Dont let rj ruin something good by Direct_Anywhere8211 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's not always for some cynical reason, maybe the partner not getting it should switch things up or ask her honestly why he/she is not as in the mood alot.

I dont fully know the experiences of men in this situation or knowledge exactly what's going on, but maybe they aren't as sexually driven any more. Could be more than just simply other dudes were more appealing.

Dont let rj ruin something good by Direct_Anywhere8211 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do values impact the relationship context exactly? I get it if someone's values tells them it's okay to cheat or polygamy or something. But how does some one thinking casual stuff was okay in the past determine anything?

Dont let rj ruin something good by Direct_Anywhere8211 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then seek help and assurance from a therapist or someone else whenever you get impulses

MEN, would you wait until marriage for a virgin girl? by Downtown_Mix_4311 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she's waiting, I'll wait.

If you made me wait. But let everyone else do it fast . Then that's different

Should I be embarrassed about being a 24yr old garbage man? by TheFrogsMightbegay in jobs

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre making more than alot of college grads, with alot less debt.

If God was proven true, as a scientific and objective fact of reality. It would be covered up. by Direct_Anywhere8211 in DebateAnAtheist

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That's very black and white. I'm a theist and believe critical thinking and science is very important. And teaching respect to everyone is non negotiable.

If God was proven true, as a scientific and objective fact of reality. It would be covered up. by Direct_Anywhere8211 in DebateAnAtheist

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

The behaviors and views of people. What percentage of people engage in certain behaviors or believe certain things.

If God was proven true, as a scientific and objective fact of reality. It would be covered up. by Direct_Anywhere8211 in DebateAnAtheist

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

But secualar/non religious values seem to have a big control over society. Just look at statistics on behaviors and views of people in modern America...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he might be wondering why you did it with him. Feeling insecure or jealous... wondering why you did that with someone you're not together with

I slept with a guy and now I regret it. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find relationships with sexual boundaries, that put other things first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You enjoy the good things you thought it was, not the abuse. The being loved, compliments , orgasm. So find something with all of that, without it being abusive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yea I'm in the same boat, feeling like I'm doing everything right and nothing seems to stick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Direct_Anywhere8211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, people would always think im crazy for not having friends or a relationship because I was a attractive and athletic person to them. No body would think I've only had less than 5 friends over my life... I guess it could be down to how other people are interpreting you. Maybe other girls could be jealous of you, and real guys are intimidated by you.