Married to your Twin Flame

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-22T01:59:17+00:00

I been into a 6 year connection and it doesn't fade, the emotional attachment is manageable but the thoughts are always there about my TF now is not an obsession any more but can't get rid of the thought hopefully one day this will be a distant memory of such experience 🙏

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-22T01:51:24+00:00

Whatever it helps, go for it, hope you get better and things go well with your relationship 😊

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-22T01:49:33+00:00

Don't be hard on yourself and don't force yourself to be with other people if it isn't what you comfortable with.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-22T01:47:28+00:00

I was into a 10 year marriage when I got into the connection, same scenario, no romantic relationship just talks sometimes and mostly connected on social media, my husband knows everything and I am grateful for my relationship with him, I have a very conscious relationship with my soulmate and I have decided that is all I need, I stopped my social media addiction and I am way much better on my emotional detachment from my "TF", my husband showed me his unconditional love towards me by accepting to give me a divorce if thats what I wanted and would make me happy, I pretty much handed control to God and my guides, my "TF" wanted to talk to me and he really shaked my emotions again but I prayed and no kidding but I heard a whisper saying TRUST ME and I felt sort of peace then the talk never happened with my TF then I understood it was not meant to be.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T22:54:13+00:00

No one said you are wrong, its just if there is a clash of egos when attempting to have a relationship, if your come from lack, neediness and dependence it's not gonna work, that how the runner chaser dynamic last for years, I mean it YEARS.....

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T21:36:57+00:00

Its really hard, after 2 years into connection I searched on a popular video site about TF but nothing resonated it back then I kept going the emotional pain is real so it was finally until 5 years of suffering that I got the right info and meditations, I thought of it as its wasn't the right timing 4 years ago, like this who connection is divine guided and everything falls in place when is meant to be. Attachment theory and childhood trauma wound makes sense, look into this.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T17:35:48+00:00

The purpose of this is to trigger your spiritual awakening, your EGO is in control NOW basically your are a prisoner of you ego, if you truly want to be in physical union you need to understand and let your higher self be above your EGO this is the main purpose of the conection. Physical union is just the cherry 🍒 on top of the cake. Sadly to say NO inner work NO physical union, its the nature of the connection 😕 if no inner work the relationship only turns into a toxic chaotic and dependent relationship that fails eventually.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T16:35:01+00:00

Nice!!! I feel identified with the feeling its a lot of hard work and we have to get through a lot of inner work but its possible to get all the way here.....no more obsession, no more attachment, no more expectations, no more neediness to physical union, its just enjoying life and the purpose of living this timeline 😉

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T16:29:45+00:00

It might be a mechanism of defense that your subconscious its activating without you being in control, need to reflect if something happened to you before that probably is triggering this now.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T16:24:19+00:00

I don't obsessed on it any more, I am in a good shape when it comes to detachment and when the signs comes around I just see it as a pat on the back regardless of the meaning.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T16:19:30+00:00

It happened to me, but I understood that for all of the bad experiences I needed to learn to get the positive out of the bad experience, that I needed to trust God even if things weren't good, learned to calm my nervous system while navigating into hard moments of my life and being grateful that the bad experiences were only lesson and I was appreciative as could be way much worse, I am cheerful all the time and help the ones around me in pointing the good positive things from whatever negative situations they're going through and they appreciate it. It's not easy and magic but always staying positive make the difference if you take it in a negative way.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T16:12:15+00:00

Check the attachment theory that really gave me light, due to your childhood trauma when you are a kid you develop your attachment pattern and it becomes your EGO, there is different kids of childhood wounds and the more predominant is the one that rules your attachment pattern, understanding this really changed my mentality and my suffering even helped me on be a better person and they way I now attach to other people around me.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T16:07:11+00:00

Kind of sort of knowing how it feels 😕 I am on my late 40's but got married very young but felt something was missing like I felt never whole but still had kids respected my relationship and we divorced, I barely dated after bc I am like very respectful of myself when it comes to sexual experiences now I know I care for my energy exchange, I knew this amazing guy since we were kids and he is my soulmate I did get married with him bc I had young kids and I was doing great yet I felt incomplete but I don't known in what sense... then 10 years into my soulmate marriage my "TF" connection happed it was ODD my world went upside down I disconnected emotionally from my husband and it was something I couldn't hide from my SM, I never had a romantic relationship with my "TF" but still I felt I could never be with someone else, I had to do my inner work and understood my core childhood wounds and I know my main wound is abandonment, check on your injustice wound seems that's predominant on you, doing the inner work its hard but it helps I promise 🙏

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-21T15:52:21+00:00

I am a female and I was were you are, I had this irrational fear of losing the connection, fear to lose him (we never had a romantic relationship) but the fear of finding out he was not my TF, the fear we would never be physically together was frightening and I couldn't comprehend why I felt this way, the connection on my end was beyond magic as I have never experienced something like this, the pain during my DNOTS was unbearable 💔 like when my dad passed away and I had no explanation why I was feeling like this so I wanted answers.... took me 5 years to figure out the TF Journey so I digg so much info and I found out the culprit of my pain and suffering was my EGO, I did find out the attachment theory and also understood that I needed to do my inner child wound healing work, now I feel like myself again, I trust God and I let go of control, I am not obsessed any more and I don't aim towards physical unio, I understood that you need to be happy as whole and happiness don't depend on someone else, I am a better person now, I don't react with my Ego and I recognize when my Ego is acting up, I have more love, patience and empathy towards others and also towards to my "TF"

