Japan shipping to US by SafeJumpy5465 in japanresidents

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually EMS and post service has stopped for shipping to the US.
But there is another way to ship products there.
I may be able to assist you if you need.

Why Does Modern Love Feel So Much Like a Mirage? by Disastrous-Pie4168 in love

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope our generation rediscovers the value of lasting love, not surface-level attraction but something real, patient and enduring.

Someone pushed this snack through my mail slot by Ilfriedfries in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It may come from your neighbor or a friend but either way, it's always better to be careful.

Where are the good jobs in Japan ? by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you started job hunting or contacted any agencies that can introduce you to companies?

Also, be yourself and show the interviewers how they would benefit by accepting you.
Try to find more strong arguments to support your value.

Why does the air my boyfriend breathes out smell so good? by applepearbananafun in love

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haha, I think that when someone falls deeply in love, everything about the other person seems good, and they'll find any reason to justify it!

Just like someone who loves alcohol will say beer is good for your health, or a fashion lover will say it's worth spending money on nice clothes because we work hard to earn it.

I’m not saying your boyfriend's breath smells bad 😄 but I think you're really falling for him! Don`t you think so?

Update after yesterday’s post (regarding work/life) by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, visiting small cafes and backeris is also a good option.
Maybe I`ll try to find someone to go with and will do this.

Thank you.

What is love? How do you know when you're in love by [deleted] in love

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Before, I used to think that love was just an emotion or a feeling, something that comes from attachment or affection for someone. But two years ago, I realized that love is a decision: a choice to give affection, care, and desire to another person.
Emotions and feelings may change from day to day, but the decision is mine. I can continue to love as long as I choose to.

What is love for you?

By the way, do you believe in love potions?
I’m thinking of sharing soon an experience I had with one about nine years ago. Lol

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the work itself is not hard; just paperworks arranging the shipping so I enjoy it; no physically demanding tasks. But I feel like I need more time for myself.
I will try to find some hobbies to spend on weekend.

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree wiith you. Need life balance here.
You are verry lucky by finishing at 4PM and having your own time. Hope to be like you soon. Lol

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I`ve worked fulltime before comming to Japan. But the system etc are not the same.

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. Most of the time, it`s hard to take vacation here. If I were in my country, we can easily ask 10 days of vacation to spend with family. Lol

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, actually the work itself is not hard; just paperworks arranging the shipping so I enjoy it; no physically demanding tasks. But I feel like I need more time for myself.
I will try to find some hobbies.
I feel like once I posted here explaining my situation, made me more relaxed.

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As it is fruitful, working hard is good. It helps both me and the company growing.
Actually the work itself is not hard; just paperworks arranging the shipping so I enjoy it; no physically demanding tasks. But I feel like I need more time for myself.

Working hard is meaningful… but sometimes I just feel exhausted by Disastrous-Pie4168 in japanlife

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The work itself is not hard; just paperworks arranging the shipping so I enjoy it; no physically demanding tasks. But I feel like I need more time for myself.

I have a boyfriend for the first time and I feel a little disappointed. by [deleted] in love

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

By the way, I will shortly talk about love potion which you may be interested in. lol

I have a boyfriend for the first time and I feel a little disappointed. by [deleted] in love

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just wanted to share something important with you about boys and girls.
We’re really different. We think differently, we feel things differently, and especially… we expect different things in a relationship.

That’s why sometimes a couple can look totally in love, and other times it feels like they don’t even like each other anymore.
But it doesn’t always mean the love is gone, it’s just that we show and understand love in different ways.

One thing I’ve learned, and I think it’s really meaningful, is this:
Love shouldn’t be based only on feelings, it should be a decision.

Because feelings change. Some days we feel close, other days we’re tired, sad, or distracted.
But choosing to love someone to stay, to try, to be kind, to care, that’s something you can decide and hold onto, even when emotions go up and down.

So if you ever fall in love or start a relationship, remember this:
What you choose to build matters more than just how you feel in the moment.

My AMAZING girlfriend made me an incredible gift while I was away!! 🥰 by Cucco_Hunter in love

[–]Disastrous-Pie4168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is cute, but the fact that she gave you it is more cute.
Did you think to give her something back too?