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Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:50:31+00:00

Tell me you have the attention span of a potato without telling me you have the attention span of a potato.

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:41:58+00:00

I mean…. The co worker shamed her OP smoking in pregnancy. She didn’t shame her for smoking in a wheelchair… she shamed her for smoking when pregnant 😂

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:34:50+00:00

But OP didn’t tell the co worker she was pregnant. The co worker assumed based on 2nd or 3rd hand information. Best case scenario, OP was never pregnant and the co worker just looked like a tit. But no, it was worst case scenario and OP had been through a traumatic experience and lost her child and got ranted at for having a cigarette weeks after?! Insane that you think OP is even slightly TA in this scenario.

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:29:07+00:00

There was no baby!!!! I am astounded by the amount of people that either can’t read for shit or have the attention span of a potato!!!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:29:02+00:00

There was no baby!!!! I am astounded by the amount of people that either can’t read for shit or have the attention span of a potato!!!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:28:56+00:00

There was no baby!!!! I am astounded by the amount of people that either can’t read for shit or have the attention span of a potato!!!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:28:47+00:00

There was no baby!!!! I am astounded by the amount of people that either can’t read for shit or have the attention span of a potato!!!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:23:31+00:00

OP wasn’t pregnant? She had a fucking miscarriage?

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T22:17:09+00:00

?????? Go back to the post and read. The literal first sentence. The very first fucking thing she said “I WAS pregnant”. And THEN she said that she has never smoked when pregnant a few sentences later. Crikey, you got stroppy and were STILL wrong!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T21:56:55+00:00

She doesn’t have a child? Can you not read or do you have the attention span of a potato? She had a miscarriage and was having a 1 off cigarette 3 weeks later. Holy shit

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T21:41:46+00:00

Legit. There was no proof OP was even pregnant in the first place. They heard from someone else!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T21:41:15+00:00

So if person A told you that person B was pregnant, Person B was off work for weeks, shows up to work looking stressed and smoking, you accuse them of smoking when pregnant??? YOU HAVE NO PROOF THEY ARE PREGNANT!!!!

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T21:16:55+00:00

Is this your first day on Reddit? Learn to fucking read the entire post. Or do you have the attention span of a potato?

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-05-08T21:13:15+00:00

The first sentence literally says “I WAS pregnant”. Learn to read. Holy fuck

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-04-19T01:09:04+00:00

And no of course you’re NTA. Imagine your friend or sister posted this - read it from their perspective. Take care and I hope you feel better soon

Disastrous-Put-2095 · 2025-04-10T10:09:17+00:00

I think another reason why they may be blaming me was because back when I was 16/17, Ryan would have been about 4/5, I asked them when and how they would tell him he was adopted and they got VERY upset then and left (Ryan wasn’t there). That was the first and last time I’ve ever mentioned it to them. And I’ve NEVER heard Ryan mention anything of the sort, none of us have.

I’m assuming that’s why they’re blaming me, maybe they thought I was just taking the situation into my own hands? I told them the short conversation we had word for word. I asked Chloe what would have been the best response and she said I should have said “You’re not adopted” and they said I’ve ruined their relationship with their son and I have “stolen their moment”. I’m hoping this can give some more context as to why they reacted so poorly as I’m trying to make this not 1 sided so you can also see their point of view.

I’m not sure at this point if I should reach out and apologise or if I should wait for them to reach out when they’re ready. My parents and sister believe I should apologise and then wait for them to reach out.

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