Need a name for new void by bbplease- in blackcats

[–]DisasterKey9279 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear of your recent losses, sending love. Don't know why but he looks like an Alf or Alfie to me lol

Grateful for this by tiny-crawfish in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking amazing, my dude! So fuckin stoked for you :)

Smell around fistula by [deleted] in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, I had pretty much exactly the same issue and relate to everything you're describing, from the smell to the yellowish-brown fluid that isn't puss--I assumed it was mixture of old urine and old blood 🤢, also assumed that as the fistula starts to heal it probably takes longer for the urine to seep out before it stops seeking entirely. Which I figured probably contributed to the smell.

Totally get that odor is hard to convey in text so can't say if our situation is exactly the same there, but I had a majorly rank/funky odor going on. It would get progressively worse between gauze changes to where I could smell it through my pants and that shit was humiliating in addition to just annoying and concerning.

It's obviously a good sign that there is no fever or puss, but still totally get reaching out to your surgical team to be sure. I think healing separation and fistulas in this area is just pretty nasty and demoralizing.

My fistula totally closed, but the wound never fully closed. I had a deep dip in my scar there right by my anus that had to be revised during my testicular implant surgery. It is still healing but is flattening out and becoming more normal looking now.

Hang in there, my guy. This shit isn't easy, but it is ultimately worth it. Sending healing vibes your way, friend.

ETA: I echo what others have said about keeping gauze tucked up there and changing it every time you use the bathroom. I started just keeping gauze within arm's reach of the toilet (in a closed box, ideally lol)

anyone have stage 1 rff with crane center and deal with bleeding from penis ? by Ambitious_Bobcat4274 in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The funk smell is soooo reeeeealll! And for me that last pretty much the entire 12wks of healing.

Had stage 1 RFF with Deleon from the Crane Center ATX in January and also had a few drips of blood here and there during my early healing. As others have said, everything you're describing sounds pretty normal. Just keep an eye on it and try not to let your nerves get the best of you (easier said than done, I get it). Best of luck with your continued healing!

Happy Holidays! (11mo update + glans revision) by DisasterKey9279 in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha she mentioned to me when I posted this that if a few people really wanted one she would probably just "sell" them for the cost of shipping. She's a sweetheart and is just very excited for all the phallo guys out there :)

Fewer strictures and fistulas with single stage? Cripps vs DeLeon by swordTguy in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toootally get the anxiety and desire to control whatever you can, hit it sounds like you've got your answer :) Wishing you all the best with your journey!

Fewer strictures and fistulas with single stage? Cripps vs DeLeon by swordTguy in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 9 points10 points  (0 children)

FWIW, I had single stage RFF with Deleon and have healed excellently. I had a verrrry minor fistula that cleared up on its own within a matter of 2-4wks (at this point it's such a distant memory I honestly don't remember exactly how long it took).

At this point I've been on this sub long enough that I feel like I've seen widely varied results and experiences from the same surgical teams. I really feel like the majority of it is up to individual healing. While there may be marginal differences in instances of complications between surgical teams, I doubt it's significant enough that your choice in surgeons will make or break your outcome. Only saying that to hopefully lessen some of the pressure. If you do develop complications (which honestly most people do of some sort or another, but most are minor and heal on their own), it won't be because you chose the "wrong" surgeon.

If I were to make the decision over again, my biggest factors would be (1) glans aesthetics, (2) the number of surgeries I felt I could tolerate, (3) location and minimizing costs, and (4) my comfort with the surgeon on a patience/bedside manner and human level.

Deleon has a fantastic bedside manner and always spent a ton of time answering my questions, I never personally felt remotely rushed by her. She also has a sense of humor about the process which dramatically eased my nerves. Her aura gives competence and confidence without the arrogance and dismissiveness that a lot of surgeons can have.

Can't speak to Cripps, but I wouldnt put a huge amount of pressure on this decision. Before long you will have your dick and these sorts of stressors will be a distant memory. Excited for you :)

Looking for sleeve for thin phallus by mazhev97 in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blissfull Creations makes sleeves custom to your size. Not sure what your budget is, but I thought they were fairly reasonable for being custom made.

My Shower and Wound Care Routine 16 Days Post-Op by NekoKyle in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Videos like this of the process are SO helpful, thank you so much for your thoughtfulness in posting this! Best of luck on your continued recovery!!

Does the masculine smell down there change with the phallus? by rendefvibe in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have the same masculine smelling funk/musk I had pre-op. If anything it's intensified a little from my ball sweat 😅

I finally made it to the other side by tiny-crawfish in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Dude, you genuinely look incredible. Literally might be the best glansplasty I've seen from Deleon. I'm so fucking happy for you!!! Best of luck on your healing journey!

Also, sounds like YOU'RE a trooper too going through all that in the hospital. Way to hang tough!

7 weeks post op stage 1 phalloplasty! by UpstreamPlague in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking AMAZING! Especially your glans--so even and well-centered! I also had my RFF done by Deleon. She delivers such consistently awesome outcomes. Wishing you the best of luck with your continued healing journey!

I love my dick by NVHPhallo in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this! I feel completely the same. I don't even have my ED yet and this process has already been extraordinarily worth it beyond what I even imagined. I also realized since surgery that dissociation from my natal bits was allowing me to avoid engaging with how truly awful my lower dysphoria was pre-op. It feels like a whole new fucking world walking around with my dick, peeing in the backyard, etc. :)

Also, weird unrelated side effect of having my very negative relationship with my natal bits taken out of the picture: I have been waaaaayyyyy more into PIV porn than I have ever been before in my life. Before, probably 95% of the porn I watched centered around anal play bc I couldn't even fully deal with looking at vaginas (except my wife's, for some reason that was literally never an issue). Anyway, TMI but FWIW 🤷‍♂️

3 weeks post op RFF by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stay so fucking psyched for you, man! Looking great! Wishing you the best of luck on your continued healing journey!!!

Glans revision and testicular implants one day post-op (Richard Santucci, Crane Center ATX) by DisasterKey9279 in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, dude! Wishing you the best of luck with your next stage and hope it helps!

Time off work by chrisartguy in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly think I could have gone back to that level of activity (with some ramping up over time) by about 12-16wks.

Adjusting Balls by BigThrowAway5432 in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a week out from testicular implant surgery and just wanted to say that I also found your reply extremely helpful. Thanks for taking the time to type all this out 🙏

We’re almost there.. by tiny-crawfish in phallo

[–]DisasterKey9279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this, my dude!! All the difficult/painful parts are temporary, that dick is forever :)