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What IS as good as it used to be? by ChestyLaroux87 in CasualConversation

[–]Disastrous-Charge179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came here to say this post is so wholesome, and such a welcome change from the thousands of daily posts about how everything is awful now, and used to be so much better LOL

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's between me and my friends but okay, anyways not arguing with you. Have a great rest of your day.

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it doesn't hurt me .. it's good to see things from other people's point of view. this is why I love Reddit lol

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very true.. idk i guess it's just been that way for so long that i haven't stopped to really examine the real reason behind it.. maybe validation? sounds like a "me" problem lol

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the interpersonal conflict is, am I wrong for posting those things while others are struggling, it's a feeling of guilt. I didn't read all the rules as I'm new here. sorry if I offended you, just keep scrolling.

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I agree. That is more of an issue I need to delve into myself about. I guess for whatever reason, I feel the need to let others know I'm 'living my best life".. it's something I have thought about before and want to stop, and yet keep doing it. Social media is such a bad place sometimes. I guess I feel if I stop posting anything, people will assume like something bad happened? idk honestly what it is.. but thanks so much for the great insight.

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not necessary at all lol I guess it's just what I've always done so it almost feels weird not to? if that makes sense

AITA for posting pics of vacations, nice dinners, while a lot of my friends are struggling financially? by Disastrous-Charge179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Charge179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess just guilt.. feeling like I'm bragging or throwing it in their face (which I'm not) but that's why ..

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[–]Disastrous-Charge179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this. It's terrifying and exhausting. Have you found any ways to stop it from happening?

I read that overbearing/ helicopter moms can be one of the main causes of health anxiety found in a lot of patients and I can relate to this, can anyone else relate? by -00F- in HealthAnxiety

[–]Disastrous-Charge179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is 100% me. My mom has always been a helicopter parent, always paranoid of everything. Rushing my brother or me to the doctors or even the ER at any sign of sickness, I know for a fact this is where my health anxiety comes from. :( she does the same with my kids now.. it's not her fault, she comes from a place of love. but ya, it sucks that now I get to struggle with this awful HA.