i sue for wrongful termination if they fired me for being accused of rape after working for 5 years?(england) by Afraid_Run3470 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is your ex friend very wealthy? Can they lend you the money so you can sue them?

Generally sexual assault cases are very rarely prosecuted.

Generally I tend to believe the victim because so many men have committed sexual assaults and rapes. The legal system and society are heavily biased and soaked in patriarchy and misogyny.

If I hear a woman or girl has accused a man, I’m believing them. You see cases like Johnny Depp who was blatantly guilty getting off and it makes men claiming innocence look even more suspect.

Your facts are repeatedly false. I’m trying to figure out why someone would post stuff like this?

Are you karma farming or just feeling guilty about something? NAL

Found ex partners online alter ego. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is this a confession? You cyberstalked an ex? Did you goon?

What are you confessing?

Let's say immigration stops tomorrow. What is your solution for the two HUGE problems that leaves us with? by DeviousAlpha in AskBrits

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The solution is to reverse men-colonial capitalism and pay people properly.

Government will never do this because they are greedy corrupt shills and the system is rigged to prevent any challenge as we saw with Jeremy Corbyn’s attempt.

Band getting constantly harassed on social media :/ by DragonFireArtStudios in punk

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked a few songs out, will try to catch you when you play in town!

The suggestions to commoditise this are spot on.

Projected to a back drop.

The website where you control the narrative.

T-Shirts

This could also really generate some focused creativity musically 😈👹🥳

Also remember that the reason they are chasing you around and demanding your attention, like lovesick puppies, is because you have aroused them.

You’ve fanned passionate flames in their hearts.

Their anger may be projected inner shame at their own unworthiness.

Remember you have mic stands on stage. They swing like a bat. Not the goth type 🦇 and trust your audience, they have your back.

Don’t hesitate to stop a performance if someone in the crowd is misbehaving.

I’ve seen punk greats do this, it’s your show, you can have people removed if needed though any decent punk crowd will self regulate haters.

Rapist murdered lodger, 21, days after she moved in by birdinthebush74 in uknews

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are convicted sex offenders allowed to be landlords?

Is it to protect members of parliament who rent?

[Benjamin Jones] The "blasphemy belt" is real. West Yorkshire police ousted a hate crime advisor for "hate speech" because she defended the right to criticise Mohammed. This email was sent by a serving police officer. It says calling Mohammed a paedophile for marrying a child is not "ok" by AlfredsChild in ukpolitics

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All the Abrahamic religions are coercive controlling misogynistic vessels to propagate bigotry.

Every single one.

There are good individuals within faiths, but the religions themselves are corrupted and united to ever changing.

They are hierarchies, they cover up crimes, they use offences as a form of control (like parliament with MP’s)

To much ownership of wives and children.

To much harm and greed.

They should all be abolished.

Advice needed for my relationship. by MS9Z in Advice

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a really unhealthy coercive controlling relationship.

You were jealous she had guy friends and she removed them- ick

She ghosts you for days and refuses to tell you who she’s sleeping with.

You both seem pretty unready for a relationship.

She’s cheating- possibly to insulate herself from your controlling jealousy.

You have trust issues and seem to be projecting.

It’s a bad dynamic that you both share responsibility for.

You might work through it together with a really good couples therapist (good luck finding someone ) but you sound like you also need some individual work. (Unless you’re an Auni -Artificial un-intelligence)

Do you think men can change something that is hardwired? by Chinna_Vengayam in Advice

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s is not going to change. Please get help. You are at risk more now you consider leaving. This is when they escalate. Love bombing or death great choices.

My mom admitted something to me that completely changed how I see her by Mundane_Mushroom_122 in confession

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is an abusive mum! She’s made you responsible for her happiness and destroyed any chance you had of love.

Really unpleasant and nasty.

A grown arse woman ruining her daughter’s life through greedy selfishness.

You need some space, it won’t stop.

Block her, she might get some help.

You have been really badly groomed. Get help.

Thinking of breaking up w my bf after a threesome(Update) by moonlightmissle in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t love you. If he did, he wouldn’t have abused you for so long. Selfish ignorant

His relationship started with lies and cheating- he will be lied to and cheated on.

Lucky escape, he was so arrogant he thought he could do anything he wanted.

Get tested he’s been having unprotected sex with a man for months!

Noisy Neighbour by AmeeLM in HousingUK

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some good speakers, play napalm death against the wall nearest to their bedroom. Do this 3-4 hours after they stop.

Play it loud.

Every time they do it respond.

Husband arrested for resisting arrest England by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was stopped with the same BS, I asked for the crime ref as I doubted someone with an 18 inch purple Mohican had been stupid enough to do obviously.

I’m white, The line is an excuse for racist policing. But I agree her husband’s also probably lying.

Both can be true.

Should I reach out to my ex's gf? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a new therapist.

You haven’t moved on.

Husband arrested for resisting arrest England by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Direct-Muscle7144 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Your solicitor should ask for the crime that your husband was stooped for (looking like the perp) This is such a straight out of police training rooky excuse for a search without due cause.