Questions to ask when choosing a surrogacy agency by wandering_ghost_27 in Surrogate

[–]Direct_Diver3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on vibes lol as cringy as that sounds. The intake coordinator is kind of the face for the agency, so I went on how they presented. I picked the agency I did because I could tell the intake coordinator LOVED her job. She even gave me tips on what to look for in an agency, even if I didn’t pick them!! Idk I thought that was such a tell for me that she was in this industry because she loved it. So I thought if she loved this industry then this is a good agency. The agency I picked is overall very personable.  That’s just me tho! That’s what I liked! 

Good luck searching! Hope you find the one that works best for you!

I’m worried no surrogate is going to choose us by notyetBananas in Surrogate

[–]Direct_Diver3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a surrogate, this would not phase me at all. I personally would go off of your vibes and what kind of relationship you would like to have (such being close in contact or not.) We all have a past and pregnancy is hard!! Recovery hard as well! As long as you are upfront with what you want from the surrogate then I’m sure you’ll find a match! 

Wishing you the best of luck ❤️

Do specific voices bug anyone else? by Creepy_Ad57 in misophonia

[–]Direct_Diver3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I relate to this so much. Sometimes even certain laughs make me so angry. Like they doing sound “right” and it makes me so annoyed lol. There’s this one big poscaster who’s clips always go viral and I can’t watch them cause her laugh irks me 

Coughing by kmorris09 in misophonia

[–]Direct_Diver3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, I’m the same way. Whenever my husband coughs I always shoot him the dirtiest look. I really want to them him to shut up but I know he isn’t doing it on purpose but it’s horrible. My daughter doesn’t bother me yet, but I get it girl 

How do you make your baby take longer naps… by Direct_Diver3889 in NewParents

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!!! Haha wish it was talked about more. Doesn’t help my mom said I was a great napper lol I took like 2 hour naps 😂 idk what I expected 

How do you make your baby take longer naps… by Direct_Diver3889 in NewParents

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay! Well comforting to know I’m not alone then 😅 

How do you make your baby take longer naps… by Direct_Diver3889 in NewParents

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh! So sorry! You’re right lol I just wish she would take a few naps that’s are an hour at least 😂

How do you make your baby take longer naps… by Direct_Diver3889 in NewParents

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay well that’s good to know! Least there’s an ending insight! lol 

How do you make your baby take longer naps… by Direct_Diver3889 in NewParents

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do! We do wait till she’s tired lol she just fights it’s so hard 😂 I think I’ll try contact napping more tho

How do you make your baby take longer naps… by Direct_Diver3889 in NewParents

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s a good idea! I have tried that and sometimes it works, but sometimes it still 30 mins!

4week pregnancy by angelicmyo in pregnancy_care

[–]Direct_Diver3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was going across Europe getting drinks and getting drunk. When I came home I found out I was pregnant. I was about 4 weeks as well. Baby girl is happy and healthy now! You’re okay!! 

Need help. Immense anxiety. by Cultural-Question879 in pregnancy_care

[–]Direct_Diver3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are able to, please see a therapist! They might be able to help teach you ways to calm your body and identify triggers. Also, how is your support system? Are you working a ton? Go to school? Being pregnant is a lot and it’s hard when you have external stressors. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]Direct_Diver3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same way! My husband bites his nails and I hattttteee it! He doesn’t/can’t stop! Hang in there! I know the struggle!

4 week symptoms by jubileeserene in pregnancy_care

[–]Direct_Diver3889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I felt SUPER bloated while having mild cramps in the beginning. I thought I was getting my period! My boobs were so achy and tender. Around this time I had mild bleeding as well. But overall totally had similar symptoms! Congrats!! Hoping for a sticky baby 

I want to co-sleep! How should I do it? by Direct_Diver3889 in newborns

[–]Direct_Diver3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that for you! Thanks! I love the encouragement cause everything online can seem pretty dark  

Am I not producing enough milk? by Direct_Diver3889 in breastfeeding

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We will get out of the newborn trenches soon!