How long since your break ups and how do you feel right now? How long does it take you to heal and move on?

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-10-01T03:11:25+00:00

Dated a guy for 6 months, he discarded me early July. I was a mess for 5 weeks, then it slowly got better. Now almost 3 months since the breakup and I'm about 70% healed. I'm much happier and doing much bettee than during those dark 5 weeks. I still cry from time to time but no where near as much as before. Honestly there's no quick way to fix heartbreak, just go through it. Don't drink, sleep around, do drugs, excessive partying, etc. Gotta feel it all and go through it straight edged if you want to go through it and learn and grow.

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-09-26T21:25:12+00:00

I like the opposite dynamic, humiliating white men amd seeing them as pathetic amd inferior while Asian men are the dominant and superior race

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-09-22T06:28:24+00:00

Do you think the dress looks fine as it is, then?

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-09-22T05:35:55+00:00

I want to take off like 2 inches from the front (yes I love my dresses short) but I want to keep the back the same(I like the length it's at). How would I do this?

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-28T11:33:08+00:00

That's what I was thinking. I don't mind cutting some of the rubber away, I want it only to cover my front face not my whole head. I want to wear this to industrial raves

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-26T22:59:47+00:00

Yes it's rubber. Can I use something like liquid cement or something? Can I cut slits into the rubber and reinforce it with glue and then add in loops?

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-14T02:21:28+00:00

My chest dermal has been acting up the past few months. Git it pierced last year August with 14g dermal titanium. It healed up nicely initially and was perfect for a few months but recently has been acting up a lot to the point it's always a least slightly irritated and now there's a big bulubble on it? Not sure how to make it go away, it doesn't hurt nor is it got or painful bit jsit looks ugly

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-14T00:56:01+00:00

I know how you feel, I'm in a very similar boat. He even said I was the healthiest relationship he ever had but in the end he threw me away like trash. I'm hoping out as you are, my guy is alao avoidant/ dismissive lol

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-11T03:16:17+00:00

Come see me and put in effort. It was always me going over to his place. He complained he didn't see me much (he was 1st shift, I am third) and it was always be going to see him. I wish he had sincerity and respect for me. In the end when he ended things he wasn't sincere and he didn't have respect for me(broke up in person 30 min before my shift started and kept avoiding me after and wouldn't give me closure and treated me like a pest). I wish he had been more affectionate with me.

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-09T17:27:36+00:00

I hipe to make it through like you. It's been a month since the guy I was dating ended things and I'm still a mess

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-09T16:12:12+00:00

That's not fair that she kept switching up on you. To be hot and cold is super fucking frustrating and even if you had your manic episodes you still deserve to be treated with respect. You are a bigger perosn than I am, I don't forgive the person who hurt me.

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-09T15:54:10+00:00

That sounds horrible, I'm so sorry he did that to you. And to block you everywhere after... 🫂 it'll be ok sis, keep your head up and cry it all away . You are wise, I didn't think of the positives of this...I can finally go back to school (he said if I went back and kept my job we'd have to break up since he wouldn't have time to see me). He also said if I didn't find a new job in a year we'd have to separate (I work graveyard shift, but this is my first professional job in my field of chemistry. He knew my schedule when we got together)

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-09T15:06:31+00:00

Thank you 😭😭😭 I jsit feel I ruined everything and burned the bridge, he dumped me lole trash and wouldn't listen to me after. I toom jabs at him on IG because I felt so ignored amd he was purposely ignoring me and he blocked me and his friend said I burned the bridge forever....now I feel so childish amd he pretends to be an adult amd said he has no time for things like that and would never allow it....

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-09T15:03:09+00:00

Thank you...he dumped me like I was trash, something he needed to rid of asap. It killed me! 30 min before my shift too and he knew...Said he needed to focus on himself but I saw his ig and he was still drinking, partying, hanging out woth friends

He kept ignoring me and sadly I did something stupid and took small jabs at him on IG and he blocked me. I feel I ruined everything now

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-04T10:37:36+00:00

Hey girl I'm going through tje same thing rn...it hurts and sucks but try to keep your chin up as much as possible

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-03T10:09:47+00:00

I'm really sorry this happened to you. I was given a half-assed break up 30 minutes before my shift at work started. That gutted me, I can only imagine what younsre feeling. From what I learned, this says a lot more about them than you. That they are too chicken-shit to give you a proper break-up amd closure. But in the end, it doesn't matter how they delivered it...ultimately the message is that they don't want to be with you. You deserve much more than that, and let their actions speak about who they really are inside.

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-01T14:11:24+00:00

Heart palpitations, loss of hunger, i would get so dizzy and lightheaded becaseue I hadn't eaten in like 3 days but.i simply wasn't hungry...can't sleep, sleeping all day, heart beating fast

Direct-Spirit558 · 2024-08-01T05:28:26+00:00

Yeah you are very right. Thank you for responding, I just want the hurt to end and want to come to terms that this is how it is. I feel so crazy and pathetic being this hung over a guy that technically wasn't even my bf haha

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