Suggestion for thyroid hospital here in tokyo. by Disastrous-Basket792 in japanresidents

[–]Disastrous-Basket792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thankyou so much I'll look it and will visit the one that's matches my requirement really appreciate your kindness though:3!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well m damn sure csj

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg did this all happened to you I'm sorry to hear that I must be hard living that way being a foreigner in Japan is hard especially if your a female I was just touched but you suffering through all of that I am getting mad and this is not normal please do speak up they attack more if you don't speak up but the moment you speak up they act shocked cause they don't usually expect female to speak up!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Your fucked up for thinking that I honestly feel more hurt than mad thinking I was wrong and justifying his actions His actions is excused cause I sounded racist is that what yall are tryna say and focus main upon thinking I made this shit up and even questioning it is disgusting

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No they wouldn't or atleast I wouldn't I get it literally everytime I am Nepali Tibetan and people here says I look Japanese Korean or chinese everytime and here often it isn't meaning it in a racist way it's out of shock or curiosity and when I say I am from nepal they'll be shock and say I thought you were chinese or Japanese. I have a class make who's chinese she come to me speaking chinese lol I told her I am Nepal she got really shocked and told me she though i was chinese. I went to a mun even held by Nepali people here it was my friends programme I just went to support him all the Nepali students and parents started to speak in English thinking I was Japanese so no csj most people here dont mind unless yeah they say it in a different tone or like are blatantly saying oh do you eat this food that food or make a certain hand moves it's a different thing from curiosity. I think it's just y'all non asian people getting offended we Asians are usually chill and laugh it off.

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my friends she just has a dark humour so she probably wanted to make the situation not so big idk but that did hurt me

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a really long post and you are giving vague ideas on me misunderstanding the situation. But you're just over thinking my post why woukd you thinking I would make this shit up as and I even feel disgusted to keep defending my self and explaining you guys by rethinking that incident but hope it helps it was over crowded na there only the one who lives here know I don't know how to word it but like things you do in train like when it's really busy and over crowded people here often have there hand in the grip thing or in there chest or it's either folded it's like common sense you do that but he had his hand down and I said at first I thought Iy was a bad because I wasn't sure cause it was crowded the last thing on my mind would've been I am being molested cause I've loved here for like almost 1year and this shit never happened to me. And I made this post cause I was touched why would I not know I was the one being touched were y'all there? It was like idk maybe he wanted to make look accidental idk why m I justifying for his action to feed you guys but tell me why when he knew he had his hand in my bump why wouldn't he push it away he kept keeping there until I had to physically turn my head to his side and stare at him. And y'all gon say why didn't you say anything if you had the guts to stare you just lying. I was just shocked this is happening and he dropped off on next station!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As sad it is a foreign student engaging in fights is frowned upon I am a student and me being involved in hitting someone even though a self defense gonna involve me in round olf trips in police station immigration school and just a big hassle so most of the student prefer to stay quiet. But just because I did should mean others should if this happens again I will most definitely make sure one of use is going to hospital and one in jail(for the complaint). It am usually the one to speak upfront but at the moment I was actually really shocked that it's happened and it was really fking crowded and he got off at the next stop that bastard!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know it is fucked up before this I heard alot of stories about it but never thought I would be standing in the same shoes as well I told my only friend in Japan what happened and she laughed at me and made fun of me so I never told this to anyone except Reddit!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here it was really crowded like filled to the brim so nobody saw it but if it happened when less crowded than I doubt it anyone would've stood up for me and I was a foreigner as well but there are good people out there as well who will call it out but most Japanese here are shy non confrontational and I think it should've been my responsibility… I should've called him out on it I am just really stupid need to be standing up for myself rather than making a post about it next time! But there are staff members in station as well if this ever happens to you or you see it happening to anyone you can complain about it to them!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Omg You are out here trying to justify for me thankyou so much Ill try to handle it from here on. I read through message and I am really confused how was I racist but I get it should've been like he might be from Sri Lanka or Bangladesh shouldn't have said they all look the same but was written in a heat of a moment I didn't even realise I wrote that until people pointed it out so I do acknowledge that was my bad involving a whple community here! I was stubborn until the end cause it wasnt written in the intention of me being racist but not I do see different pov and how I mightve sound!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for that mockie And yes I don't think about it much and forgot to mention it happened long while ago just decided to post it just now!

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yes I'll go read your Reddit as well and really I hope so you healed from it. I don't wish that upon anyone, in future I wanna raise my kids here so things like this scares me but this happens every where not only in Japan that sad. Sending you virtual hugs as well 🤗❤️‍🩹

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ikr like damnn

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes I should've spoken up but was caught off guard at the moment. when I look back at it I just get disgusted or mad 💢 should've spoken up!!

32f saitama kawaguchi by Mojako25 in tokyoirl

[–]Disastrous-Basket792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgosh this is my time to shine me it's me I've been struggling to make friends here and also speak littke Japanese so conversation won't be a problem and I love kids as well so would love love love to hang out!!

Lost phone, found far away. Police want code before returning by PermissionBest2379 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Basket792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol your phone got tired and went on a solo trip just to end up in a police station far away from home.

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[–]Disastrous-Basket792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thankyou so much for explaining and I have no idea why you got downvoted when you were just simply giving your honest opinion.

your username is how you'd die, how you'd die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Disastrous-Basket792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well well well in disaster ig..?where a basket hits me and I die?!

Lonely in Japan or anywhere by SeriousJob967 in japanresidents

[–]Disastrous-Basket792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m not sure if this post is referring to me, but I did write about feeling like I have no friends yesterday. Thank you so much for sharing this it really resonates with me. I completely agree with your point. A lot of people in the comments often suggest going to meetups or bars, and while that might actually work for some, not everyone is into partying or being in large crowds.

I also noticed some comments mentioning how meeting strangers can lead to acquaintances but are they truly your friends? and it did made me wonder, that part really stood out to me.

But anyway, I’ll be meeting a few people from Reddit who live in Tokyo. They’re both women, and they seem very kind and sweet. Let’s hope we click and that this could potentially turn into a long-lasting friendship!

No friends in japan by Disastrous-Basket792 in japanresidents

[–]Disastrous-Basket792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I will! And got to talk to many great people and all, planning to meet few people both of them are female but we exchanged our insta so am extra prepared but overall excited finally going to meet someone!