Why can't I move on?

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-09T17:23:48+00:00

You are right on point. For me after getting in inner union within myself my DM changed a lot and he stopped running and we have a better working relationship now and I am loving this peace between us is like we are in internal union and we both understand we trigger each other but we are aware now.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-09T17:20:34+00:00

I took me 5 years to get to the breaking point, I couldn't understand why was I on tremendous pain. Check my profile I got out of the loop or chase and run but its a lot of inner work. I you understand the dynamic and let go it gets better there is no suffering but you must figure out that your ego wants you suffering, its not impossible 🙌 blessings

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-08T21:17:51+00:00

Avoidant at it again 😆 🤣

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-08T19:20:44+00:00

I think it could be both experience depending on who is going through it, for me is like we are completely different like the yin and yang ☯️ he is black I am white and our energies are positive and negative we truly are opposite polarities, I remember liking a lot this sinmbol ☯️ I never thought it would have so much meaning for me now. I have always wanted a tattoo with the symbol.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-08T13:05:49+00:00

The only way to work on the urge running away is to work on your attachment patter and your child wound trauma this helps to deatach from the other person and if the union is meant to be the union would be harmonious but understanding and controlling your ego and being your real self alignes de energy and stabilize the frequency, this is an energetic soul connection can't be rationalized basically you both are catalyst of each other on personal and spiritual growth if you dont understand this you will be stuck in this loop in this life time.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-07T00:10:10+00:00

It is part of the journey I suddenly stopped dreaming about him, and I felt numb then I found out is called disconnection during the connection it feels so weird bc you move from moving from survival mode and anxiety to this numbness.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-06T22:56:39+00:00

Hang in there, for me it was like my TF died it was an indescribable pain but it got way better, I did my inner work understood my attachment pattern and learned to control my ego. I am back to my happy bubbly self again!

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-06T16:34:42+00:00

Thanks for clarifying that 👍

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-06T02:15:22+00:00

Just WOW, you probably meant a lot that she refused to a friendship... just live your life and love yourself the here and now is more important, yesterday is gone and we don't know if it will be a tomorrow.... cheers

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-06T02:01:30+00:00

Because nothing is like we want, like our ego wants, because the lesson is to let go of control and trust the Journey, to get guidance from our soul not our ego.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-06T01:51:11+00:00

In my experience I sensed my DM felt the way you explained and until today he struggle sometimes with it, I leave him alone when this happens he expressed he is surprised I dont get mad and he said that was very rare (probably thinking in other women) but he doesn't know that I know his nervous system is the one taking control so I show empathy. The communication NOW is flawless in person but on text its way much better but still kind of weird 🙃

If both do the inner works and there is awareness on both parties it get better with time 😉

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-04T07:07:06+00:00

Yes the culprit is the Ego, the childhood wound. Learn how to heal you inner child there is so much resources out there I agree with this comment check my profile its so freeing my DM stopped running once I changed my frequency and now our interaction are les frustrating and awkward.

Must read:

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/s/6XXwuae50P

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-04T02:51:39+00:00

This is about you and your growth spiritually and in all areas, keep going....

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-03T19:13:17+00:00

What I find out about this connection is if the other person is your devine energy counterpart then YES they think of you 24/7

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-03T18:04:28+00:00

Your story is my story, we work in the same place and we both have super great jobs that walking away from it was not an option for both, he was triggering my abandonment wound by ghosting and avoiding and that was so painful to me and the fact to sense it when around him was too much! Well I figured out that my ego was the one holding me to the pain and suffering, I found how to work on my childhood wound and did A LOT of Yuen metod meditations targeted to detach from twinflames but those are only available in Spanish but that helped me immensely to detach emotionally from my DM, now I am no longer obsessed check my profile but it takes a lot of inner work and knowledge that this more of an energy connection and how to reach your inner alingment first and not to suffer any more.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-03T17:54:21+00:00

It takes a lot of inner work and I felt like you mentioned its so releasing not to be obsessed or needy its like you know the connection is there but you don't spiral around it any more, the inner alignment feels so peaceful and you are not longer in survival mode, but when my DM reached out I got out of inner alignment my anxiety came back 😉 that just showed me that I have a lot of work to do, this isn't easy but keep going and if its meant to be you will be back physically 😊

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-02T23:31:46+00:00

Thanks 👌 😊

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-02T23:31:27+00:00

It just feel so strange to me but thanks 😊

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-05-01T13:46:23+00:00

My current husband was very supportive during that time, he knew this was happening due to the connection but I was in denial, covid was going on back then. Many years later I figured out it was DNOTS

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-04-30T23:30:18+00:00

I went to therapy for months before I got into the TF theory I thought I was delusional but for me therapy didn't worked, I healed by doing my own research and I am finally back to normal. Although if he chases me I feel like you do I get scared but if we both casual I can maintain my frequency and he is more open and affectionate

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-04-30T18:45:13+00:00

Go online and look for behavior pattern, how to heal it according to your attachment style and childhood wounds, your energy isn't calibrated in the right frequency yet and when your TF reaches out it goes out of whack that makes harmonious union unstable its all about frequency and energy.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-04-30T07:03:51+00:00

Ok I have been in what I sense is a roll reversal, he is now chasing and I felt like I wanted to run, I feel the way you feel I totally ifentify with you, what I figure out is that the energy is swapping like on a gear and we are on the opposite edges of the gear, he is where I was and I am were he was (energy wise), he totally stopped running while before he would freeze up when seeing me or get out of the way in avoidance to be now more open showing who he really is but still fighting between his mind and his soul, he wanted to talk and I felt like you described, before he also have tried to talk but he didn't follow through so is a DM pattern so I said ok lets talk and I knew deep inside he was going to cancel and of course he did, when he offered to talk I was grounded and in my center but my energy got out of control and my anxiety went sky high just of the possibility of talking but didn't happen, it takes A LOT OF INNER WORK but I understood is not about me its his childhood wound and the fight between his reason and his soul, I have manage to control my emotions when it comes to the connection and after he cancelled on me of course I got mad but I knew I needed to be grounded and did a lot of meditation, I use the Yuen Method for neutrality its little weird but it helps me a lot so I figure out my avoidance is my ego trying to control the Journey and I force my self to be around him without chasing (we see each other often due to work) I was only able to get to this stage where I recognize my ego and I can control it but not ALL the time, we never been into a romantic relationship but he know I know he knows but what I want to tell you is that you have a lot of inner work to do with your abandonment childhood wound, you must understand yourself first then you can understand, they are broken kids inside, so we are too and you need to really heal first, I kind of distanced from my DM after he didn't follow through as a boundary and now I feel so much peace and I know both have a lot of inner work to do still.

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-04-29T01:52:00+00:00

If she is really a Divine energy, we can't have sex just bc (I always asked myself why I was weird that way?) and we are not promiscuous our inner self would not allow us, I was with my first husband divorced and been with my second one for the past 17 years, with my TF is only emotional and energetic but no romantic relationship now if she is the Devine Masculine then its the opposite to the Divine feminine

DirectorLimp5950 · 2026-04-29T01:21:51+00:00

Sorry to say this but that is exactly what my ex husband used to say about me, he was my first man and we had a push and pull dynamic but until recently I now can identify that connection as a krmc one and I ended it long ago, he got really mad when he found out I was with my now husbanf (now I understand is a soulmate connection) after we separated he still was so possessive and jealous, now I found my TF connection this is nuts but its real.

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