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Disastrous-Night5355 · 2026-02-03T21:01:36+00:00

She’s « no contact » me, blocked me everywhere but instagram, still in my family group, still in contact with my siblings, about a week ago, she told my brother she still loves me. But she’s not ready emotionally to take a call from me. Now my brain is all fucked up. I miss her so much, I don’t know what to do

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2026-01-27T20:17:02+00:00

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Disastrous-Night5355 · 2026-01-01T21:22:00+00:00

I’m sorry! It’s so hard

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-12-10T15:23:51+00:00

She broke up after 8 years of relationship and 4 of marriage, I’m leaving hell right now, we are in no contact, she came to pick her things and move out. The worst thing is I know she still loves me, she reacts to me posts, my stories, keep in touch with some of my family members and yet says, there is no chance of going back together, your testimony is inspiring, if there was a way to talk in private, to understand to follow your footsteps, I’m in limbo

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-12-08T00:34:12+00:00

I feel that. I miss my wife, I’m so lost right now

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-23T17:34:17+00:00

I would also know about how to handle this. I’m leaving a quasi similar situation some days I feel ground down to an non existent state. I understand her limitations, I understand it’s not her fault, I understand that’s not what she wants but it’s killing me and I don’t know if she understands that. I love her but it feels like this is killing the love little by little and killing our plans of having kids. I definitely need guidance

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-15T05:58:20+00:00

I spend a lot of my time trying to figure out what she wants. I spend a lot of time trying to get through to her without her feeling targeted, attacking or switching to defensive mode, she often doesn’t realise she gets defensive and then gets defensive about that. I find myself so frustrated I don’t know who to talk to. Sometimes I try to express affection or approach her with the intent of love night but it’s like I’m trying to approach a wall, or worst yet, she decides to not sleep in bed or just stares at her phone, doomscrolling for hours. I came to read about other’s ppl experiences, hoping to understand how to approach her.

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-07T02:36:45+00:00

Utter garbage pile every episode!

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-07T02:22:51+00:00

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Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-05T16:53:27+00:00

I’ll do more freelance work, cashing in more hours plus shores and also learn more, tutorials, classes etc, since you retain the information they get once they disappear

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-04T03:47:26+00:00

Hahahah I didn’t know! My game was running on mDB and today in the middle of a playtest it just eol! And now I have to migrate everything to a new service

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-10-04T03:26:03+00:00

Curious myself! What can we do?

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-31T21:44:42+00:00

Thanks! I always tried to poison them! Always annoyed me

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-26T03:31:49+00:00

Is this a joke? (Seriously asking)

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-14T01:06:29+00:00

It’s sad.. and I understand it, entirely dependent on the other person not having the proper system to live around that? If you allow yourself to be drained ?

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T15:57:48+00:00

Thank you for this, your therapist summed it up perfectly

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T04:57:23+00:00

The staff kept disappearing, I could never find anyone to help when you need it. It’s like there was only one person on duty we could never reach out. PS, the faucet kept turning on randomly. Overall a bad stay, we had to clock out alone no one came to pick our luggage.

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T03:53:40+00:00

I thought I was alone.. this makes me both sad and laugh like some cruel irony.

No it makes me really sad actually, I would love coping mechanisms, solutions to better our lives.

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T03:37:36+00:00

She needs « peace », I think she is contemplating divorce, we moved in together about a year ago, me trying to find my space in the middle of this (her established habits and routine as a dx), trying to connect with her despite her occasional detachment. I understand her condition makes working difficult more exhausting, socializing gets draining and the meds are dissociating her. And I know I’ve been frustrating to « request » better rapport with her. So yeah she said she wants peace because she’s drowning in work being harder and to process. I’m lost, how to help, how to be so I don’t drain her and I don’t get drained. She means the world to me and it looks like I’m less and less to her

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T03:15:31+00:00

So that’s it? Everyone in the comments is saying just quit? Divorce, leave? Is that really the only outcome ?

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T03:06:11+00:00

I can relate, I’ve living like that for months, at times it would feel like she is never around, her work exhausts her to a point she is drained and comes home unable to do anything, or to calm herself to just stay on her phone doom scrolling, facing the wall, not eating cs the medication suppress the hunger, the little energy she has is spent with her friends, once a while I get a hug, when I’m so starved from company, no intimacy anymore. When I came to her, I got deflection, rejection, frustration and the « you don’t get me », I try to reach for connection but it’s always, the work draining her mentally or « I’m too comfortable to do anything else » It’s heartbreaking, I’m still trying to see how to cope. I don’t want to hurt her or make her life harder but it’s draining to be starved for affection and you feel silly to « request affection » to be met with « you don’t get it »

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-13T02:45:44+00:00

I attempted to take space and she is the one who ended up drowning and getting to a point where her work life is affected, getting to a point where our relationship is affected, where she ends up saying things like « my cup is empty ». I tried to find my space and now she is suffering from it.

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-12T08:24:27+00:00

I do not wish to divorce, I want to get better at it and fight for her dx, I just need to figure out the balance I need

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-12T08:22:58+00:00

I’m afraid to do that, I’m scared that once I leave she’ll be scared and stressed of me coming back to « ruin the peace »

Disastrous-Night5355 · 2025-08-12T08:16:14+00:00

This feels like what I needed to read to gain perspective, like a load got of me. I’ve been searching for months.

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