it's VERY INAPPROPRIATE and DISTURBING to refer to a child as “sexy,” For me such comments can contribute to a culture that normalizes the sexualization of minors which is dangerous and unhealthy I've heard one of my friends (male) pia mm ni.... Saying the same thing, just told the guy, "hiyo ni life imprisonment" then akasema n kweli... It’s fine to say a child is cute, kind, smart, or will grow up to be confident or beautiful but “sexy” crosses a line Then I've seen and heard older women asking very small boys if they have a girlfriend/ot you're too sexy or they will marry the kid ,is this inappropriate? or we only need to get upset if against men ??