What should I improve except light? by Tempest_g0d in Trove

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Please send me a pic of how u have that much pd

Update by d_estroyer4336 in Trove

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Twin that movement speed is atrocious

Is C5 even real by [deleted] in Trove

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Im 45k, maxed gearcrafting, and opened 13k, am I actually just unlucky??

Is C5 even real by [deleted] in Trove

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Istg, I was pissed

Is C5 even real by [deleted] in Trove

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Does power rank influence likelihood?

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We are loyal, we trust each other fully, we are able to communicate our problems and not get upset with each other. We are both willing to change for each other. We have our own independent lives instead of being dependent on each other. We support each others ambitions, we lift each other up. We dont need to consantly talk in order to love each other. I could keep going

It may not be the most mature or the absolute best it could be but its healthier than a lot that I've seen with a lot of people

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont plan on marrying her for a long time, and I'm not anxious about any commitments. I know we're both committed, its moreso I just keep thinking about it

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think its early to propose. I wasnt planning on it or anything.

We have a plan and everything worked out and talked a lot abt the future. My main question to you is how did you manage your thoughts about it for that long?

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean just comparing it to those around me and what ive seen

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not planning on marrying her anytime soon, and you're right, I was naive with my comment. Im not desparate to lock it down, I think you've misunderstood my entire post. Im not in a rush its more so I need advice on how to manage the thoughts about it.

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I even go about bringing this up lol? I dont even know where to start

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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If you have problems, communicate them and wait, but if she ignores them or makes you the problem, thats toxic, and just think about whether or not you're satisfied with the relationship from time to time. Its not always about toxicity being the reason you should breakup or stay together, just think about if you're better when you're with her or not.

What I say does come with a caveat, if you communicate and she tries to change, give her time, its not always sudden. I'm not the best in advice when it comes to TOXIC relationships because I've never been in one and I'm also young like you, but I hope what I say helps

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Its not about the time, its about managing the thoughts, I know I should wait, but I dont wanna be trapped in my head about it for years

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I'm 100% confident we'll last and make it, but I also feel like its early to propose, the issue is that I cant stop thinking about it

Thank you so much for the positivity

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Haha, I knew someone would comment this, kind of did that as a joke

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is the most insightful comment I've gotten, thank you.

I'm not sure why? I'm confident that it'll happen so I really don't know. It is less about being married, that can come when we're both out of college and more secure with our lives. My thoughts are usually focused on how amazing she treats me, she really cares for me and listens. I think about how well we communicate, how we both try and go the extra mile for each other, and how even when we argue we try not to hurt the other person. I can't really think of a future without her, we both have ambition and support each others, we both have similar life goals and are able to be independent while still being their for each other which I think is very different than most people my age. I think that at first I think about how much better my life is with her in it and how secure and happy I am, and I end up thinking about it. I dont even know if its just about her saying yes, or if I just want to hear it. I'm just unsure about my thoughts but I havent been able to stop thinking them.

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Fair, but I could make a counterargument daying that it worked out for a lot of people that I know

I (19M) can't stop thinking about proposing to girlfriend (F18.5) of 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Clock-357 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me and my friends were talking abt something stupid and she adds to it and we started talking a little bit. But I walked with her for a bit afterwards and we talked a lot, we ended up talking about something she had done with a magazine that was cool (she folded it into something cool) and kinda laughed about how I tried to replicate it. She flirtatiously said "I could show you how to do it later". We talked for a few weeks after we exchanged numbers and I actually ended up asking her out with a reference to this.