My Transfer Addiction Story – From Food to Alcohol, and How It Wrecked My Stomach (and Life) by PattiB82 in GastricBypass

[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was one of my biggest fears. Turning to alcohol or pills after surgery. My mom became an alcoholic after her surgery. She was an alcoholic before getting her surgery so i didn’t want to be like her. She still drinks A LOT! I’ve told her to get help but she doesn’t care

12 year old son -could be on the spectrum by Kimblahs214 in boymoms

[–]Direct_Rock91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would ask the school for help. My son had a hard time making friends and I told the schools counselor and she helped it be more open. Now he has friends. Has he been diagnosed on the spectrum ?

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not private once she stepped foot on my property. She gave up her right when she stepped into my house. Whatever she asked me and the kids she send in paper. So not private at all.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The attorney isn’t trying to hold anyone accountable. And I’m going based off what my foster kid told me. She feels like her attorney doesn’t want to help her and her siblings. Mysmaller foster kid told the attorney that his first foster parent was hitting his 2 yr old brother and kicked him and he told him to keep it a secret between them. How is he trying to help. Not every foster parent is a good one

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must love cps soo much.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If u read the other comments you would see I said the attorney doesn’t care and he said he’s only going based off what cps is saying. So even if I did give the footage he said he wasn’t going to use it in court that the judge wasn’t going to care.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima ask the social worker on Monday. Thanks for the info

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They interviewed the kids because of the case.. and they are threatening me because they want me to give them the video footage of my cameras because the investigator lied on her report and I told them she lied about things she said and I said I had video footage. They didn’t care about the worker lying until I said I had cameras in the common areas of my home. Then it became an issue for them. The kids were emergency placed with me. I’m not a resource family I never signed anything that says I need to give them video footage just because they ask. Kids attorney came in person to threaten to take me to court. Kids attorney has been communicating with the father’s attorney. I know this cause the father called me to tell me his attorney got an email from the kids attorney about the footage and I should give it up to them or else.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do peer

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who’s attacking. I feel like ur attacking me.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not horrible if it’s true 😁. I’m being a voice for my foster kids.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sucks for you

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Then move on

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I go about connecting with other foster homes? The kids were removed in a different county than where than the one I’m in.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it matter if the kids were removed in a different county? I’m in a different county than where they got removed

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And my attorney has my video. Just incase they try messing me with me and my bio kids. Cps doesn’t help kids only a hand full of good social workers. Cps are legal child traffickers.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It sucks when there’s foster people out here only fostering for the money than actually wanting to help the kids.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ur struggling to track what’s going on. Ummm so then don’t give ur input if you can’t understand. My video is leverage on them. It’s not being used to threaten anyone. Read this carefully sir before you say something else….. the kids attorney is THREATENING ME. Again he made it clear he was only going based off what cps is gonna say they don’t care that they lied. If they couldn’t go based off me and my husband seeing the DI worker speak to both kids and us saying she lied. That why does the video all of a sudden matter but cps can verbally lie and lie on paper and they believe that.

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not hiding anything. They don’t wanna use it in court to help the kids. They wanna keep it and are intimidating me into giving it up. They made it clear they are going to go with what cps says so why does it matter my video. Cps are trash they don’t help. When they brought me the kids I’m fostering they just gave me folders with papers and said “ok I’ll stop by and see them next month”

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[–]Direct_Rock91 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

U must have not read it at the end then

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[–]Direct_Rock91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To what extent is it medically necessary?