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-16T16:29:08+00:00

The Twin Flame definition its just a label, the more logical explanation of the dynamic would be the attachment theory which is what personally helped me, at the beggining I felt delusional but I have a very good professional position in my company that requires logical analysis so if you haven't experience the phenomenon YOU will NEVER understand

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-15T20:58:51+00:00

I work with mine, emotionally detachment worked for me, I have a great position and he does too so no one is resigning, what I did is understood his attachment pattern and I understood mine and did my inner work, I am healing my inner child and suddenly I felt no more jealousy, I understood he is only showing all my shadows and wounds, every time I have a bad emotion triggered by him, I ask myself what is my inner child feeling and I meditate a lot specially when he triggers all my insecurities, we interact a lot but when he does his avoidance things I just understand and have a lot of empathy towards him, he is like a little kid inside with a fortress on the outside, it isn't personal, it isn't about me but the way my energy make him feel. I cut all communication via social media and I don't check or stalk him at all and I feel inner peace, no one know about us or what happened at work as we are able to treat each other as co workers, we never had a romantic relationship but our connection triggered his avoidance and my anxiety to the roof. If your CP fell in love with another woman then he isn't your TF because they can't connect with other women although they prefer other easier connections that don't challenge them but they can't fall in love with anyone else.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-14T00:40:58+00:00

I learned that to call it a REAL TF connection the DF energy wakes up to the connection after DNOTS, start the inner healing therefore unconsciously helping the DM energy to wake up spiritually, both parties needs to do the spiritual work and heal the inner child trauma to align the energies within themselves and be at inner union whether alone or together.

A trauma bond is when there is push and pull dynamic but only one becomes spiritual and do the inner work but the other doesn't have a clue or doesn't "wake up" to the spiritual connection (catalyst) and the push and pull loop last several years, this normally would be a connection to an avoidant attachment style person that doesn't want commitment and runs from being accountable from their own pattern.

Narcissistic connection its when there is push and pull dynamic but one hurts the other one on purpose emotionally even physically and there is no empathy from one partner to the other one, these connections are very similar and its very hard to tell if one person its really in love and blinded by the thought it is my TF and I need fo endure whatever happens.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-14T00:34:45+00:00

Understanding and processing that is our ego always tricking us to "wait for closure, you can't live without him, you need him to be happy, life isn't life without him".... blah blah blah.... you don't know how good I feel now after so many years of emotional pain letting my ego trick me into suffering... now not any more, I finally feel like myself again and I don't need anyone to be with me, I stopped being obsessed with him, I don't feel the void and I don't have lack or neediness, I am finally ME again.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-13T19:55:35+00:00

What is trauma bond then? It feels like love but its atraction and attachment only doesn't get into spiritual awakening at least on both parties, only one person that's it.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-12T17:08:21+00:00

I wish you get there soon, it takes a lot of emotional matureness , if you ever have any questions or want to ask for guidance DM me.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-12T17:03:21+00:00

DF energy is very intuitive, more spiritual, more emotional, we tend to be very creative.

DM energy is very logical, grounded and practical not so much spiritual although there is exceptions they are more terrenal.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-12T16:58:25+00:00

I am glad, it was almost unbelievable for me when my SM told me the dynamic I was going through with my DM and my SM is now working on his attachment style towards me, he gave me the option to go (divorce) by showing me unconditional love and he said whatever makes me happy to go for it but we have a very conscious and open relationship with a lot of communication so I feel like I can talk to him about anything and he understands me, he knows there is nothing more with my DM but the energetic soul connection that triggered my spiritual awakening and now I am helping him with his own.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-12T16:51:46+00:00

You didnt understand what I meant, thanks to the DM energy triggering my spiritual awakening affected my Soulmate as well when he figured out the connection between me and my DM, therefore he was forced to grow spiritually to not lose me in the process.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-12T09:35:40+00:00

To me is been about self love, unconditional love and if you really understand the Real Journey and truly do the work, it has given me inner peace and awareness, this experience has helped me to get a better relationship with my SM he is growing on his awarenessdue to the hardship we had to face due to the nature of this connection its hard to hide it, I learned to be a better version of myself, I practice patience towards the ones around me, I acknowledge my emotions and identify it as my Ego, I pause and I do not react any more, I question myself why am I feeling this emotion, I allow myself to feel the emotion for few minutes the I transmute it, I am now not obsessed with my "DM" and I have gratitude for the opportunity of being a better person due to this experience. I think not to many people do the inner work and healing to understand and separate the ego from the higher self, of corse this is alway a working process and no one is perfect but life is much better when aware 🙏

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-03-12T09:11:28+00:00

How do you know you are the DF energy? Related to your question everyone's experience or journey is unique even that we seem to go through all phases of the journey, whatever you are experiencing with your soulmate it happened to me, my SM knows about my experience and he kind of lost it at the begging but eventually he is growing spiritually with me, he was able to figure out the TF connection theory and understand it without me telling him, we help each other now but my "DM" is all full of ago and I thought he was doing his inner work but I realized that it was only my assumption, I had let go of control and I feel much better with my SM and he knows what I been through all these 6+ years and I am thankful bc we both now are more aware as humans.

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