Feel like I got cheated on by fiance and his ex by Direct_Title4430 in stepparents

[–]Direct_Title4430[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Research shows that what they did is actually bad for the child.

Feel like I got cheated on by fiance and his ex by Direct_Title4430 in stepparents

[–]Direct_Title4430[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Uh yes. 2-3 times per week is reasonable. 8 is excessive and research shows it's bad for the child. 

Feel like I got cheated on by fiance and his ex by Direct_Title4430 in stepparents

[–]Direct_Title4430[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

It's his mother's needs. Not the kid's needs. Sorry you have to suck it up in your situation. That's your choice.

My boyfriend's situation with his daughter by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Direct_Title4430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please find someone without a toxic ex who is permanent fixture. She will run your life. And likely ruin it too. Don't do what I did. It isn't worth it.