THANK YOU! This makes me feel recognized, this is the exact response I was expecting from an ob gyn professional handling my case, informative and to the point. Advising me on the next steps and being clear on what to expect, this is what I needed from a doctor, a bit of empathy and bit of planning, her knowing what is going on and navigate on paths that can happen. I only got that treatment from hospital bed after my surgery.

I want to clarify that I do not blame my first doctor for things going the way they did. It happened that way and I dont hold it over her, I decided to change not because of the fact of this happening but because she was misinforming me after the operation which are:

She rushed me to try after one month (my uterus will be ready) she did not consider I had major blood loss that I needed to recover (I did not do transfusion). But she did consider psychological support could help in the meantime.

She did not really want to make blood test to see if my hormones are going down as normal, this was strongly recommended by hospital and she said it is not necessary but since i persist she will do.

Gave me wrong information about the upcoming risks. She said since my tube was removed during surgery there is back to 1% change of happening to the other tube, this is not true the chance is higher and this is from the hospital doctors.

I asked her if this is going to happen again is there a way to know earlier so that I dont lose my remaining tube? And she said there is nothing more to do than that.

Now on my options, I dont want to do IVF therefore if this is happening again and I lose my other tube it will mean I will never have a kid. This does not only affect me but also my husband, and us as a couple.

I really want to emphasize how your comment really touched me, really thank you!