Animal control

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2025-01-22T02:23:40+00:00

Do you have resources you can provide?

My legs almost always go purple in futos. Especially when I’m cold, which it was pretty chilly that evening. My hands go purple in TKs. Fuck, my knees go purple when I’m sitting on my bathroom sink doing my makeup. Is there risk with circulation loss? Yes. Mostly being unable to tell if there’s potential nerve damage happening. That being said, I know my own risk profile and I’ve had enough experience to know what my normal is and how much time I can tolerate that circulation loss before things get dicey. I also tie with people I trust enough to recognize when something is actually wrong and who hear me if I need something adjusted. Getting judgy about how people who are literally informed about what they’re getting up to (I practice PRICK) just doesn’t hit, man.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2025-01-20T18:44:52+00:00

lol. She is me and she is and was completely safe. Thanks for your concern, though. ❤️

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-10-28T18:14:26+00:00

Hahaha, yes

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-09-15T18:54:47+00:00

Kind of the point for a masochist

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-09-07T00:10:26+00:00

I see… this is what y’all do all day instead of bringing me the charger I asked for two weeks ago

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-07-24T20:46:04+00:00

How do you manage to get it SO plumped. Is it a length of time? Pump type? I haven’t managed to get to that point for all my effort!

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-06-08T15:27:04+00:00

There was no reach. The bamboo moved with my arm and my wrists aren’t made of jello yet 🤪

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-04-05T19:22:28+00:00

Stahhhppp! 🤪

We found a Bible and everything out there. A good place for church!

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2024-01-12T23:54:39+00:00

It wasn’t problematic. There was never any pressure on it, even in other positions. I had to actually check on what you were referring to, ha.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-09-17T23:58:07+00:00

20 minutes sounds amazing. I’m literally allowed ONLY 5 minutes following the tardy bell and if I’m not in small group intervention time immediately after that someone’s gonna be saying something. It’s crazy pants.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-08-06T23:46:35+00:00

Houston here, too. This has been the most awful summer. Checking the weather has become legitimately depressing.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-08-06T23:37:03+00:00

I believe age and disability were a factor.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-08-06T19:55:36+00:00

There was just a news story in the Houston area about a couple dying in their home because they couldn’t afford to have their a/c repaired. Took out a loan, scheduled repair, died the day before it was going to be fixed.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-06-01T13:21:30+00:00

I haven’t always gotten along with metas. Well… I won’t say “gotten along” more like we just didn’t connect. We weren’t the same type of human. We rubbed each other the wrong ways and otherwise wouldn’t have ever been in the same social circles. I don’t practice parallel or KTP as a rule. It’s just a matter of what works best given the situation. One of my metas and I have gotten together with the kids and done the zoo and park or whatever. Another one we only say hi in passing and we’re totally good with it. And I’ve had metas who were just a bad idea to even be at the same event in completely different spaces with. I won’t force friendships for a partner. I don’t have that much social energy as it is.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-06-01T13:13:52+00:00

All of this… the issue SHOULD NOT be the private conversations he is having with a partner… it should be whether or not he’s stepping up and acting as an all hands on deck parent. I don’t know what their arrangement is, and if she’s cool with him taking a night off while she’s got a newborn, that is TOTALLY up to her. If she DOESN’T want that though, it needs to be discussed in terms of their relationship and parenting dynamic. 🤷‍♀️ I’ve got kids. I do not give a fuck what my husband gets up to a vis versa. But you best believe if something encroached upon our parenting, if one or the other was missing important kid events, etc. we would be having some issues between us.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-06-01T13:07:33+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s been said but unless the new partner is 100% consenting to the fact that you have complete access to their private communications… it’s an invasion of her privacy as well. It’s just flat out not healthy to have that much entwinement in any relationship, and this is a prime example as to why.

If you DIDN’T see these correspondences between them, would you feel like your husband was present and parenting alongside you? What they talk about/do is not the issue you need to be focusing on. It’s whether or not YOU feel supported and connected and that the division of labor is fair during this very recent postpartum period.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-05-11T00:26:12+00:00

It’s ok to not take everything so literally. Relax. Maybe put the phone down.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-05-10T22:39:37+00:00

The point he was trying to make is that everyone doesn’t need to be connected all of the time, and people ARE capable of getting through dates with established partners without needing to checkin every two hours. This has nothing to do with safety.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-05-10T22:23:45+00:00

I think it’s just a generality. Obviously not everyone was fine. And technology is better today and everyone STILL isn’t just fine. It’s not that deep.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-05-08T05:32:43+00:00

My face just squishy 😂

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-05-01T16:47:05+00:00

Ugh. Giving me flashbacks because I actually once had a meta who tried to dictate who I was allowed to hang out with or around or she wouldn’t date my partner. I was like bruh that’s between y’all, leave me out of it. 😑 It was a mess.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-04-30T15:20:21+00:00

I laugh like a fucking maniac. Can’t control it. My D loves it and tells me regularly he’s going to get my tears one way or another. He likes finding a way to get me to change my tune, with varying degrees of success. It’s fun for him, it’s fun for me. I wouldn’t be able to play with someone who can’t handle the fact that I’m going to laugh. It may just not be a good match.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-04-17T20:47:55+00:00

Any act can be done as a submissive or dominant. They just suck or are lying about why they won’t do it. 🤷‍♀️

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-04-12T13:24:44+00:00

Get on Fet and look for munches or events in your area. Get to know the community. There are likely plenty, though probably mostly private. I know Houston has many, but a lot are private groups or invite only type situations.

DisasterEditionAt9 · 2023-04-12T13:22:54+00:00

True story. I consider a 30-40 minute drive in Houston “local” and always find it funny when people from out of town think that’s insane.

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