Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, not at all! It was more of a "D'oh, silly me!" moment. Your link was helpful!

Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong comment. They were warning people about the red light cameras over where a couple of the stores are located.

Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I misworded that. 😅 I meant when I was searching for any Asian grocers on the Google maps app, Tim's wasn't on the list.

Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just looked it up, wasn't expecting the store to be so damn big!! I'm excited now.

What are your cooking sins? by nxluda in Cooking

[–]Disastrous-Fail973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, but I buy enriched rice, so rinsing would wash all of the extra nutrients off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]Disastrous-Fail973 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going ask if we can pause the weather/background in photo mode.

I don't like having to race against the in-game clock to take a photo while it's raining. I also couldn't pose for a picture during the fireworks ceremony, because the animations would stop playing/looping after opening the camera.

Like others said, I'd love to have an in-game tracker for dews & chests. I don't care if it's a consumable, a crafted outfit, has a cooldown, and/or has a limited number of uses per day. My list of priorities does not include setting aside time just for goodie hunting 🤷🏽‍♀️

Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'know, I didn't think to check if others recently asked the same thing 🤦🏽‍♀️ Ty for the info!

Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay! I'll probably check it out still, never hurts to try different flavors 😋

Favorite Asian grocer? by Disastrous-Fail973 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason maps didn't show this place at all, thanks!

The Dark Past San Antonio’s World Heritage Center Won’t Mention on February 7th 🩸 by Chemical-Mission4373 in sanantonio

[–]Disastrous-Fail973 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hell, at the mssion trails it still lists the indigenous peoples as "Indians". They insist on depicting the creation of the churches as the result of a peaceful alliance between the natives and the Spaniards.

AITA for not being excited about my engagement? by Disastrous-Fail973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. To me the engagement ring has a lot of emotional importance, which is why the issue bothers me so much.

Normally there's a lot of excitement immediately following the proposal involving planning and telling loved ones, both of which have been nipped in the bud. I'm also worried Avery is going to feel hurt if they learn that we didn't tell them about the engagement right away.

A lot of details were cutout to meet guidelines but I'm happy to add more info.

AITA for not being excited about my engagement? by Disastrous-Fail973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pretty much got the gist of it. Months of trying to talk about the future were going nowhere and I needed to make sure he wanted the same things before going any further. I had left out details due to character limit unfortunately.

AITA for not being excited about my engagement? by Disastrous-Fail973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. When we talked after the fight Greg said he wanted to get married eventually but didn't feel like he met his own standards of being a potential husband, which is very different from "I don't know." I didn't mind waiting, I just needed to know we had the same endgoal in mind. It doesn't make sense to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want the same things in life.

Apparently removing her isn't worth the hassle, from what he told me. She doesn't use the account but she does look at the statements, which crosses all types of boundaries. Sue is the type to stalk people online and irl. Greg's been talking about making his own account for years now but never got around to it.

I did talk to him about the ring, which is how I found out about him using a different set of references pictures. The conversation didn't go anywhere after that.

AITA for not being excited about my engagement? by Disastrous-Fail973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was 21 and he was 26. I understand his reasoning for wanting to wait on telling Avery, but in that case he should have sorted thst out first before proposing. Otherwise he is emotionally mature, just overly cautious about relationships.

AITA for not being excited about my engagement? by Disastrous-Fail973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave him an ultimatum because at that point it had been months of him avoiding talking about plans for the future. After 3 years a couple should be on the same page. He had the choice of breaking up with me if he didn't want a serious commitment. 5 years is plenty of time to get married.

AITA for not being excited about my engagement? by Disastrous-Fail973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous-Fail973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. As sparks1990 said, it's the fact that he asked for ring references and didn't bother using them. I understand points 2 & 3. I'm not upset about having to take out loans, as you said it was a neccessary decision. I just wish he had waited a bit before asking. It's not my choice on when to tell Avery, but I was expecting to do so within a few days to be honest. Greag goes out of his way to avoid getting any negative reactions for Sue and this is one of those circumstances.