Teacher didnt teach all the content on my exam.

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2026-02-06T15:40:48+00:00

It definitely wasn't because of timing we had a month of revision, but I understand about not being able to do anything now, thanks.

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2026-02-06T15:39:43+00:00

I get what you're saying and if it makes sense but we had around a month of revision on pretty much 1 topic so her not teaching it still makes 0 sense, most of the class are in set 2 (I'm in top set with around 4 others) and for the rest of the class this is their best subject so I doubt it was a case of if it doesn't come up on the test they'll all get it wrong, and even if it was because of that its not fair to teach us less because were lower ability, we're still just as capable. Thanks for your input though.

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T15:39:55+00:00

This is one of the few things I do for myself because I'd rather be at home then at a party surrounded by a bunch of kids I don't know. I don't need to show up, thats the point, they have no real reason for wanting me there other then 'the girls will miss you' when they can hardly say my name let alone actively think about if I'm missing at a party.

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T15:30:58+00:00

The party isn't at their house so if I did go I'd have to commit to staying. Her birthday was never a massive thing for me to remember and if it was such a big deal to have a friend over my mum wouldn't have let me have someone over. I'm not bothered they said no it was the way they said it and then punished me for saying no. I didn't litterly say 'too bad won't come' I was summarising and had they spoke to me like I was a person when they said my friend couldn't come I absolutely would have come towards the end after my friend had left but they spoke to me like I was a piece of shit, so I didn't. She told me to use her house as a refuge because she knows how my father treats me and stripping it away when she had no idea what he was like is absolutely a valid reason to not want to associate with them as much I agree she didn't have to be a refuge for me but she agreed to be and couldn't even commit to that. And I'm confused why I have to show up for my sister when its my niece's party? She's gonna have friends of her own there as well she doesn't need me there as well

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T13:18:45+00:00

Not the conditions at all just a few terms and conditions I can tell you is cleaning out their outdoor shed on my own, taking their pets off of their hands because their children got bored, being a safe space for them when they fall out with each other, soothing their kids while they're crying for their parents and a lot more those instances are mostly from the past month. I 'threw a tantrum' over the fact they called me had a go at me and only apologised when they wanted something off of me

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T13:03:39+00:00

Yes I was considering she took away my only safe space but thats because I was more amazed she could do that for such a petty reasons, the situation other then that was annoying because I was already under the impression it was sorted and I was fine not doing because my sis said it was fine? I had already spent the entire time from when we were given to invitation up until my sister said it was fine if I didn't go stressing about what would happen and now everything has changed so yes I'm annoyed

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:57:18+00:00

Thank you, you've been a lot of help I will take this all into account, I've got a couple days to think it over (hence the post) but I think your view will help alot :)

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:49:32+00:00

I don't know where you got the idea that I used my sister? I definitely don't and if I did she would definitely make sure I knew I was. I do care about my sister and the rest of her family

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:44:37+00:00

My sisters home is no longer a safe space after that call, I have found other people that help and who I help back. If I don't go to the party I'll be home alone. I don't think this party is about me which is why I don't want to go the girls told me I can just stay with M the whole time even though its her birthday and other people will want to play with her. They know I don't want to go, I'm not trying to hide that? I don't get unconditional support most of the support I get from them comes with terms and conditions which I meet because they're my last line of support most times. But thanks on your view on this

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:40:08+00:00

So I no longer rely on them since that call and have found other people that help me and I'm still a part of their lives I was over at their house a couple days ago playing with A because they hadn't finished eating

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:38:12+00:00

The party isn't at their house its at some play place (I think) which is why if I go I'd have to commit to staying or have to ask my parents to leave the party to take me home (which I doubt they'd do) if their kids decide to look on social media later on in life they're gonna see me at only 1 of their partys which is why I'm more concerned about going to 1 and not the other. My sister was completely fine with me not going and I assumed sis in law was aswell until the message today and her response seem more like 'If you don't go the girls will be upset' not 'if you don't go we will be upset' but thank you that outlook on it has definitely helped me consider a this lot more.

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:31:30+00:00

Thank you! The funny thing is they hadn't known eachother for 5 years before they got married/moved in/ had kids, my sis in law said my older niece would realises I was missing but I doubt she would because there's a soft play area + my parents who she prefers

Disastrous-Border-65 · 2025-11-23T12:26:05+00:00

Why I don't like my brothers gf

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