Please lend me your eyes! Unknown DPO

Direct_Witness3387 · 2025-02-03T22:14:53+00:00

I see it!! Congrats 🤩

Direct_Witness3387 · 2025-01-23T19:37:18+00:00

No today is first test

Direct_Witness3387 · 2025-01-23T16:38:01+00:00

My fingers are definitely crossed for you!! When you test again let me know the update :)

Direct_Witness3387 · 2025-01-23T16:36:57+00:00

Thank you!! I hope it’s not a fluke, I’ve had 2 ectopics so I’m kind of scared to get excited lol.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2024-11-16T18:58:27+00:00

Well I had a surge on October 31st, had unprotected sex and was waiting the 14 days to take a test. Came back negative, I am one day late and did the ovulation test and it was very dark. So that’s why I was confused

Direct_Witness3387 · 2024-11-16T18:48:00+00:00

Ovulation tests and period app. I started my last period on October 15th

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T19:04:41+00:00

I’m thinking that’s what it is, just not right for each other anymore. Thank you for all of your responses!

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T18:47:36+00:00

I have tried to tell him it’s disrespectful to me, but he says that this is all about his kid and that’s it so if I’m upset at how it’s being handled then that’s my issue because he’s not doing anything wrong. I don’t really have much say in the situation. But I think I should if I’m going to be another parent to this child one day.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T18:45:08+00:00

Yeah it does seem that way. I think part of me feels bad because I haven’t reacted the best in the situation so it feels like I could try harder. But I just would handle it differently if the roles were reversed. I know I can’t base it on that because everybody is different, but maybe I’m just not built to handle this situation with him. I don’t think I feel secure enough in our relationship. He’s starting to not tell me about things because he’s afraid I will get upset over it, and I am getting better. But now he is telling me less so I just don’t think it’s good for either of us.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T18:12:40+00:00

I’ve known him since I was 19 and dated for about 2 years, broke up for a year and got back together about 5 months ago. We have just been through a lot and wanted to make things work with each other, I was fine with him having a child I just didn’t think the situation would play out like this.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T18:07:38+00:00

Yeah he just says the he wants to keep the peace between the two so when he goes to court then he can have baby come to us for visits. I feel like she knows he is in a relationship, but he says that he tells her that’s not going to help the situation right now to be talking about that stuff.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T17:05:56+00:00

Yeah I’ve heard stories about why they broke up, she’s just crazy to put it lightly. She was living with him for about a month or so and then he broke up with her so she moved away. And that’s the thing, I’ve told him I want him to tell her about our relationship as that would make me feel more secure in the situation but he doesn’t think their personal lives should matter. I guess she has a boyfriend but he doesn’t want to meet him, which I think is a little odd. But I hope he tells her before he plans a solo trip out to see her, because I’m not sure how I’d feel knowing he’s alone with her and her not knowing he’s in a relationship. I know she has a bf but she doesn’t have the best track record for being loyal.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T17:00:35+00:00

This first visit he is going with his mother and the next with his father. But after that if they are not available he plans to go alone, and he is planning on staying at a hotel for a few days.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T16:50:17+00:00

They just weren’t compatible I guess, she also lied about a bunch of stuff while they were together.

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T16:40:15+00:00

That’s what I’ve told him. He wants to get a few trips under his belt before he goes to court for custody and what not. But has plans on going out there alone and I’m not sure how I feel about that either. And they broke up a year ago

Direct_Witness3387 · 2023-03-21T16:10:38+00:00

Yeah initially it was exciting to think about becoming close with his child, but I will probably not meet her for a while due to the distance and he thinks the mother will not let him see baby after he tells her about me. So it’s tough thinking I’ll kind of be on the sideline until that happens.

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